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Unable to Choose between Children's Nursing or Primary Teaching

Hello, I need a bit of advice from anyone who is, or, are training to be a primary teacher, as well as, those who are/or training to be a children's nurse.

A little bit of context is, I wanted to originally study BSc Children's Nursing, however I couldn't get accepted due to my maths grade of course. It upset me a lot as I really wanted to become a children's nurse. Instead, I was accepted into BA Early Childhood Studies, which was my backup plan for that time. I was interested in getting into teaching the past 2 years, specifically primary, because I have a passion working with children. BUT- that spark I once had for teaching feels like it's going away bit by bit, it may be from stress, as well as not enjoying the placements I need to complete for my course, I did not intend in working with a reception class for my final year but it was recommended by my university even though it was something I did not want to do. Along with this, my heart still goes out towards Children's Nursing, I am considering studying it as a Masters (pre registration) course but I am still hesitant. Same with the pgce, I'm not sure if that's what I want to do, but for either route I'm mostly scared about failing or messing up.

Another issue is, I know well that you shouldn't do a job with money being the only reason, I would tell this to everyone but of course money is a VERY important aspect - must pay rent, bills, food etc I know the salary of a teacher is not that great especially with the amount of work they do, It's the same with nurses too, I want to know which route would actually be worth it, something that is fulfilling, can somewhat give me a stable/secure future.

I have to add, I read threads on Reddit where trainee teachers dropped out or gave up on teaching within 2 years and I'm honestly scared of going through that. I know, that's their experience and not mine but I just want to know which one is worth it? As well as, many of them spoke about how teaching led to absolute burn out and exhaustion.

I want actual advice because I've asked many teachers, careers advisors but they all just list out the disadvantages of Nursing and the advantages of teaching?? Which seems a bit biased too me but I get it, I guess.

—> also, if there are any other roles I can do in health care where I can support children and families, please do suggest them because if neither nursing or primary teaching is for me, I urge you to recommend any careers I can look into that are still health care based and may not require another degree or I can complete through an apprenticeship etc e.g. Maternity Support Worker

Important note!! I am at the time where I urgently have to apply for PGCEs or make an application for the MSc in Nursing - it's absolutely important for me to apply as soon as possible.

Thank you so much if you have read up until here, your advice will be greatly appreciated
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Reply 1

Have you got your GCSE maths at grade 4/C or above? If you haven't, and decide to go for nursing, you'll be in the same situation as you were a couple of years ago when you got rejected from undergrad pre-reg nursing.

I would suggest looking at healtcare assistant (HCA)/nursing assistant jobs at hospitals with paediatric departments or community areas which support children, or play therapy assistant jobs (one of my old school friends is a play therapy assistant in a hospital and absolutely loves it!). This will give you a brilliant insight into nursing - and whether or not you feel the job is for you - as you don't have to go straight from undergrad to postgrad courses.
Yes, nursing is a difficult job (I am a nurse - adult nursing, though) - but teaching is also a difficult job. Yes I work shifts but those are condensed into 3 days/nights a week.... days off in the week are SO underrated.

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by Emily_B
Have you got your GCSE maths at grade 4/C or above? If you haven't, and decide to go for nursing, you'll be in the same situation as you were a couple of years ago when you got rejected from undergrad pre-reg nursing.
I would suggest looking at healtcare assistant (HCA)/nursing assistant jobs at hospitals with paediatric departments or community areas which support children, or play therapy assistant jobs (one of my old school friends is a play therapy assistant in a hospital and absolutely loves it!). This will give you a brilliant insight into nursing - and whether or not you feel the job is for you - as you don't have to go straight from undergrad to postgrad courses.
Yes, nursing is a difficult job (I am a nurse - adult nursing, though) - but teaching is also a difficult job. Yes I work shifts but those are condensed into 3 days/nights a week.... days off in the week are SO underrated.

I was interested in adult nursing but everyone is saying the job market for nurses is horrible and ultimately the treatment isn’t worth it. Would you say you regret nursing? I was going to start this September but i might look into other allied health care degrees. Would love to know your thoughts.

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by Laura894847
I was interested in adult nursing but everyone is saying the job market for nurses is horrible and ultimately the treatment isn’t worth it. Would you say you regret nursing? I was going to start this September but i might look into other allied health care degrees. Would love to know your thoughts.


What other healthcare degrees are there? I was interested in nursing too but for the same reasons as you feel like maybe I shouldn’t

Reply 4

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by Emily_B
Have you got your GCSE maths at grade 4/C or above? If you haven't, and decide to go for nursing, you'll be in the same situation as you were a couple of years ago when you got rejected from undergrad pre-reg nursing.
I would suggest looking at healtcare assistant (HCA)/nursing assistant jobs at hospitals with paediatric departments or community areas which support children, or play therapy assistant jobs (one of my old school friends is a play therapy assistant in a hospital and absolutely loves it!). This will give you a brilliant insight into nursing - and whether or not you feel the job is for you - as you don't have to go straight from undergrad to postgrad courses.
Yes, nursing is a difficult job (I am a nurse - adult nursing, though) - but teaching is also a difficult job. Yes I work shifts but those are condensed into 3 days/nights a week.... days off in the week are SO underrated.

Thank you for your response. And I haven't gotten around to resitting maths due to mostly having a packed schedule right now, and also costs. I've just been trying to apply for different jobs I can do with my current schedule so that I can afford the maths test. I am aware it's urgent for me to get it done especially for any NHS job.

Also, I didn't know it was possible to work with children only as a HCA or even nursing assistant, I always heard you have to work with all age ranges, but didn't know you can do only one route. I will definitely apply to those roles and even the health play therapy assistant!

If you don't mind me asking, do you like your schedule?

I appreciate your words a lot, it helped with giving clarity honestly. And love what nurses do 🫶 absolute inspiration

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by head-m'lord
Thank you for your response. And I haven't gotten around to resitting maths due to mostly having a packed schedule right now, and also costs. I've just been trying to apply for different jobs I can do with my current schedule so that I can afford the maths test. I am aware it's urgent for me to get it done especially for any NHS job.
Also, I didn't know it was possible to work with children only as a HCA or even nursing assistant, I always heard you have to work with all age ranges, but didn't know you can do only one route. I will definitely apply to those roles and even the health play therapy assistant!
If you don't mind me asking, do you like your schedule?
I appreciate your words a lot, it helped with giving clarity honestly. And love what nurses do 🫶 absolute inspiration

In terms of being a HCA/nursing assistant (same thing), you work for the team/ward you are assigned to. Vacancies are either advertised as for a specific ward/unit/team, or "corporate" (where there are multiple vacancies across the hospital/community area and you can be offered any one of those vacancies).

My NHS rota is what it is - any 3 days or nights to cover the 24 hour period and to keep ward staffing levels safe. My team do get a certain number of requests each month (within reason) for days off/in work.

Reply 6

What about a speech and language role?

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