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What’s one thing you wish you had known before starting university?

Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Reply 1

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by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!
Hi there!

One thing I really wish I’d known before starting uni is just how busy the first week can feel! You’ll meet loads of new people, try out lots of societies and events, and everything happens all at once. It definitely settles down after that, though, so don’t worry if it feels a bit overwhelming at first.

My biggest tip is to take things at your own pace. Make the most of the opportunities, but also give yourself time to rest and recharge. Everyone finds their own balance, and there’s no right way to spend your first week.

Eloise
Third Year Psychology Student

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by EdgeHillStudent1
Hi there!
One thing I really wish I’d known before starting uni is just how busy the first week can feel! You’ll meet loads of new people, try out lots of societies and events, and everything happens all at once. It definitely settles down after that, though, so don’t worry if it feels a bit overwhelming at first.
My biggest tip is to take things at your own pace. Make the most of the opportunities, but also give yourself time to rest and recharge. Everyone finds their own balance, and there’s no right way to spend your first week.
Eloise
Third Year Psychology Student

Thank you so much, Eloise! That’s really helpful to know. I’ve heard people talk about “freshers’ week”, but I didn’t realise how intense it can actually feel. It’s good to hear that things calm down afterwards.
I really like your advice about taking everything at my own pace. I’m definitely excited to try new things, but I think remembering to rest and not push myself too much will make it easier to enjoy the experience.
Thanks again for sharing your perspective it’s great to hear from someone already in their third year!

Reply 3

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by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hey @Anhelina01 , this is a really good question that I am sure will help many people! As a third year student, I think I can definitely answer this haha, and I hope it is helpful!

To summarise, I would probably say: Uni is basically a mix of freedom, questionable cooking, good and bad decisions, personal growth. But all of it will be okay! So:

1.

You do not become instantly organised just because you buy a planner!

Okay so I learnt that good habits take time, and it's completely normal to need a few weeks or months to find a routine that works for you. Once I found mine, it has been smooth sailing (somewhat) since!

1.

Freshers' Week is not a deadline for making lifelong friends

Real friendships build gradually through shared classes, societies and those random 'we are suffering through the same assignment' conversations. I had no idea that I would make one of my best friends in a Critical Legal Thinking class 😂

1.

Saying "no" is a skill worth learning early

I used to struggle with this and thought it was no big deal. But I would definitely tell past me to get it together and learn it immediately. Whether it’s nights out, group projects, or living situations, setting boundaries doesn’t make you difficult, it makes your life healthier.

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Frozen food is a lifesaver

Trust me, I used to doubt it but it is affordable, lasts forever and saves you from letting fresh groceries expire during busy weeks.

1.

Everything is figuring things out behind the scenes

I used to think everyone else was so put together, and I was just this damsel in distress! However, I would tell myself, even the most confident people are just navigating things as they go, so there’s no need to compare your progress to theirs!

1.

Your wellbeing matters more than maintaining a perfect student image

I used to glamourise crashing out. However, burnout isn’t a badge of honour. Rest, support, and balance are part of success, not detours from it.

1.

Uni is not one big experience: It's a collection of small and meaningful moments

Uni is certainly not what you see on TV, where people break into song here and there, or where by third year you learn the meaning of life.

Late-night chats, new interests, unexpected friendships, and personal wins all add up to something special.

Honestly, I would definitely say university is what you make it. And savour every moment because it moves by faster than you would think.

Ru
BCU student rep.
Hi everyone,

One thing I really, genuinely wish I'd known before uni:

You do not have to spend all of your time working.

Of course you need to engage and put effort into your course and assignments, but unlike school, this does not need to take up all of your time. Uni is also a chance to get involved with things - join societies, work part-time, get involved with research, see friends, explore a new town and is about far more than just academics. Its important to make uni a fun and rounded experience for yourself!
Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hi @Anhelina01

Here’s a couple things I wish I knew before starting uni!

1.

Fresher’s week will be one of your most busiest weeks (as someone has already mentioned)

This is so so true! You’ll be going to tons of event and meet a lot of new people. However, knowing this now definitely invest in some cold and flu tablets, tissues and electrolytes - a lot of people get ill very quickly and fresher’s flu is no joke 😅

1.

Find your best study habits

I would say to save a load of your time try to learn your best study habits early. So what time you work best in the day, do you prefer taking notes digitally or on paper, where do you work best (in a library?)…

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TikTok is actually really good for learning to cook

It’s honestly a time saver to meal plan and prep! TikTok has a large foodie community that always giving out food inspos, food hacks and meal prepping ideas.

1.

Join a society!

This is a big one for me. In first year I didn’t join any societies and let me tell you I missed out on a lot. I’m now part of the geography, rowing and crochet society, and it’s honestly such an amazing way to meet lovely people, try something new and to give you a break from all the stress. Trust me when I say that when first joining these societies it’s super awkward sometimes and you honestly have to keep at it to make it worth it!

Honestly all I can say is just go with the flow because university will have so much to offer you! Try to say yes to all the opportunities and just enjoy it!

Hope this helps!
Lucy
3rd year Geography BA student

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by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hi!

Here are a couple of things I wish I'd known before starting uni:

Budgeting is more important than I thought! Of course I had plans to save money and try not to spend too much, but I didn't realise how easily your money can go if you don't have some sort of a plan in place. I spent more than I would've liked in freshers week and after this I tried to create a budget so that I didn't end up spending so much which worked out really well for me.


Going to the freshers fairs are a great way of seeing what the uni has to offer and even just finding your way around the uni buildings a bit. I thought they might be a bit pointless, but I actually found them so interesting just to see everything that goes on and it was also fun going with my new flatmates too.


It's harder than I thought to make meaningful friendships. I assumed it would be quite easy but even though you meet so many people at uni, not all of them will end up staying your friend so make an effort with the people you get on well with to sustain the friendships.


I thought cooking would be worse than it is and I actually don't mind it too much which surprised me. I like to batch cook and freeze food which really works for me and means I don't have to cook every single day which is especially nice after a long day at uni!



I hope some of this helps,

Lucy -SHU student ambassador 🙂
Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hey,

A lot of people say they wish they’d known that uni isn’t a single, fixed “experience”. It’s just whatever your personal situation becomes, and that’s completely okay. There’s so much pressure to feel like you should instantly make a big friendship group, settle into your course, manage your money perfectly, and enjoy every second, when in reality most people take months to adjust. A slow start doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong.

Another big one is how important it is to actually ask for help early, rather than waiting until things feel overwhelming. Whether it’s academic support, wellbeing, accommodation issues, or finances, unis have services specifically for this, you’re not expected to handle everything alone. Talking to lecturers, your personal tutor, or the student support team can genuinely make things easier before problems pile up.

People also say they wish they’d understood budgeting sooner. It’s surprisingly easy to burn through money in the first few weeks because everything feels new and social, then spend the rest of the term stressed. Even a simple weekly budget makes a huge difference.

And honestly, many students wish they’d known not to compare themselves to everyone else, whether that’s grades, social life, extracurriculars, or internships. Everyone moves at their own pace, and half the people who seem like they have it all figured out are just as unsure as you.

Overall, most of the things people “wish they knew” are about taking the pressure off yourself a bit, asking for support when you need it, and remembering that uni is a learning curve in more ways than one.

Good luck 😊
Arslan University of Salford Student Representative

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by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hi!
Here are a few things I wish I knew before starting uni, from my experience as a final year student:

Budgeting takes time to figure out - there are so many small costs that add up like groceries, spontaneous activities, society events, laundry, bus travel etc. I’d definitely suggest budgeting a bit more than you intend for the first few months while you’re still getting into a routine with things like grocery shopping.

You don’t need to find a “perfect” friend group right away - there’s a lot of pressure and expectations around finding your people immediately, but in practice I’ve found that friendships take time to grow! Some of the people I felt closest to in freshers week aren’t really in my life now, and that’s completely normal. I’ve met some of my closest friends throughout second year so definitely stay open and don’t worry about not having a friend group. Uni gives you so many chances to meet people through your course, accommodation, societies, and part-time jobs.

Try new things and be open to opportunities - trying out random society events, spending more time with your flat, or even just chatting to someone in a seminar - these things can lead to unexpectedly great memories. I was hesitant at first but some of the best parts of uni life came from just being more open to meeting new people!

Build a life outside your studies - uni isn’t just about your degree; having things outside your course like hobbies, sports, or even just weekly plans with friends really helps make your time feel more balanced. It’s easy to get caught up in academic and career pressure, but you’ll enjoy uni so much more when you create a full life around it.


Hope that helps, let me know if you have any questions about uni life!

Best wishes,
Jasmine (Student Ambassador)

Reply 9

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by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hey there,

Speaking from my own experience as a student at LSBU, there are a few things I really wish I had known before starting uni.

I did not realise how different uni would feel compared to A levels/college. You have a lot more independence, which is great, but you also have to be confident in asking for help when you need it. Once I started reaching out to lecturers and support services, things felt much more manageable.

I also underestimated how quickly time goes. Even though you might not be in lectures every day, assignments and independent study build up fast. Getting into a routine early on would have saved me a lot of stress later in the term.
Money was another learning curve. Living in London is exciting, but budgeting properly from the start made a big difference for me and helped me enjoy uni life without constantly worrying about finances.

Hope that helps!

LSBU Admissions Ambassador

Reply 10

Hi😊

I wish that I had known how much time outside of lectures and practical sessions I would have! I thought that once I started uni I wouldn’t have time to do many of the things I love, because I’d be too busy writing assignments or reading books. But this isn’t really true! If you manage your time well, you’ll be able to complete your work and still enjoy the things you love. Uni has actually given me more flexibility than I expected, and it’s nice being able to balance studying with social time, hobbies, and making plans to look forward to.

My message is just say that just even though you’re starting uni, you don’t need to turn your life upside down just to suit your studies😊

Olivia
LJMU Ambassador
Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hello,
As a third year student there is quite a few things i wish i knew before i had started university.
i think the first thing that shocked me the most was how small my cohort was i had always thought i would have lectures in the massive lecture halls like you see in the movies, however my cohort is around 25 people, which is no different to how it has always been in secondary school and sixth form, but i think i now prefer to have a smaller cohort rather than a big one, it has greatly benefited me in terms of getting to know everyone within my class and you have a closer relationship with the lecturers too and they know all of us too, which is something which i think wouldn't have happened if our cohort was really big.
Another thing i wish i knew before starting uni is how independent you become. I'd jumped straight from sixth form to university and the step is big, no one is chasing you for deadlines, it ultimately relies on you, you need to find the discipline and motivation to drag yourself in especially for those 9am lectures, as well as attendance the deadlines too, lecturers don't chase you to meet deadlines they assume that you can manage it all yourself, so the freedom you have can be good as long as you can stay on top of it all!!
many thanks,
Sanam - forensic investigations - Coventry University

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by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

A piece of paper with formal qualifications doesn’t guarantee you a Job.

Reply 13

Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi everyone!
I’m curious what’s something you really wish you’d known before starting uni?
It can be about studying, money, friends, accommodation… anything!

Hi @Anhelina01 👋

Hope you are well. That is a great question! One thing that I wish I knew before I started University is to know that there are so many assignments and tests but it is ok to feel pressured! I did not know we would have so much work and felt quite pressured at the beginning and then realised it was good and organizing my time allowed me to keep up and rest as well!

Another thing I wish i knew is that making friends can be difficult! It takes time to make friends so don't worry when you make some friends in the first few weeks and then don't see them again! Wait around for the true friends later in the year or the course, it is worth it 😊

Essex Student Rep- Lavanya 💜

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