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How do you deal with feeling overwhelmed at university?

Hi!
University can be amazing, but sometimes it also feels like a lot new people, new expectations, deadlines, pressure to do well, and trying to manage your own life at the same time.

Lately I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed, especially during busy weeks. I know many students experience this at some point, so I’m curious:
What helps you cope when everything feels too much?

Do you take breaks, talk to someone, change your routine, exercise, or do something creative? I’m interested in practical advice and small habits that genuinely help, not just generic “stay positive” phrases.
Thanks to anyone willing to share!

Reply 1

Hi there!

I can definitely understand that this time of year can be really overwhelming as a student with deadlines, coursework and exam season approaching.

For me, the best way to approach studying is celebrating small milestones. So if I've covered a topic and understood really well, then I essentially reward myself - either through a nice, small treat or being able to scroll through my phone for a little bit. It makes studying feel like more manageable chunks rather than this big piece of work I have to cover.

I also enjoy studying with friends as they can motivate me to do more work and when we take breaks, we can go on a walk around the city or campus to get fresh air. It is important to not just stay indoors all day and even a small 15 minutes walk can really clear your mind and help you refocus. Try to see if your university organises any events like study sessions, de-stressing events as well to keep your mind busy.

Within your schedule try to make 30 minutes to 1 hour to do something you enjoy. For example getting away from your screen, doing some grocery shopping, baking, trying to meal prep. I always try to change my study environment every once in a while so I am able to walk around and see a new study spot.

Remember to prioritise eating well as well and making time to speak to friends - debriefing and catching up as revision season can get quite lonely sometimes. I know it can be difficult to see how much work there is to do - but take it one step at a time and you'll be able to achieve what you want!

I hope this helps!

Sophie - University of Bath.

Reply 2

Hi there,

I’ve definitely felt overwhelmed during uni too at one stage I even considered leaving my course. I’m really glad I stayed and completed both my bachelor’s and master’s, but I completely understand how intense busy weeks can feel. These are some practical things that helped me:

1.

Keep a non-academic hobby going Having something completely separate from studying helped me switch off. I joined local non-uni groups for walks, pottery painting, jewellery making, scrapbooking and other creative sessions, which gave me a break and introduced me to new people outside of uni.

2.

Create a study setup you actually enjoy using Organising my desk or treating myself to new stationery made studying feel more manageable. I also built LEGO Botanical sets during breaks small, calming activities like that helped me decompress without getting glued to my phone.

3.

Limit distractions so focused time feels easier Apps like Flora or Forest kept me off my phone and turned study sessions into something more structured. Once distractions are reduced, tasks feel far less overwhelming.

4.

Break tasks into small steps and recognise the progress Thinking in terms of 'read one paper/chapter' or 'write 150 words' made studying easier to start. Noticing each small step helped me stay motivated and stopped everything from feeling like one huge workload.

5.

Use simple time-management techniques to add structure Pomodoro sessions, time-blocking, or planning with Google Calendar helped me balance study, rest and social time. Having a routine made stressful weeks feel more predictable and less chaotic.

6.

Change your environment when you’re stuck If home became distracting, going to the library, a café, or a quiet campus space helped reset my focus. A change of scenery can make a bigger difference than you expect.

7.

Prioritise the basics: sleep, food, movement and social life Getting enough sleep, eating proper meals, going for a walk, or making time to socialise kept my stress from spiralling. When these basics slip, everything else becomes harder to manage.

8.

Avoid overcommitting yourself It’s easy to feel like you should say yes to every society, job or opportunity, but you don’t need to do everything at once. Overcommitting is a quick route to burnout, so it’s okay to protect your time and energy.

9.

Reach out for support early If a module or deadline starts to feel too much, speaking to your academic tutor or the wellbeing team can help massively. You don’t need to wait until you’re struggling severely to ask for help.

You’re definitely not alone in feeling overwhelmed most students experience it at some point. Be patient with yourself, and focus on small, steady habits rather than big, dramatic changes 🙂

Megan (LJMU Rep)

Reply 3

Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi!
University can be amazing, but sometimes it also feels like a lot new people, new expectations, deadlines, pressure to do well, and trying to manage your own life at the same time.
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed, especially during busy weeks. I know many students experience this at some point, so I’m curious:
What helps you cope when everything feels too much?
Do you take breaks, talk to someone, change your routine, exercise, or do something creative? I’m interested in practical advice and small habits that genuinely help, not just generic “stay positive” phrases.
Thanks to anyone willing to share!

Hi @Anhelina01

Totally normal to feel like this!

Lots of great advice being given already. I particularly agree with the hobby, it might not feel like you have time, but I did cheerleading in uni and those two sessions a week were such a nice break!

I would also say schedule nice things to do, for me it will be like I'm going finish doing uni work early and watch a film on Sunday, or I'm going to go to an exhibition I've wanted to go to on the weekend.

The best thing to do is schedule your time wisely to help visualise and delegate out all the things you need to do so it feels less overwhelming.
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I also think sometimes saying no to things like plans can be helpful, especially if you have planned out your week you can see if you do really have time for them without getting too overwhelmed.

I hope this helps and good luck :smile:
-Grace (Kingston Rep)
Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi!
University can be amazing, but sometimes it also feels like a lot new people, new expectations, deadlines, pressure to do well, and trying to manage your own life at the same time.
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed, especially during busy weeks. I know many students experience this at some point, so I’m curious:
What helps you cope when everything feels too much?
Do you take breaks, talk to someone, change your routine, exercise, or do something creative? I’m interested in practical advice and small habits that genuinely help, not just generic “stay positive” phrases.
Thanks to anyone willing to share!

Hey,

I can relate to that feeling, especially during the busy November-January period. When you deal with the overwhelming pressure of assignments and exams, it is definitely a lot for us as students.
Here is what I actively do to cope when everything feels too much:

1.

Talk it out: Talk to a trusted person—a close friend, family member, or partner. Talking helps you release bottled up stress. When you share the burden, someone else can often calm you down or relate to your experience.

2.

Prioritise breaks: Take a break! This is an important step. Even if you only step away for 10 minutes or an hour, use that time to recharge and unwind completely.

3.

Engage in hobbies: Actively engage in a hobby or interest. You can fit creative activities like painting or knitting into your study breaks, or get some exercise to blow off steam.

Currently, I cope by listening to music, reading books, playing casual games like The Sims 4, or chatting with my friends. These small habits honestly help shift the focus when stress builds up!
Hope this helps!😊
Rachel
(Third Year)
Undergraduate Multimedia Journalism

Reply 5

Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi!
University can be amazing, but sometimes it also feels like a lot new people, new expectations, deadlines, pressure to do well, and trying to manage your own life at the same time.
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed, especially during busy weeks. I know many students experience this at some point, so I’m curious:
What helps you cope when everything feels too much?
Do you take breaks, talk to someone, change your routine, exercise, or do something creative? I’m interested in practical advice and small habits that genuinely help, not just generic “stay positive” phrases.
Thanks to anyone willing to share!

Hi @Anhelina01 👋

Hope you are well. That is a great question! For me personally, when I feel overwhelmed I tend to talk to one of my best friends about it and let it all out and spend some time just talking to them about other things. Otherwise, I listen to music and that can calm me. When I have lots of assignments and just a lot going on, I take a break to just breathe and listen to my playlists and then get back to it and just think that it will be all done soon so we can get through this and I also like to think back to times where I have been stronger and managing to do everything even when i am burnt out and that usually motivates me to keep going.

Just know you are doing great and it is normal to feel tired and overwhelmed but you will reap the benefits later and I am proud of you for being so determined and asking questions about it. I hope it does get better and it will honestly.

Essex Student Rep - Lavanya 💜

Reply 6

Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi!
University can be amazing, but sometimes it also feels like a lot new people, new expectations, deadlines, pressure to do well, and trying to manage your own life at the same time.
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed, especially during busy weeks. I know many students experience this at some point, so I’m curious:
What helps you cope when everything feels too much?
Do you take breaks, talk to someone, change your routine, exercise, or do something creative? I’m interested in practical advice and small habits that genuinely help, not just generic “stay positive” phrases.
Thanks to anyone willing to share!

Hi there,

I often find myself feeling overwhelmed and it is a tricky one.

The main thing that I would say helps me is to plan! I like to plan my days/weeks so that I know exactly what I am doing and that I have time to fit everything in. At the weekend, I'll look at my schedules for uni and work and plan around it fun things and also when I am going to get uni work done. Knowing that I have time to get it done helps me to feel less stressed and overwhelmed as I know it will be finished.

Also having fun things planned in really helps me too. I like to know that I have got fun things coming up that I can do which helps to take my mind off any stress and work I have coming up.

Talking to people helps too - if you are struggling with work talk to your tutors or peers as they will help you. Talk to any friends and family at home too as they will be there for you and will help you from getting overwhelmed.

Try to remember that everything will be fine. I know it may seem like you have a lot going on right now, but it will pass and you will be grateful that you did all of the work you did!

I hope some of this helps,

Lucy -SHU student ambassador.
Original post
by Anhelina01
Hi!
University can be amazing, but sometimes it also feels like a lot new people, new expectations, deadlines, pressure to do well, and trying to manage your own life at the same time.
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed, especially during busy weeks. I know many students experience this at some point, so I’m curious:
What helps you cope when everything feels too much?
Do you take breaks, talk to someone, change your routine, exercise, or do something creative? I’m interested in practical advice and small habits that genuinely help, not just generic “stay positive” phrases.
Thanks to anyone willing to share!

Hey,

A lot of students feel this way at some point, so you’re definitely not alone. Uni packs everything into one place: deadlines, new people, independence and pressure, and it can build up quickly. What actually helps tends to be the small, realistic things rather than big lifestyle changes.

For many people, taking short, structured breaks makes a big difference. Not the “scroll on your phone for an hour and feel worse” kind, but something like a 10 to 15 minute walk, making a snack, or stepping away from your desk to reset. It sounds simple, but breaking the cycle of staring at work while feeling stressed can help your brain calm down.

Talking things through with someone you trust can also help more than you’d expect. It doesn’t have to be a deep emotional conversation. Even just saying “this week is a lot” to a friend, flatmate or family member can lift some of the pressure. And if you feel like things are starting to pile up more seriously, your university’s wellbeing team or student support service is there for exactly this reason.

A lot of students find it useful to change up their routine in small ways: studying in a different space, organising tasks into smaller chunks, or planning one thing each day that isn’t work, even if it’s just watching something you enjoy, doing a hobby for 20 minutes, or going outside for some fresh air. When things feel overwhelming, tiny resets can stop the whole week from feeling like a blur.

Exercise or anything active, even at a very low level, also helps more than people realise. You don’t need to go to the gym. Stretching, a walk around campus, or a quick workout video can help release some of the tension. And for some people, creative things like drawing, journalling, music or even reorganising their space work as a mental reset. It’s about giving your brain a different kind of focus for a bit.

Everyone’s coping methods look a bit different, but the common theme is doing small, manageable things that break the stress cycle before it becomes too much. And reaching out for support early is always a good step. You don’t have to handle everything on your own.

Good luck 😊
Arslan University of Salford Student Representative

Reply 8

Stick to your routines. Keep organised.

If you have friends that bring a lot of energy you can stick to them and hope it rubs off on you. On the other hand if I felt I was struggling I would tend to sit alone, headphones on and study.

I find group discussion and collecting moaning very therapeutic in general.

I would 100% bet money that you are not the only person on your course to feel this way. It will happen toward Christmas/exams and it will probably happen again in about Easter time or approaching year end exams (if applicable).

Keep away from alcohol or other coping strategies you know aren't helpful in the longer term if at all possible. I'd also avoid a lot of distractions like going out or anything that gives reason to procrastrinate.
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