Hi there,
You’ve already had some great advice, and it often comes down to weighing the social side of halls against the financial cost. If you do decide to commute, there are still plenty of ways to make friends and feel involved from the start. Here are a few tips:
Chat to People in Your Lectures
Even if it seems like everyone already has a group, most people are happy to chat! A quick “Hi, I’m [your name]—mind if I join you?” goes a long way. Lectures are an easy way to start conversations since you already share the same course. You could ask about modules, hobbies, societies they’re joining, or even suggest grabbing a coffee or starting a group chat.
Join Societies and Clubs
At uni, you’ll be able to join sports clubs and societies. Societies are really varied—they can be general interest, course-specific, or even networking-focused. Most societies have an Instagram page where you can check out what they do, and many hold taster sessions before you commit to anything. And if nothing takes your fancy, you could always start your own.
Consider an Occasional Overnight Stay
Commuting can be tiring, especially with early starts or late events. Staying overnight nearby every now and then can help you make the most of social opportunities without worrying about the journey home.
Part-Time Work & Volunteering
Getting involved in part-time work or volunteering can be a great way to meet people and feel connected to your university community. Even if your role isn’t directly related to your course, it’s a chance to meet others with similar interests or hobbies. Volunteering for student events, campus initiatives, or local charities can also be a fun way to socialise while gaining experience.
Get Involved Outside of Uni
Some of the closest friendships I’ve made didn’t come from classes—they came from local creative or hobby groups. Things like pub quizzes and open mic nights can be great ways to meet people outside the university setting. Don’t underestimate the social opportunities in your local area!
Being a commuter doesn’t mean missing out. It just takes a little initiative and planning, but loads of students make it work really well. There will always be people in the same boat, waiting for someone to take that first step 🙂
Megan (LJMU Rep)