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Nasty girl I think she’s just bullying me or is straight up racist

I just wanted to share the story of this racist white girl. I think she’s racist or just double standards.

We weren’t friends but more like frenemies.

I fell on the floor as a kid she went to my primary school and she laughed at me. And then later she went to my high school and I made a castle project instead of a leaflet and she made fun of it to people saying I used hot glue and cardboard

I wear trousers and she was just like oh my god she’s wearing trousers and laughed so hard. She always wore skirts fine but it was so ironic all her friends wore trousers - I think all girls did.

Then people were talking about a music video and she was just like oh I think Sara wants to be like the girl in the music video guys she wants to dance like her

She’s like this with me all the time. But when a girl got bullied for being lesbian she was like what is wrong with you why would u make fun of her don’t bully her.

I got very angry with her double standards how are u saying don’t make fun and make fun of me)

How are u making fun that what im wearing when all ur friends are wearing the same thing.

She’s such a horrible person she ended up leaving school 2 weeks ago im so glad. She wasn’t a straight up bully I’ve had worse but she did do things like this at times.

I’ don’t know if she’s racist or not - but all her friends are Indians and she’s good with them I was so surprised.

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by Anonymous
I just wanted to share the story of this racist white girl. I think she’s racist or just double standards.
We weren’t friends but more like frenemies.
I fell on the floor as a kid she went to my primary school and she laughed at me. And then later she went to my high school and I made a castle project instead of a leaflet and she made fun of it to people saying I used hot glue and cardboard
I wear trousers and she was just like oh my god she’s wearing trousers and laughed so hard. She always wore skirts fine but it was so ironic all her friends wore trousers - I think all girls did.
Then people were talking about a music video and she was just like oh I think Sara wants to be like the girl in the music video guys she wants to dance like her
She’s like this with me all the time. But when a girl got bullied for being lesbian she was like what is wrong with you why would u make fun of her don’t bully her.
I got very angry with her double standards how are u saying don’t make fun and make fun of me)
How are u making fun that what im wearing when all ur friends are wearing the same thing.
She’s such a horrible person she ended up leaving school 2 weeks ago im so glad. She wasn’t a straight up bully I’ve had worse but she did do things like this at times.
I’ don’t know if she’s racist or not - but all her friends are Indians and she’s good with them I was so surprised.

I'm sorry you're going through this... although, from what I've read, there's nothing to suggest she's a racist per se; it sounds more like she's got some kind of personal vendetta against you (for whatever reason)..

If it was racist, it's unlikely she'd have many Indian friends (I'm assuming you're South Asian as well?), and you've not mentioned any name calling... or similar things. However, if you're of a different ethnicity, it could be she's got a problem with your one specifically.

Having said that, if she has taken a strong dislike to you (or decided to pick on you for whatever reason), then there's a chance that she may use racist language or insults as a way of getting to you. Nonetheless, this is not acceptable behaviour and (IMHO) you'd be well within your rights to report it, if you can prove it happened (e.g. audio recording, witnesses etc.)

I know it's easier said than done... but in general, the best way of dealing with these kind of people is to show that you're completely indifferent (couldn't care less) when they're taunting you. Do this, and nine times out of ten, they soon get bored and move on to someone else. A lot of the times people do this is because they want you to react to it (it gives them a sense of power).
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