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Valid extenuating for med/dent school?

In Year 7, my grandfather who raised me for ten years and was my primary caregiver was diagnosed with terminal cancer. His treatment included chemotherapy, lung surgery, and ongoing oxygen and medication support. Although he lived in China and I could not provide direct practical care, the emotional impact of his illness was continuous and significant. I felt a strong cultural and family expectation to keep the situation private, so my school was not informed at the time.

This long-term emotional stress continued throughout my secondary education, including Year 11 during my GCSE preparation. The worry and responsibility I carried for my grandfather affected my focus, consistency in revision, and overall academic performance, contributing to the need to resit several GCSEs.

Evidence:
Certified English translations of my grandfather’s medical records showing the timeline and severity of his illness.
Referee statement confirming I disclosed the situation to them and linking it to academic challenges.
Contemporaneous evidence in the form of daily video calls and check-ins via WeChat, demonstrating ongoing emotional concern.

Idk if these are enough to be a valid and relevant ecf for top med unis when it comes they come to question my 4 GCSE results which went from 6s to 8 and 9s
Any suggestions would help!

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