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Solo Clubbing NYE?

Hi :smile: I’m thinking of going clubbing alone on NYE, mainly because I don’t have any close friends (lol), I know quite a few people but no one well enough to ask, I have one or two friends to ask but I feel like it wouldn’t be their vibe especially since I would be travelling there and staying over in a hotel since the club is around 40 mins from me. Also I wouldn’t mind going alone anyways since I could just come/go as i please, and take in the experience of doing something like that alone, but I’m just worried about safety and also possibly feeling embarrassed or being laughed at for being alone, keep in mind i haven’t been in a club more than 3 times in my life and not since 2023, is this a really bad idea? Lol, does anyone have experience with doing this or know anything about NYE in particular that I should know
I’m a female, 22, by the way and not even a drinker at all i just like to dance 😅

Reply 1

It’s a bold idea, if you have the self confidence to enjoy it. Personally I can’t think of anything more daunting. I would also worry about the safety of not having a buddy if anything went wrong

Reply 2

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by BlueBlossom3434.
Hi :smile: I’m thinking of going clubbing alone on NYE, mainly because I don’t have any close friends (lol), I know quite a few people but no one well enough to ask, I have one or two friends to ask but I feel like it wouldn’t be their vibe especially since I would be travelling there and staying over in a hotel since the club is around 40 mins from me. Also I wouldn’t mind going alone anyways since I could just come/go as i please, and take in the experience of doing something like that alone, but I’m just worried about safety and also possibly feeling embarrassed or being laughed at for being alone, keep in mind i haven’t been in a club more than 3 times in my life and not since 2023, is this a really bad idea? Lol, does anyone have experience with doing this or know anything about NYE in particular that I should know
I’m a female, 22, by the way and not even a drinker at all i just like to dance 😅

Yes go. Don't drink too heavily or take drugs if you are by yourself though. My gf used to do it all the time and it was fine. No one gives af you wont be laughed at lmao.

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Original post
by BlueBlossom3434.
Hi :smile: I’m thinking of going clubbing alone on NYE, mainly because I don’t have any close friends (lol), I know quite a few people but no one well enough to ask, I have one or two friends to ask but I feel like it wouldn’t be their vibe especially since I would be travelling there and staying over in a hotel since the club is around 40 mins from me. Also I wouldn’t mind going alone anyways since I could just come/go as i please, and take in the experience of doing something like that alone, but I’m just worried about safety and also possibly feeling embarrassed or being laughed at for being alone, keep in mind i haven’t been in a club more than 3 times in my life and not since 2023, is this a really bad idea? Lol, does anyone have experience with doing this or know anything about NYE in particular that I should know
I’m a female, 22, by the way and not even a drinker at all i just like to dance 😅


Id say definitely try get someone to go with you, even two of you is fine. But going alone wouldn't be a fun experience.

Reply 4

I'm going clubbing tonight on my own, so yes go for it

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