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Who keeps the dog in a breakup? 🐶

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If you and your partner broke up who should get custody of a shared pet?

Have you ever wondered who keeps the pet when a couple breakup?

New figures show almost 7,000 dogs were handed to Dog’s Trust due to break ups in the past two years, a legal expert from The University of Law (ULaw) has explained how to properly manage pet ownership if a relationship breaks down.

Sadly, January can be a common time for family separations and pets are often an integral part of a family unit. Despite being a nation of animal lovers, currently the law in England and Wales reflects that pets are to be dealt with as chattels in family breakups, i.e. an item of property.

Figures from Dog’s Trust sourced by ULaw show 6,697 dogs have been handed over to them since 2024 citing ā€œa change in owner’s relationshipā€ – that’s an average of 290 dogs every month. So, what is the law regarding who will get the pet in a relationship breakdown?

Amanda Crutchley, Head of Pro Bono at ULaw, explains: ā€œWhen a relationship breaks down the hope is always for an amicable outcome with agreements to help all parties move forwards, but, sadly, this often isn’t the case. Of course, there are laws that focus on the welfare of children in any new arrangements, but while we may see our pets as family, the same laws don’t apply. This can make pet ownership an emotive topic for discussion as relationships end and resolutions are soughtā€.

Interested in this topic? Read more about the custody of pets here:
Who keeps the dog in a breakup? | University of Law
This is such a sad statistic, I'd honestly never considered the legal side of this before. I think a 'pet-nup' is going to be a must-have for me and my partner if we do decide to get a dog - though it sounds a bit intense and I know they aren't legally binding, it sounds really helpful in ensuring the best outcome for the dog. A very relevant and important read!

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by TheUniofLawStaff
Have you ever wondered who keeps the pet when a couple breakup?
New figures show almost 7,000 dogs were handed to Dog’s Trust due to break ups in the past two years, a legal expert from The University of Law (ULaw) has explained how to properly manage pet ownership if a relationship breaks down.
Sadly, January can be a common time for family separations and pets are often an integral part of a family unit. Despite being a nation of animal lovers, currently the law in England and Wales reflects that pets are to be dealt with as chattels in family breakups, i.e. an item of property.
Figures from Dog’s Trust sourced by ULaw show 6,697 dogs have been handed over to them since 2024 citing ā€œa change in owner’s relationshipā€ – that’s an average of 290 dogs every month. So, what is the law regarding who will get the pet in a relationship breakdown?
Amanda Crutchley, Head of Pro Bono at ULaw, explains: ā€œWhen a relationship breaks down the hope is always for an amicable outcome with agreements to help all parties move forwards, but, sadly, this often isn’t the case. Of course, there are laws that focus on the welfare of children in any new arrangements, but while we may see our pets as family, the same laws don’t apply. This can make pet ownership an emotive topic for discussion as relationships end and resolutions are soughtā€.
Interested in this topic? Read more about the custody of pets here:
Who keeps the dog in a breakup? | University of Law

Pets being treated like 'Chattels' really shows how out of step the law is with how people actually view their pets. Treating animals as mere property doesn’t reflect the emotional bonds people form with them, and it can lead to unnecessary stress for both the humans and the pets involved. It suggests we need a more nuanced legal approach, maybe something like ā€œshared custodyā€ arrangements or welfare-focused guidelines, so that pets aren’t treated like objects when relationships end.
It feels like a gap in system, and even if not given the same level's of welfare-focused guidelines when it comes to children, the situation clearly shows there should be more than there currently is.
Original post
by TheUniofLawStaff
Have you ever wondered who keeps the pet when a couple breakup?
New figures show almost 7,000 dogs were handed to Dog’s Trust due to break ups in the past two years, a legal expert from The University of Law (ULaw) has explained how to properly manage pet ownership if a relationship breaks down.
Sadly, January can be a common time for family separations and pets are often an integral part of a family unit. Despite being a nation of animal lovers, currently the law in England and Wales reflects that pets are to be dealt with as chattels in family breakups, i.e. an item of property.
Figures from Dog’s Trust sourced by ULaw show 6,697 dogs have been handed over to them since 2024 citing ā€œa change in owner’s relationshipā€ – that’s an average of 290 dogs every month. So, what is the law regarding who will get the pet in a relationship breakdown?
Amanda Crutchley, Head of Pro Bono at ULaw, explains: ā€œWhen a relationship breaks down the hope is always for an amicable outcome with agreements to help all parties move forwards, but, sadly, this often isn’t the case. Of course, there are laws that focus on the welfare of children in any new arrangements, but while we may see our pets as family, the same laws don’t apply. This can make pet ownership an emotive topic for discussion as relationships end and resolutions are soughtā€.
Interested in this topic? Read more about the custody of pets here:
Who keeps the dog in a breakup? | University of Law

It is actually distressing to note the number of pets being rehomed due to relationship splits. Pets, to many people, are family, but according to existing law, pets will always be considered property, making separations more distressing than they have to be. The statistics above have clearly placed importance on awareness and planning in ownership, ensuring that pets do not always suffer when relationships end.

Reply 4

My mum does law (is a solicitor but does work outside of a firm now) and when she tells people how their pets would be considered in a divorce then tend to be quite agitated, understandably

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