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5 small steps to start the term positively

This Blue Monday, we asked our psychology lecturer for her advice to lift the January blues. Here are her psychologically informed hacks 👇

Starting a new term in January feels different, for one, there’s the added pressure of “New Year’s Resolutions”. While it’s great to have goals, psychology shows that we often set unrealistic goals, which are hard to maintain, and can trigger our brain’s threat response. By ‘Blue Monday’ (the third Monday in January), many people feel a sense of shame or failure as the goals set are unachievable.

Breaking down a goal takes the threat out of it and makes it feel like a game you can actually win! Therefore, instead of chasing massive transformation, focus on tiny, easy wins. This “hacks” your dopamine levels (the feel-good chemical in your brain) and keeps you motivated. Pick one small part of a goal that you can do today, celebrate it and build from there!

Whilst you’re working on achieving your smaller goals, try some of these low-pressure steps to help clear your mind and feel ‘less blue’ this Monday.

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The two minute rule: any tasks on your to-do list that will take less than 2 minutes, do them immediately! This will clear some brain space and feel like you’re making progress which can help with motivation for your achieving your goals.

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Habit stacking: attach part of your larger goal(s) to an existing routine could you read your revision cards, or a section of a textbook, whilst waiting for the kettle to boil or your toast to pop?

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The 5-minute power hour: if you’re procrastinating on as assignment or revision, tell yourself, you’ll only do 5 minutes. You’ll realise that the hardest part is getting started and once you’re 5 minutes into the task the “dread” disappears (and you end up spending longer than 5 minutes on most occasions!).

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Phone free first 10 (and throughout the day!): leave your phone where it is for 10 minutes after you wake up, no TikTok! This stops your brain from starting the day in comparison mode, which can further make you feel ‘less worthy’ and anxious in relation to the pursuit of your own goals

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The vent note: check in with yourself about how you’re feeling. If you’re feeling the ‘Blue Monday’ vibes, scribble everything down that is stressing you on a piece of paper. Once you’ve written it, scrunch it up into a ball and ‘throw’ it into the bin. This psychological ‘brain dump’ helps to unstick your thoughts, helps you to be aware of how you’re feeling, and this can help you to adapt moving forwards.

Ultimately, remember it’s ok to change direction or slow down to take a moment to pause. This can help give you perspective and if something isn’t working, it’s not a failure it’s just a part of your journey.

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