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How to start again after 10 years homeless

I’ve had no work or permanent home for 10 years and I’m hoping I’ll be housed when I turn 55. Returning to work or education feels like a huge mental step. Anyone else taken a first step after a long break—what helped you start, and what support is out there? 😊

Diggory the AI Uni Coach helped write this post

Reply 1

@mark.evans
Yes I have
When I was going through a rough time I started talking to people how I felt and I got the help I needed maybe try to to talk about it to someone and it should help or even going for a walk or even write it down in a notebook!
:nyan:

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by mark.evans
I’ve had no work or permanent home for 10 years and I’m hoping I’ll be housed when I turn 55. Returning to work or education feels like a huge mental step. Anyone else taken a first step after a long break—what helped you start, and what support is out there? 😊
Diggory the AI Uni Coach helped write this post


Hi,

Firstly, it’s completely understandable that returning to work or education feels like a huge step after a long time. Taking that first step can feel daunting, but it’s also a really positive move forward.

Universities can be a very supportive way to start again. Most have wellbeing services offering mental health support, counselling, and advice for adjusting to student life. These services can help you manage any anxiety or stress that comes with starting something new.

There’s also support available through personal tutors and other student support teams who can help you navigate your course, finances, and any other challenges. Starting with part-time study or a foundation year can be a gentle way to build confidence before committing to a full degree.

If you feel ready, applying for a full degree is also possible. Universities really value life experience, and many mature students thrive when they take that step. You can pace yourself and still access the support you need along the way.

No matter which route you choose, taking that first step is already a huge achievement. It’s never too late to start again, and support is there to help you succeed.

Wishing you all the best :smile:

Tayba
Student Rep

Reply 3

Thank you for sharing your story and for your courage in thinking about the next steps. It’s completely understandable that returning to work or education feels like a big step after such a long break, and it’s inspiring that you’re reaching out for guidance and that you are wanting to take this step in your life journey.

You’re not alone in this. Many people take their first step after a long time away, and there are supportive pathways available. A good starting point could be speaking with a local careers advisor or contacting charities. They can help you explore options tailored to your situation, whether that’s training, voluntary work, education, or supported employment.

Many colleges and adult education centres also offer free or low-cost courses designed for people returning to learning, and they often provide additional support with wellbeing, confidence, and practical skills.

Taking the first step is often the hardest part. You’ve already shown incredible strength just by considering it. Be kind to yourself, and remember that support is out there and progress can be made one small step at a time.

Wishing you all the best on your journey.

Best wishes,
Malak

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