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Starting Uni at 26

Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!

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Reply 1

No - and I speak from experience!

Reply 2

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by gjd800
No - and I speak from experience!
Thanks! That’s good to hear! :smile:

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!

Hi @Anonymous

There will probably be more mature students (21+ at the start of the course) than you expect! I have found that my course has a mixture of ages, from people who are fresh out of college to people who have already had a different career and are now returning to study. From what I have seen, age does not seem to be a barrier for people making friends as you all have the course in common. The most important thing is to go in with an open mind and try to talk to as many different people as possible as this will help you to find the people you want to be friends with.

Hope that helps!

Sophie.
BCU Student Rep.

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!


Hi,

I’m a student rep at LJMU and I just want to reassure you that starting uni at 26 is really normal and you definitely would not be out of place.

LJMU has a very mixed student community with lots of mature students career changers and people coming back to education after some time out. Because of this the uni runs its own support and transition programmes for mature and non traditional students especially during induction and the first semester to help people settle in and meet others early on.

Most friendships at LJMU form through your course group work societies and shared interests rather than age. Being a bit older can actually be a positive as you usually come in more confident and focused which a lot of students appreciate.

If you get involved in induction events societies or rep led activities you will have plenty of chances to meet people and find your group. Age really is not a barrier here at all.

Hope that helps and good luck with everything 🙂

Anthony
Student rep

Reply 5

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by BCU Student Rep
Hi @Anonymous
There will probably be more mature students (21+ at the start of the course) than you expect! I have found that my course has a mixture of ages, from people who are fresh out of college to people who have already had a different career and are now returning to study. From what I have seen, age does not seem to be a barrier for people making friends as you all have the course in common. The most important thing is to go in with an open mind and try to talk to as many different people as possible as this will help you to find the people you want to be friends with.
Hope that helps!
Sophie.
BCU Student Rep.

Thanks so much! This is really reassuring :smile:

Reply 6

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by LJMUStudentReps
Hi,
I’m a student rep at LJMU and I just want to reassure you that starting uni at 26 is really normal and you definitely would not be out of place.
LJMU has a very mixed student community with lots of mature students career changers and people coming back to education after some time out. Because of this the uni runs its own support and transition programmes for mature and non traditional students especially during induction and the first semester to help people settle in and meet others early on.
Most friendships at LJMU form through your course group work societies and shared interests rather than age. Being a bit older can actually be a positive as you usually come in more confident and focused which a lot of students appreciate.
If you get involved in induction events societies or rep led activities you will have plenty of chances to meet people and find your group. Age really is not a barrier here at all.
Hope that helps and good luck with everything 🙂
Anthony
Student rep

Thank you!! This is really good to hear :smile:

Reply 7

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!
Hi there, I was also a mature student when I started uni 🙂 Although you may face some challenges in connecting with your younger peers at first, you may be surprised at the number of mature students you meet at university ☺️
Take some time to consider joining societies as they are a great way to expand your social circle among people with a common interest (eg. sports, hobby...). There are also students pursuing their Masters who made closer in age to you 🤗

Zhi En
(Kingston Student Rep.)

Reply 8

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!
Hey, just wanted to reply because this is such a common worry and I completely get it!

It is absolutely not too late to start uni… but I totally understand the age fear. I was 28 when I started university, and honestly that worry about being “too old” is one of the main reasons I put it off for several years. I kept thinking I’d stand out, struggle to make friends, or feel out of place.

Now that I’ve graduated, the only regret I have is that I didn’t go for it sooner!! It’s genuinely one of the best things I’ve ever done.

One thing that really surprised me when I started was the age range. I went in expecting everyone to be 18–21, but there were loads of students my age and much older… not just on my course, but across the uni in general. Mature students are way more common than you think.

I also found that I enjoyed studying so much more as an adult. I was more focused, more confident asking questions, better at managing my time, and actually there because I wanted to be there. I appreciated the experience more and didn’t take it for granted in the same way I probably would have at 18.

Age definitely didn’t hold me back socially either. I made a conscious effort in classes to chat to people, work with different groups, and suggest grabbing a coffee or hanging out after uni. I’ll be honest… I definitely wasn’t into the clubbing scene anymore, but that didn’t matter at all. There are so many other ways people socialise at uni.

My two closest friends ended up being 22 and 38, and our ages never once felt like an issue. If anything, it made things more interesting. What I realised pretty quickly is that uni friendships are based way more on shared experiences, stress, humour, and mutual support than on age.

What I also found is that this is a really common worry for mature students… but in reality, no one actually cares how old you are. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves, deadlines, and life in general.

If going back to uni is something you want to do, I’d honestly say go for it. You’ve already dealt with so much, and starting again when you’re healthier and more settled could actually make the experience even better.

You’ve got this… and you definitely won’t be alone! Good luck! Sophie 🙂

Reply 9

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by Kingston Zhi En
Hi there, I was also a mature student when I started uni 🙂 Although you may face some challenges in connecting with your younger peers at first, you may be surprised at the number of mature students you meet at university ☺️
Take some time to consider joining societies as they are a great way to expand your social circle among people with a common interest (eg. sports, hobby...). There are also students pursuing their Masters who made closer in age to you 🤗
Zhi En
(Kingston Student Rep.)

Thank you!! :smile:))

Reply 10

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by ARU Graduate
Hey, just wanted to reply because this is such a common worry and I completely get it!
It is absolutely not too late to start uni… but I totally understand the age fear. I was 28 when I started university, and honestly that worry about being “too old” is one of the main reasons I put it off for several years. I kept thinking I’d stand out, struggle to make friends, or feel out of place.
Now that I’ve graduated, the only regret I have is that I didn’t go for it sooner!! It’s genuinely one of the best things I’ve ever done.
One thing that really surprised me when I started was the age range. I went in expecting everyone to be 18–21, but there were loads of students my age and much older… not just on my course, but across the uni in general. Mature students are way more common than you think.
I also found that I enjoyed studying so much more as an adult. I was more focused, more confident asking questions, better at managing my time, and actually there because I wanted to be there. I appreciated the experience more and didn’t take it for granted in the same way I probably would have at 18.
Age definitely didn’t hold me back socially either. I made a conscious effort in classes to chat to people, work with different groups, and suggest grabbing a coffee or hanging out after uni. I’ll be honest… I definitely wasn’t into the clubbing scene anymore, but that didn’t matter at all. There are so many other ways people socialise at uni.
My two closest friends ended up being 22 and 38, and our ages never once felt like an issue. If anything, it made things more interesting. What I realised pretty quickly is that uni friendships are based way more on shared experiences, stress, humour, and mutual support than on age.
What I also found is that this is a really common worry for mature students… but in reality, no one actually cares how old you are. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves, deadlines, and life in general.
If going back to uni is something you want to do, I’d honestly say go for it. You’ve already dealt with so much, and starting again when you’re healthier and more settled could actually make the experience even better.
You’ve got this… and you definitely won’t be alone! Good luck! Sophie 🙂

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this! It is really encouraging! Also so glad that you had a fab time at uni! :smile:

Reply 11

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!
That’s not going to be a problem at all, I went to uni at 19 and there were people who were in their 30s doing the same course it really doesn’t matter if your open to making friends you will make friends regardless of the age group

Reply 12

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by Pinkykwakye
That’s not going to be a problem at all, I went to uni at 19 and there were people who were in their 30s doing the same course it really doesn’t matter if your open to making friends you will make friends regardless of the age group

Thanks!! This is good to hear :smile:
Original post
by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!

Hey!
First of all, it is fantastic to hear that you’re in a better place health-wise and ready to head back to university.
I can promise you that being 26 will not stop you from making friends at all. As someone who has met students of all ages at uni, I’ve realised that age is honestly a non-issue once you’re there. You’ll find that "mature" students (anyone over 21!) are a much bigger group than you might think, and we all come from different aspects of life.
Here is why:

Diverse Friend Groups: University isn't like high school; you aren't grouped by age. You’ll be in seminars and societies with students ranging from 18-year-olds to 40-year-olds. Most people just care if you're friendly and share their interests.

The Shared Experience: You’re all there for the same reason: to learn and get your degree. That shared stress over a deadline or excitement for a specific module is a great equaliser.

Life Experience is a Plus: You might actually find that you’re more confident in social situations now than you were at 18. People often look to slightly older students for advice or just a more grounded perspective.

Proactive Effort: I’ve met many people who decided to go to uni at a later time than the "usual" age, and they often have the best time because they are there with a clear purpose and a real desire to make the most of it.

Focus on joining societies that actually interest you, whether that’s a sport, a hobby, or an academic club. That’s where you’ll find your group, regardless of how old you are.
Hope this helps!😊
Rachel
(Third Year)
Undergraduate Multimedia Journalism

Reply 14

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by Manchester Met - Student Rep
Hey!
First of all, it is fantastic to hear that you’re in a better place health-wise and ready to head back to university.
I can promise you that being 26 will not stop you from making friends at all. As someone who has met students of all ages at uni, I’ve realised that age is honestly a non-issue once you’re there. You’ll find that "mature" students (anyone over 21!) are a much bigger group than you might think, and we all come from different aspects of life.
Here is why:

Diverse Friend Groups: University isn't like high school; you aren't grouped by age. You’ll be in seminars and societies with students ranging from 18-year-olds to 40-year-olds. Most people just care if you're friendly and share their interests.

The Shared Experience: You’re all there for the same reason: to learn and get your degree. That shared stress over a deadline or excitement for a specific module is a great equaliser.

Life Experience is a Plus: You might actually find that you’re more confident in social situations now than you were at 18. People often look to slightly older students for advice or just a more grounded perspective.

Proactive Effort: I’ve met many people who decided to go to uni at a later time than the "usual" age, and they often have the best time because they are there with a clear purpose and a real desire to make the most of it.

Focus on joining societies that actually interest you, whether that’s a sport, a hobby, or an academic club. That’s where you’ll find your group, regardless of how old you are.
Hope this helps!😊
Rachel
(Third Year)
Undergraduate Multimedia Journalism

Thank you so much!! :smile:

Reply 15

Thanks so much everyone for your responses! Does anyone have any experience of living in halls in your mid 20s and how it worked out?

Reply 16

Original post
by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!

I hope the uni life reassures you! The age difference is not a great deal.

Reply 17

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by Hardest Job
I hope the uni life reassures you! The age difference is not a great deal.

Thank you!! :smile:

Reply 18

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!

Hi @Anonymous👋

Hope you are well. Honestly I do not think it would be a big problem. At university there are younger people in their 20s but there are also older people in their 30s as well. When you go into your course, just talk to people and see how it goes. There are also societies too that you can get involved in. At Essex we have groups that allow mature learners to get together too so nobody is left out. You should be fine though. Last year in my course there were 3 people who were in their late 20s but I did get along with them pretty well and they all found their individual friend groups despite their age too 🙂

Essex Student Rep- Lavanya 💜

Reply 19

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by Anonymous
Hi! I originally went to uni at 18, but unfortunately had to leave for health reasons. I am now in a much better place health-wise and would like to go to uni again. However, I would be 26 when I start and am wondering if realistically the age gap between myself and the majority of students would prevent me from making friends? Thanks in advance!

Hi there,

I know you have received some great comments here, but I just also wanted to answer this from a different uni so that you can hopefully feel even more reassured!

As everyone here has said, it really will be okay! It won't matter when you get to uni, and there will be such a wide range of people who are all of different ages, so you probably won't even notice. When I was doing my undergrad degree, we had so many people who were all different ages and everyone got on well and it was not an issue at all.

Most universities will have socials or events for mature students if you were worried about meeting some people. Or, there are sometimes groups on social media such as Facebook where you can meet some people who may be mature students too is this may reassure you.

In my experience, most people who go to uni are really open to making friends, and just want to be friends with people who are similar to them, rather than being a specific age.

I hope some of this helps,

Lucy -SHU student ambassador.

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