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my ex went chat site told people I was phsco and people was attacking me because I went to mental hospital because I was depressed and was hurting deep down I didn't want to live he telling people how we slept together and saying personal things like to strangers on sites about it about my body parts keep in mind he oon site with adults I'm 17 now he also shared our personal emails keep in mind me and him know each other went to same school and he used me and slept with me to use me the whole school knew about it he telling people I'm crazy and I a very wanty person I'm a stalker he reached out to me wanting to be friendly I'm person who he knows isn't a person who knows how to let go of loving someone even when they did me wrong he said its wrong for me to have different believes about God which he loves everyone no matter their small or bigger in beliefs he loves everyone he started sexting with his new gf who also been mental issues but didn't call her crazy just me and he told me to chill out for what why would I chill when he talking Abt to private parts to grown people who idk and embarrassing me and making me cry I cried stop several times he said no he ended up using my photo as his PFP from when we were dating I told him to stop I don't like it he kept using it and saying no even after I told him stop I'm comfortable with that and I was the one got band for standing up for myself I'm very hurt and traumatized by him again he told people I slept with many people while were dating I was in the hospital the next day he was having a 3 sum with 2 gurls and he said I was crazy. he only cared what he was getting never about who i'am as a person I loved him he clearly loved his self more and his popularity.

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by crystal sims
my ex went chat site told people I was phsco and people was attacking me because I went to mental hospital because I was depressed and was hurting deep down I didn't want to live he telling people how we slept together and saying personal things like to strangers on sites about it about my body parts keep in mind he oon site with adults I'm 17 now he also shared our personal emails keep in mind me and him know each other went to same school and he used me and slept with me to use me the whole school knew about it he telling people I'm crazy and I a very wanty person I'm a stalker he reached out to me wanting to be friendly I'm person who he knows isn't a person who knows how to let go of loving someone even when they did me wrong he said its wrong for me to have different believes about God which he loves everyone no matter their small or bigger in beliefs he loves everyone he started sexting with his new gf who also been mental issues but didn't call her crazy just me and he told me to chill out for what why would I chill when he talking Abt to private parts to grown people who idk and embarrassing me and making me cry I cried stop several times he said no he ended up using my photo as his PFP from when we were dating I told him to stop I don't like it he kept using it and saying no even after I told him stop I'm comfortable with that and I was the one got band for standing up for myself I'm very hurt and traumatized by him again he told people I slept with many people while were dating I was in the hospital the next day he was having a 3 sum with 2 gurls and he said I was crazy. he only cared what he was getting never about who i'am as a person I loved him he clearly loved his self more and his popularity.
You are not in the wrong here he is. He violated your privacy, shared intimate and personal details without your consent, used your mental health against you, ignored your boundaries, and publicly humiliated you for attention and popularity. You were 17, vulnerable, and deserved care, not exploitation or cruelty. Your reactions being upset, crying, asking him to stop are normal responses to being hurt and betrayed, not signs that you’re “crazy” or at fault. He showed a lack of empathy and respect, while you were simply trying to protect yourself and heal. What he did was wrong, and you didn’t deserve any of it.

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