for a relationship I'd rather be with a girl with a spot of acne (poor I know) than someone who stuggles to put 2 sentences together. Providing the acne isn't swallowing up thier face and they are quite nice in all other departments.
for a relationship I'd rather be with a girl with a spot of acne (poor I know) than someone who stuggles to put 2 sentences together. Providing the acne isn't swallowing up thier face and they are quite nice in all other departments.
Wholeheartedly agree. Conversation and being comfortable talking to them is crucial. Don't want to be with somebody where you're struggling for things to say.
tooooo much make up on girls can be a turn off sometimes, like when it looks like it could be scrapped off with a spoon or sumtin. not sure what category that would go under.
bad hygiene can be easily fixed - i don't understand people that don't wash or use spray - it takes like 2 seconds to put perfume on. I don't like boring people either acne can be grown out of. Being over weight isn't permanant, you can lose weight with a little effort. For me, it's personality more than anything else.
My biggest turn off would be bad manners. I wouldn't care if the person was underweight or overweight, as long as their personality was good. Surely it can't be the persons fault if they are overweight (pradar-willi syndrome) or underweight (depression)? Furthermore i wouldn't really mind if the person wasn't a good conversationist as long as they are not a delinquent, then that's ok.
Congrats to all the people who put 'lack of conversation'... I put 'overweight'. I'm shallow. Well, actually in my experience overweight girls have personal issues which I don't really want to deal with. And pretending to be happy when their pants look like tent covers IS not a good cover, it just adds 'insanity' to the list of negatives!
Congrats to all the people who put 'lack of conversation'... I put 'overweight'. I'm shallow. Well, actually in my experience overweight girls have personal issues which I don't really want to deal with. And pretending to be happy when their pants look like tent covers IS not a good cover, it just adds 'insanity' to the list of negatives!
How lack of conversation can be the biggest turn-off beats me. I almost find it nasty to say that if someone has no conversation, then you're no longer interested in them. Some people are shy, have to get out of their shell. A bitchy or pretentious girl is a bigger turn-off when it comes to personnality.
But even considering personnality issues, if I met a gorgeous girl, I'd be a hypocrite if I said that her lack of conversation turned me off completely and made me want to put two fingers down my throat.
I personally think the entire chav look is a massive turn off, as is someone who is really unintelligent so I cannot actually have a decent conversation with her.