So I broke up with my ex for the last time back in October however we were very un enough for the entire year. And in doing this I blocked him absolutely everywhere including TikTok Snapchat and Instagram which he’d been blocked on for about a year before I officially officially ended it. It was only WhatsApp he wasn’t blocked on because we spoke fairly often until I blocked him for good back in October. However, since I don’t use Xbox too often I forgot to block him and he texted me on the 18th of February just saying how are you? How are my cats blah blah blah. I answered not straight away of course, but I also mirrored his response time if he took three days to reply I took three days to reply. So a couple days later, he asked me if he could get his childhood Teddy that he had given me three years ago. Obviously, I’m not against this even though I told him strict boundaries that he’s not coming to collect it and he’s not meeting up with me but I’m happy to post it. He said that’s fine and I said since it’s his he should pay for shipping which he agreed. However since then I’ve been arranging all the logistics I found the shipping company, I put in the details, I even asked for his address and he was taking quite long to reply and I could tell this was on purpose. And this was quite infuriating, especially since it’s his item and he initiated contact first so I don’t see why he should be taking five days to reply when he doesn’t have a job or go to school and just sits at home. Anyway, when I finish setting up the logistics, I finally had the price. I told him how much it would be and since then it’s been radio silence. This was about a week ago and I still haven’t got an answer yet the past couple of days he’s benn constantly
stalking my TikTok accounts on a alternative account and this is the first time I’m noticing it in years. So I’m annoyed that he’s not replying back to finish this ordeal, but he has time to stalk both of my TikTok accounts multiple times a day. And what’s even scarier is that my alt account which doesn’t have my name, my face, or anything is also being stalked. Anyway, this prolonged chain of Messages is really starting to drag out and I think I’m just gonna give his teddies to charity because obviously he’s not interested and he’s too busy stalking my profiles and because I just wanna get rid of everything, I’ve already gotten rid of our pictures, all the gifts and letters and also because I frankly don’t want any memory of him because he wasn’t the best boyfriend.
Should I wait for a response or just send the teddy to charity or throw away because I’m honestly tired and I’m not being respected here