Guys pls help

I need to make an authorized absence and report to the school in order to do my gcse resits exams, but they requires to contact parents.
I need to think of a way to word this absence to my parents in a way so i wont technically lie to any of the side.
so for context, i am doing my gcse resits for my sciences in may to june. I would be then doing stem alevel if my gcse jumps up by a grade (which that met the requirement) next year. And my mum absolutely dislikes this plan.
Shes asian so she wants me to follow the regular path instead of wasting a year to do what im passionate about.
Shes serious abt the things she say and very controlling and i do have very bad mommy issues coz i wasnt raised up by her or my dad.
But overall long story short, i will tell them abt the exams eventually becuase they will need to know, but IT CANNOT be known when i am doing the exams, coz my mum will do anything to stop me.
And a side note: i wouldnt want to risk to lie to school but idk, i dk if emailing school on my parents behalf would get me suspended or expelled if i provided actual facts that i am doing exams not skipping school.
Idk tho pls help me out, and pls dont suggest good communication with my parents because it wont work.
Conversation like that always ended with me crying, and them slamming things

Why can't you resit in the school you are at now?

They dont do resits in this school, and no point anyways coz i already paid for everything at this private school

Well most school will allow their own students - did you ask? You are in deep water if your Y12 exams clash with the GCSEs.

Oh wait sorry i worded that wrong, this school doesnt do exams resits i signed up with a private school exam centre outside the school, and no,
my mocks or any other exams did not clashes with my gcse resits so thats a good thing.

Did you ask if they would enter you if you pay?

Don’t worry about all the resits parts coz I am already entered and my fees were paid like 2 months ago, everything is sorted about the exams, it really js I have to make authorised absence coz the exams happen during school time, and I couldn’t let my parents know

You've made it so much more difficult for yourself and I can't see this working.
It will be unauthorised absence which is not great. I can't see a way round this as school will ring your parents to find where you are.

Well what's paid is paid, exam centres suck and won't give OP a refund now... at least they're not in Y13.
@Anonymous#4489 Would you not ask a teacher for advice in this situation, or permission to leave school for x amount of hours-- the exams themselves won't be that long.

A teacher can't give permission that's a huge safeguarding risk and they would be probably be sacked.

You've made it so much more difficult for yourself and I can't see this working.
It will be unauthorised absence which is not great. I can't see a way round this as school will ring your parents to find where you are.

Well what's paid is paid, exam centres suck and won't give OP a refund now... at least they're not in Y13.
@Anonymous#4489 Would you not ask a teacher for advice in this situation, or permission to leave school for x amount of hours-- the exams themselves won't be that long.

idk then bro im just brainstorming
why not just call in sick on exam days? i do that a lot... esp is ur attendance is good, then it wont be bashed too much.

Icl i dont think it would be that deep coz i could always make my parents know im not gonna be in school but just for a diff reason

Yh for sure im not leaving the whole day, but coz i do multiple resits so ther would be a few afternoon that i would be missing, but i would still rest of school days when the exams are over

Idk i feel like it would be a safeguarding issue if im like a year 11 kid or smth but im not, turning 18 this year too✌️

i mean... yeah
how many resits? how many exams papers max? i mean, hopefully some will be on the same day.
pity yre not 18 already. my condolences on the whole thing, exam centres are **** to deal with on top of school

Doing four so there would be 9 days that i would just be partial gone for the day, always comes back to school in the afternoon.
Cant wait til im 18 so i can actually deal with stuff simpler😰
But yeah so far my plan really is tell the head of year that none of my parents speak english (partially true, coz my dad dont) and the thing is that my mum is currently in china so they couldnt call her or anything anways, and see how that goes. Hopefully they wont make a big deal coz ive got like exam centre confirmation and exam date pdf ready as evidence

skivving off school to do more exams 😭
can you just miss a few classes or is it like a big deal?
i mean that's not a terrible plan. it'll probably fall through tho. be aware of that. they will text her or something...

Would they really js randomly text her if the thing is authorized? Imma just see what the head of year says once i tell her about my parents thing

Would they really js randomly text her if the thing is authorized? Imma just see what the head of year says once i tell her about my parents thing