I don't know how to deal with my sister, she ****ed me off
We are in our 30s.
So we are coming back from the airport coming back home on the coach.
She knew the coach was leaving at 18.30 at the airport. She was sitting in the lounge, expecting the electric board to show up when you board the coach.
I told her let's go outside to wait early with my father and I don't want to be waiting nor I don't wish my seat to be taken, which could happen in you board late and have to sit by someone else.
So I kept telling her to wait outside early where the coach will park in the bay.
At 18.15, I went outside and saw the coach with a big queue outside forming. I went back inside to tell them the coach is here.
The next thing she said is we lot **** her off. I did tell her a few times wait early outside. So there wouldn't be this commotion.
It's just like the cousin situation, I had 24 pieces of evidence, I reported the cousin to the police for bullying, abuse, threatening behaviour and hate speech. The police acknowledged this. But my sister didn't admit the cousins past behaviour, she didn't say anything, got angry about it and just told me "why don't I bring it up with him". But she too could have stood up to me and tell him straight.
She also said let's have a family discussion, but with no support from her? No evidence from her? This was too easy, she couldn't even say what the police said to him and his family. Job done, nothing complex
Her husband said do you evidence so he can support me, but my sister knew his past poor conduct
Would you say on both instances, she's in the wrong?
So we are coming back from the airport coming back home on the coach.
She knew the coach was leaving at 18.30 at the airport. She was sitting in the lounge, expecting the electric board to show up when you board the coach.
I told her let's go outside to wait early with my father and I don't want to be waiting nor I don't wish my seat to be taken, which could happen in you board late and have to sit by someone else.
So I kept telling her to wait outside early where the coach will park in the bay.
At 18.15, I went outside and saw the coach with a big queue outside forming. I went back inside to tell them the coach is here.
The next thing she said is we lot **** her off. I did tell her a few times wait early outside. So there wouldn't be this commotion.
It's just like the cousin situation, I had 24 pieces of evidence, I reported the cousin to the police for bullying, abuse, threatening behaviour and hate speech. The police acknowledged this. But my sister didn't admit the cousins past behaviour, she didn't say anything, got angry about it and just told me "why don't I bring it up with him". But she too could have stood up to me and tell him straight.
She also said let's have a family discussion, but with no support from her? No evidence from her? This was too easy, she couldn't even say what the police said to him and his family. Job done, nothing complex
Her husband said do you evidence so he can support me, but my sister knew his past poor conduct
Would you say on both instances, she's in the wrong?
Reply 1
Hopefully she learned it's better to wait for the coach outside than inside 
Reply 2
I don't understand why you are interacting with her so much, e.g. going on hols, if she is a great annoyance.
You're in your thirties, you can chose who to spend your energy on.
You're in your thirties, you can chose who to spend your energy on.
Reply 3
I thank you and appreciate your replies. It's best to wait early outside.
Or at least, she shouldn't given more input with the cousin situation. If I can't stand up for myself, then like two counsellors said, a mental health worker said, more support has to be given, she did say talk to him, but she could've easily said a lot of things
Or at least, she shouldn't given more input with the cousin situation. If I can't stand up for myself, then like two counsellors said, a mental health worker said, more support has to be given, she did say talk to him, but she could've easily said a lot of things
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