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People who have parent issues, what can I do?

Hi I am a 16 year old female, am almost turning 17. When I was 13 I got a bf it was nice and everything. My parents didn’t like him because he was not my race and they didn’t find him attractive. Hes my age. They wouldn’t let me see him so I started to dich school when I was 14 and I would have sex with him. We were together and then one day my mom found out I ditched after 30 times. I admit I was in the wrong.
I got in trouble and wtv. They started to let me go with him and one day they decided they ain’t want no more. So I started to ditch again when I was 15. My mom found out again and made a big deal about it. She treated me to the worst. I been trying to become better because I know it was very unmature of me. In that moment I just wanted someone to love me because my parents made it clear that they didn’t care about me. They just didn’t want me pregnant. My mom tried to make me marry him and she kicked me out. Well now I’m 16 almost 17 and I’m still in my parents house. I have been saving up money to ditch this house as soon as I’m 18. My mom totally hate me and I can tell. She embarrasses me in front of people. Then she tells them my personal life and it’s gross and I feel embarrassed but I can’t say anything. I’m getting tired of this. If this is important im Mexican.
What can I do ?
In worst case, if you can't get along with ypur parents no more, I would move in a living community and share a common flat. Of course you and your flatmate need jobs to finance it in the long run. But that was the way I did.
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