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just got back with ex

hello,
i recently got back with my ex after 2 months of being separated, were a long distance couple but i'm afraid that i made the wrong decision as last time we broke up she really hurt me and took a piece of me i cant get back.... anyone got any advice ?

Reply 1

StriderHort

Is this one of those long distance things where you've never met?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

no we met, it was going well for 5 months then it ended as she said she was afraid because she had never been in a proper relationship before

Reply 3

Dunnig Kruger

How likely is it that you or her or both of you will move so that you're living in the same house or the same city - before the end of 2026?

If there's almost zero possibility of that, you've got her back as a pen-friend / online video chat friend. Which is fine. But it's not the same as being in a full on relationship with someone with whom you spend at least 2 nights a month under the same roof.

If there is a realistic possibility of geographic relocation, then the true getting together will happen when one or both of you moves.

When the right man comes along for her, that behaves and speaks in ways that get her interested and attracted enough, she will start a proper relationship with him, and her fears about forming a relationship will fall by the wayside.