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Help! i like my flatmate!

Serious problem (okay i'm exaggerating slightly)

But i have a major major crush on my flatmate!!!! :love:
This is not helped by the fact we just flirt constantly (proper gutter flirting!) I have a feeling that he likes me aswell, i so do not want to like him bcos he is a supreme t*t!!!
I no myself that its not good to get involved with someone who you live with (he's moving out in August) But im finding it increasingly difficult seeing him everyday, moving out isn't an option at all.
Also he went out yesterday, and came knocking on my door at 4 in the morning obvioiusly drunk, so something may have happened if let him in... :handkiss:

HELP!!! :help:

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Reply 1
why is he a t*t? is that like tit?
Reply 2
technik
why is he a t*t? is that like tit?


yeah, because he's obnoxious, racist, rude and some may say boring at times!
So why do you like him?
rupz84
yeah, because he's obnoxious, racist, rude and some may say boring at times!


then....... why oh why do you like him?
Reply 5
Onearmedbandit
So why do you like him?

thats the problem i seriously don't no!! its not like hes even that good looking!!
rupz84
thats the problem i seriously don't no!! its not like hes even that good looking!!


maybe it's the proximity.... if i was trapped in a flat with any guy, i know i will propbably like him at first- coz im like that u know :flute:
Reply 7
rainjan_4now
maybe it's the proximity.... if i was trapped in a flat with any guy, i know i will propbably like him at first- coz im like that u know :flute:


its not that, i live with 2other guys aswell, and those guys are seriously fit, and i think its a suprise 2 all my friends that i like this certain flatmate
aaah love is blind :rolleyes:
dnt get involved with him..trust me...:s:
Reply 9
well my suggestion is, ask him if he feels the same way, if so have sex and that way you have released all the sexual tension between you, if you still find yourself with this big crush you know its something serious and you could build on it from there...



(i know what i mean)
Reply 10
extreme
well my suggestion is, ask him if he feels the same way, if so have sex and that way you have released all the sexual tension between you, if you still find yourself with this big crush you know its something serious and you could build on it from there...



(i know what i mean)


is it worth risking 6months of awkardness? where a pretty tight house. It would probably just be a sex thing, we would kill eachother if we went out. But it would be a shame to lose him as a friend, f**k buddie? surely thats what he wanted when he came knocking?
Reply 11
wild thing
aaah love is blind :rolleyes:
dnt get involved with him..trust me...:s:


i hear you, but im really sweet on him!! it truly is blind, my mate reckon he looks like Daniel Beddingfield!!
Reply 12
rupz84
is it worth risking 6months of awkardness? where a pretty tight house. It would probably just be a sex thing, we would kill eachother if we went out. But it would be a shame to lose him as a friend, f**k buddie? surely thats what he wanted when he came knocking?

exactly, this will test your instincts, its the best way in my opinion
Mabye its just because of all the flirting thats getting in the way and confusing you, i mean if hes rude, obnoxious, racist, boring and not that goodlooking.....what else is there.
Reply 14
these_apples
Mabye its just because of all the flirting thats getting in the way and confusing you, i mean if hes rude, obnoxious, racist, boring and not that goodlooking.....what else is there.

money...?
Reply 15
these_apples
Mabye its just because of all the flirting thats getting in the way and confusing you, i mean if hes rude, obnoxious, racist, boring and not that goodlooking.....what else is there.


... he can be really sweet and he is very funny... it doesnt excuse the way he usually acts i know. But im obsessed! usually if i have a crush its cool cos i wont see the guy for ages and its one of those silly things and it may even work out. Its shitty seeing him all the time!
Reply 16
extreme
money...?


hes a broke student! monry would have been something2 hold on to!
Reply 17
rupz84
hes a broke student! monry would have been something2 hold on to!

but he might be rich one day...
rupz84
... he can be really sweet and he is very funny... it doesnt excuse the way he usually acts i know. But im obsessed! usually if i have a crush its cool cos i wont see the guy for ages and its one of those silly things and it may even work out. Its shitty seeing him all the time!

How about you just drop all the flirting, if that is at all possible :rolleyes: , and mabye that will cool things down :smile: .
Reply 19
extreme
but he might be rich one day...


i don't wanna marry the dude!! yeah he might be hes an middle-class capitalist!

should i mention last night???!!! make a joke about it?