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Help! i like my flatmate!

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Reply 20
rupz84
i don't wanna marry the dude!! yeah he might be hes an middle-class capitalist!

should i mention last night???!!! make a joke about it?

yeah, just hit implicitly that there could nerver be anything in it, especially a relationship
Reply 21
these_apples
How about you just drop all the flirting, if that is at all possible :rolleyes: , and mabye that will cool things down :smile: .


ive tried, but he'll somehow know what im doing and comes over and starts jabbing me or tries play-fighting with me! or he thinks im upset with him and tries to make me laugh.
rupz84
ive tried, but he'll somehow know what im doing and comes over and starts jabbing me or tries play-fighting with me! or he thinks im upset with him and tries to make me laugh.

mmmmm, this is a toughie, you could tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and ask him verynicely to stop.
Reply 23
Shag Him
Reply 24
The easiest way to get over a guy is to find another... get out there and develop a new crush, someone who doesn't live with you!
shag him a few times and then move on
Reply 26
1. Put an advert in the paper,
NEW Competition: Brad Pitt/Hugh Grant (whatever floats your boat) lookalike contest! Must be non-smoker, funny, witty, rich etc etc. Prize is: win tenancy in a mystery flat. Ring xxxx-xxxxxxxx.

2. Throw out this racist boring non-goodlooking guy

3. Marry the contest winner :biggrin:
Reply 27
sleepyeba
1. Put an advert in the paper,
NEW Competition: Brad Pitt/Hugh Grant (whatever floats your boat) lookalike contest! Must be non-smoker, funny, witty, rich etc etc. Prize is: win tenancy in a mystery flat. Ring xxxx-xxxxxxxx.

2. Throw out this racist boring non-goodlooking guy

3. Marry the contest winner :biggrin:


:biggrin: Best advice so far :wink:
lessthanthree
Something based solely on physical attaction is generally regretted.


shag him and regret it afterwards :cool:
Reply 29
a guy from downstairs (who our whole falt is v friendly with) went out with one of my flatmates and it was a total distaster, they just irritated each other and were constantly arguing. they'd then split up and become really good friends again and so give it another go...

lou xxx
slap him
Reply 31
do it anal..you will both feel to embarrassed to look at each other after
Reply 32
TIMAAAAAAAAAAAY
shag him and regret it afterwards :cool:


thats probably whats gona happen, then it will be months of awkwardness and will lose him as friend!! :frown:
Reply 33
af1
do it anal..you will both feel to embarrassed to look at each other after



er nah!!
Reply 34
rupz84
thats the problem i seriously don't no!! its not like hes even that good looking!!


Hehehehehe I had a similar situation going on! :biggrin: I could see all the flaws in my ex and yet I still really liked him and I couldn't work out just WHAT I liked about him! :biggrin: - ahh well he's cool. It's more memories now than anything else - I think I still have intense feelings for him simply cus I care loads for him, but I don't necessarily fancy him anymore. Which is a little bit confusing :confused:

I think in the end I worked out it was honesty and sincerity, and he's very sweet - despite so incredibly blunt :rolleyes: But hey - honesty and bluntness tend to go together, and I don't mind a bit of bluntness cus honesty is important.
Reply 35
rupz84
thats probably whats gona happen, then it will be months of awkwardness and will lose him as friend!! :frown:


Just make sure you don't take your underwear off then :wink:
Reply 36
sleepyeba
1. Put an advert in the paper,
NEW Competition: Brad Pitt/Hugh Grant (whatever floats your boat) lookalike contest! Must be non-smoker, funny, witty, rich etc etc. Prize is: win tenancy in a mystery flat. Ring xxxx-xxxxxxxx.

2. Throw out this racist boring non-goodlooking guy

3. Marry the contest winner :biggrin:


lol best advice ive been given yet :smile: :smile:
Reply 37
irisng
Hehehehehe I had a similar situation going on! :biggrin: I could see all the flaws in my ex and yet I still really liked him and I couldn't work out just WHAT I liked about him! :biggrin: - ahh well he's cool. It's more memories now than anything else - I think I still have intense feelings for him simply cus I care loads for him, but I don't necessarily fancy him anymore. Which is a little bit confusing :confused:

I think in the end I worked out it was honesty and sincerity, and he's very sweet - despite so incredibly blunt :rolleyes: But hey - honesty and bluntness tend to go together, and I don't mind a bit of bluntness cus honesty is important.


why is it where attracted to peeps that are so wrong for us?!?! maybe it makes it exciting?
Reply 38
I say go for it, having sex with someone you live with and have broken up with is not awkward. The likelihood is however, if you do break up its because you dont like the person/each other, just as you dont like some people you meet - just one of those things, in which case, it will be awkward, but not because youve had sex, because you dislike each other..dunno if that makes sense
Reply 39
rupz84
thats the problem i seriously don't no!! its not like hes even that good looking!!

Get out more :wink: . See some other guy