But i have a major major crush on my flatmate!!!! This is not helped by the fact we just flirt constantly (proper gutter flirting!) I have a feeling that he likes me aswell, i so do not want to like him bcos he is a supreme t*t!!! I no myself that its not good to get involved with someone who you live with (he's moving out in August) But im finding it increasingly difficult seeing him everyday, moving out isn't an option at all. Also he went out yesterday, and came knocking on my door at 4 in the morning obvioiusly drunk, so something may have happened if let him in...
How about you just drop all the flirting, if that is at all possible , and mabye that will cool things down .
ive tried, but he'll somehow know what im doing and comes over and starts jabbing me or tries play-fighting with me! or he thinks im upset with him and tries to make me laugh.
ive tried, but he'll somehow know what im doing and comes over and starts jabbing me or tries play-fighting with me! or he thinks im upset with him and tries to make me laugh.
mmmmm, this is a toughie, you could tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and ask him verynicely to stop.
1. Put an advert in the paper, NEW Competition: Brad Pitt/Hugh Grant (whatever floats your boat) lookalike contest! Must be non-smoker, funny, witty, rich etc etc. Prize is: win tenancy in a mystery flat. Ring xxxx-xxxxxxxx.
2. Throw out this racist boring non-goodlooking guy
1. Put an advert in the paper, NEW Competition: Brad Pitt/Hugh Grant (whatever floats your boat) lookalike contest! Must be non-smoker, funny, witty, rich etc etc. Prize is: win tenancy in a mystery flat. Ring xxxx-xxxxxxxx.
2. Throw out this racist boring non-goodlooking guy
a guy from downstairs (who our whole falt is v friendly with) went out with one of my flatmates and it was a total distaster, they just irritated each other and were constantly arguing. they'd then split up and become really good friends again and so give it another go...
thats the problem i seriously don't no!! its not like hes even that good looking!!
Hehehehehe I had a similar situation going on! I could see all the flaws in my ex and yet I still really liked him and I couldn't work out just WHAT I liked about him! - ahh well he's cool. It's more memories now than anything else - I think I still have intense feelings for him simply cus I care loads for him, but I don't necessarily fancy him anymore. Which is a little bit confusing
I think in the end I worked out it was honesty and sincerity, and he's very sweet - despite so incredibly blunt But hey - honesty and bluntness tend to go together, and I don't mind a bit of bluntness cus honesty is important.
1. Put an advert in the paper, NEW Competition: Brad Pitt/Hugh Grant (whatever floats your boat) lookalike contest! Must be non-smoker, funny, witty, rich etc etc. Prize is: win tenancy in a mystery flat. Ring xxxx-xxxxxxxx.
2. Throw out this racist boring non-goodlooking guy
Hehehehehe I had a similar situation going on! I could see all the flaws in my ex and yet I still really liked him and I couldn't work out just WHAT I liked about him! - ahh well he's cool. It's more memories now than anything else - I think I still have intense feelings for him simply cus I care loads for him, but I don't necessarily fancy him anymore. Which is a little bit confusing
I think in the end I worked out it was honesty and sincerity, and he's very sweet - despite so incredibly blunt But hey - honesty and bluntness tend to go together, and I don't mind a bit of bluntness cus honesty is important.
why is it where attracted to peeps that are so wrong for us?!?! maybe it makes it exciting?
I say go for it, having sex with someone you live with and have broken up with is not awkward. The likelihood is however, if you do break up its because you dont like the person/each other, just as you dont like some people you meet - just one of those things, in which case, it will be awkward, but not because youve had sex, because you dislike each other..dunno if that makes sense