Scared to orgasm?Watch
I'm planning on buying a little something for myself from Ann Summers to teach myself how to come so I am eventually hopefully able to do the same during sex.
I've had this before and I think its to do with not being fully able to let yourself go with the other person yet. You need to be able to be a bit more selfish in acheiving your own needs sexually.
Masterbation will help though, it will let you know that you can do it when no-ones there. If, however you can't do it on your own, then imo this hints at a deeper pyschological problem with intimacy and orgasm.
On my own I’ve made myself ***, via toys. ( not always though ). But I feel when I reach that point of adrenaline that I freak out.
I used to be sexually active in my younger days, (15- 19) , ( I’m now 27 ) .
I think it all stopped when something bad happened when I was 19.
this advice thing is soo deeep, I’m so glad I signed up to this.
so do you think because of what happened when I was 19 has kinda like scared me , but not fully as I can talk about it and not feel a sad emotion.