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Reply 1
usually wait for them to call me...if i ever remember ive exchanged phone numbers...But If i did Id wait...Probably because id be scared incase they forgot that they met me...and forgot they had my number...so erm...wait i can see a vicious circle appearing here...
Reply 2
Definately wait for them to call me, although I very rarely give out my actual number (just a fake one as I said earlier!!)
Reply 3
Rule 1 for a girl: sleep with the guy the first night. That way, if he's crap in bed, you won't have to waste time to find out and can dump him on the spot (advice from a female friend)
Reply 4
Girls - Never trust guy
Guys - Never trust girl

Lesbians - Never trust girls
Gay Guys - Never trust guys
SamTheMan
Rule 1 for a girl: sleep with the guy the first night. That way, if he's crap in bed, you won't have to waste time to find out and can dump him on the spot (advice from a female friend)

you know that actually makes sense in a weird and terrible kind of way
Reply 6
amo1
hey i have cirtain guidelines on what to do in relationships for me... i was just wandering, if u meet a guy at a party and exchange phone numbers, how long do u gals wait b4 calling... or do u just not call him


i'd text later that night
i have a problem with calling people even if i do know them.
Reply 7
angel D
i'd text later that night
i have a problem with calling people even if i do know them.

yeah i no... but im not sure cause i got a girls number after at the pub... but it was a ill call u situ.
but the girl i liked was pretty cool but she thrust her phone into my hand so i was thinking i was screwed (incase she was like me)
I asked a girl for her number on new years eve and I told her I would ring her new years day but I sort of bottled out and sent her a txt message on new years day saying whens best to ring or would you rather I just txt you and she sent one back saying that she didn't mind so I jumped at the opportunity to just txt her. If I ever get a girls number again though, I'm going to ring.
Reply 9
Natalie Lane
you know that actually makes sense in a weird and terrible kind of way

Is that the way Brazilian girls do it?
Reply 10
britishseapower
I asked a girl for her number on new years eve and I told her I would ring her new years day but I sort of bottled out and sent her a txt message on new years day saying whens best to ring or would you rather I just txt you and she sent one back saying that she didn't mind so I jumped at the opportunity to just txt her. If I ever get a girls number again though, I'm going to ring.


but ringing is so scarey and so not for people who u hardly know
SamTheMan
Is that the way Brazilian girls do it?

is it the way english girls do it?
yeah I know even after I had met up with her a couple of times I was proper nervous when I rang her for the first time but after I had, I just felt relieved; it was kinda awkward though because she would go to say something and I would to then we would argue over who was going to say it first :biggrin:
Natalie Lane
is it the way english girls do it?

Ask them. Although some of them are surprising dishonest...
SamTheMan
Ask them. Although some of them are surprising dishonest...

then why do you think I'd be honest? :smile:

Well if you're looking for a real answer then I'd say no as nobody I know does that, it does however seem like a reasonable theory, if she values sex so much that it's a priority in a relationship there's nothing wrong with the what she said...
Reply 15
Natalie Lane
then why do you think I'd be honest? :smile:

Well if you're looking for a real answer then I'd say no as nobody I know does that, it does however seem like a reasonable theory, if she values sex so much that it's a priority in a relationship there's nothing wrong with the what she said...

to be honest i dont know many guys who would have sex with someone on the first daye if there looking for a serious relationship
i would never call a guy first
N-O W-A-Y :biggrin:
though id make the first step but not phone :s:
Reply 17
texting is the way to go! wen u want to 'establish contact' anyway./.. then u dont have to worry about those awkward silences lol.
nto reall y i was just talk ing for 2 hours to someone i never met before.
mangomaz
texting is the way to go! wen u want to 'establish contact' anyway./.. then u dont have to worry about those awkward silences lol.

Thats what I did with the last girl I met just txt back and forth for like 4 hours, its good because you can think about what you want to say and stuff