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being in love

ok well i talk to my ex allllll the time and we talk about everything together, we started talking about love and stuff like that and he hates its (long story aswell) and i started saying to him i love you, cos i thought if i say it enought times he wil love love.

so last night after i was talking to him about some home stuff i was about to go when i said i love you

he said i think i might just do as well, and i thought he was joking cos he always does that stuff to me and i always fall for it, and i was like stop lieing and he said why would i lie about something i hate so much?
i got rreally really freaked out he sent me an email today and ill put it up on a sec, what do you think i should do?

edit :the email

Listen i said i might love u not i do just i might but obviousley ur not happy wid wat i said and ur not comfortable with it. You cant forget it so maybe its better if we dont talk because I dont want to make u feel uncomfortable or aqward!!!
Take Care
Reply 1
The best thing to do is talk to him about it!! Sorry i can't help much :frown:
Reply 2
hmm ok well thanks anyway
Reply 3
gossip_girl
hmm ok well thanks anyway

Sorry, But welcome back anyway :smile:
Reply 4
Sparkey
The best thing to do is talk to him about it!! Sorry i can't help much :frown:


Probably the best thing to do. I mean, just ignoring something like that would mean that you compeltly lose the relationship you had with your ex (which by the way, sound really good considering you're ex's!!) So you have to think, what is more important? Finding out why he feels this way, or losing him as a friend?

(Hey Sparkey, long time no talk! :smile: thanks for the rep the other day- will do you the min i'm allowed to (damn, there goes my suprise!))
Reply 5
izzy_hattie
Probably the best thing to do. I mean, just ignoring something like that would mean that you compeltly lose the relationship you had with your ex (which by the way, sound really good considering you're ex's!!) So you have to think, what is more important? Finding out why he feels this way, or losing him as a friend?

(Hey Sparkey, long time no talk! :smile: thanks for the rep the other day- will do you the min i'm allowed to (damn, there goes my suprise!))

:eek: :eek: :biggrin: Thanks
gossip_girl
ok well i talk to my ex allllll the time and we talk about everything together, we started talking about love and stuff like that and he hates its (long story aswell) and i started saying to him i love you, cos i thought if i say it enought times he wil love love.

so last night after i was talking to him about some home stuff i was about to go when i said i love you

he said i think i might just do as well, and i thought he was joking cos he always does that stuff to me and i always fall for it, and i was like stop lieing and he said why would i lie about something i hate so much?
i got rreally really freaked out he sent me an email today and ill put it up on a sec, what do you think i should do?

edit :the email

Listen i said i might love u not i do just i might but obviousley ur not happy wid wat i said and ur not comfortable with it. You cant forget it so maybe its better if we dont talk because I dont want to make u feel uncomfortable or aqward!!!
Take Care


but but he's your EX....i saw my ex today and it was really weird :s: coz he still can't get over taht i dumped him lol:biggrin:. BUt we were having this really superficial conversation and then he kinda said that he wanted to get back with me....that's the worse though coz it was like 5 months ago and he cant get over it :mad:..so i think you should give time to your ex to adjust to the new situation
unless you like him :eek:
But i don't..im going out with the most perfect guy ever :love: :wink:
Reply 7
anymore things?
Why is he your ex?
Reply 9
Laces
Why is he your ex?

becasue i only saw him as a friend,
Thats what the last girl I liked saw me as :frown:
Reply 11
lessthanthree
I think the word love and the phrase "I love you" is far overused. You don't just say it to get the person used to the idea; you have to feel it, and they do too. I highly doubt this is the case.


Oh, very very well said. I couldn't agree more.

Last time I had strong feelings I described to him how he made me feel.. I told him that I loved him without using those 3 charged words.. they can complicate everything so much anyway.
Reply 12
ok update: he doesnt love me