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Relationships are not worth it

magiccarpet

2

no they are not :frown:

*hurty*

is it better not to have any?

Reply 1

Scout

1

I'm feeling that maybe I should just not bother as I just seem to mess them up and make a massive idiot out of my self :shot:

can't wait till the weekend house party and probably going out on saturday night! bring it on :cheers:

*hugs all around!*

Reply 2

magiccarpet

OP

2

i think the amount of hurt and trouble they cause is not justified by the means.
they just mess u up. im not gay im just not interested in having any more relationships

Reply 3

Harv616

9

Yes

all people suck, your better off single and bitter

Reply 4

frost105

14

Relatoinships are worth it but its importnat to accept that nor every single relationship will work out and that they may disintergrate.

Reply 5

magiccarpet

OP

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ya but wat im saying is, the amount of pain caused when they break up is so hurty its best not to have any in the first place

btw u r right about the guy. he managed to take some girl out for a fancy meal to jus call me a aminute ago to let me know about it. however to apologise to me he could only buy me a cheap rose and take me to burger king for a coke with his mate

Reply 6

britishseapower

14

magiccarpet

i think the amount of hurt and trouble they cause is not justified by the means.
they just mess u up. im not gay im just not interested in having any more relationships

I know how you feel and sometimes I feel like whats the point, at my age, realistically, most relationships I'm going to get in to aren't going to last anyway because people move on in life and stuff but I think you need to have them even when they go wrong because it helps to prepare you for the right one

Reply 7

frost105

14

magiccarpet

ya but wat im saying is, the amount of pain caused when they break up is so hurty its best not to have any in the first place

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

magiccarpet

btw u r right about the guy. he managed to take some girl out for a fancy meal to jus call me a aminute ago to let me know about it. however to apologise to me he could only buy me a cheap rose and take me to burger king for a coke with his mate

Just delete his number and have his number blocked on your phone. Be polite when you see him but dont get dragged into conversation.

Reply 8

magiccarpet

OP

2

yaaa but it huuurts im naturally sensitive and jealous and i get all encompassed by my lov so when it goes a bit wrong it hhhuuuurrrttrttrrrsss. im destined to be alone in this world :frown:

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Reply 9

magiccarpet

OP

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frost105

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

Just delete his number and have his number blocked on your phone. Be polite when you see him but dont get dragged into conversation.

thanks frost.
i think im dying :frown:

Reply 10

frost105

14

magiccarpet

thanks frost.
i think im dying :frown:

Eventually you will get over it. Go to the gym and take out some rage on a punch bag :biggrin:

Reply 11

magiccarpet

OP

2

im too fat to fit in the gym. i so loved the guy. im really hurting and dying now. im never going for any relationships again

'one man and his dog' in this life

Reply 12

britishseapower

14

magiccarpet

yaaa but it huuurts im naturally sensitive and jealous and i get all encompassed by my lov so when it goes a bit wrong it hhhuuuurrrttrttrrrsss. im destined to be alone in this world :frown:

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Ure just the same as me you know, I found out this girl liked me and I liked her as well and since we met up she just took over my life, I get far too attached in that way, she was even affecting my sleeping patterns and she was the first thing I thought about in the morning when I woke up and the Last thing I thought about before I went to sleep and the longer I knew her, the more I got attached to her so when it ended I was so depressed even more depressed than when I broke up with my first girlfriend and that was hard for me

Reply 13

Scout

1

*gets the unsterilised nail scissors out* :ridinghor that'll teach him a lesson! :biggrin:

Reply 14

magiccarpet

OP

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britishseapower

Ure just the same as me you know, I found out this girl liked me and I liked her as well and since we met up she just took over my life, I get far too attached in that way, she was even affecting my sleeping patterns and she was the first thing I thought about in the morning when I woke up and the Last thing I thought about before I went to sleep and the longer I knew her, the more I got attached to her so when it ended I was so depressed even more depressed than when I broke up with my first girlfriend and that was hard for me

yah the exact thing happens to me. :bawling:

i just get messed around and hurt i think we should stay single and strong

Reply 15

Acaila

17

Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. And I believe it.
Magiccarpet, he's not good enough for you sweetie :wink:

Reply 16

magiccarpet

OP

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Acaila

Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. And I believe it.
Magiccarpet, he's not good enough for you sweetie :wink:

how is it better? in wat way?

and if he wasnt good enogh for me then why did i like him in the first place?

Reply 17

undercover-ange

Well think of it as a bit like having a dog. You love that dog and play with it every day. You love it despite it being smelly and getting in the way when you're trying to do something and licking things you're eating. That dog dies. It's very upsetting. Would you then never consider having another dog? Lots of people go through life always having a dog, buying new ones when the old one dies. They must think it was worth having that pet in the first place, and all the others, even though their time together ended. The relationships were worth it :smile:

xxx

Reply 18

britishseapower

14

magiccarpet

im too fat to fit in the gym. i so loved the guy. im really hurting and dying now. im never going for any relationships again

'one man and his dog' in this life

I know you won't believe me and will think I'm a **** but you will get over it, I know its hard but you will eventually, you need to get a grip of yourself, I do too because I feel the exact same way as you, I know its not easy but its the best thing to do, if they don't like you or if they did but they don't feel the same now then the best thing to do is move on, if they don't give a **** about you, why not give a **** about yourself, someone has to and being down and that aint looking after yourself if you know what I mean

Reply 19

khil

15

magiccarpet

ya but wat im saying is, the amount of pain caused when they break up is so hurty its best not to have any in the first place

btw u r right about the guy. he managed to take some girl out for a fancy meal to jus call me a aminute ago to let me know about it. however to apologise to me he could only buy me a cheap rose and take me to burger king for a coke with his mate

Relationships are always worth it - it's more of a blessing to give than it is to receive. I know that sounds like a load of crap - but it's true. I find that it is a lot more of a privilege to be able to give - and to give to someone whom you love. And because of what you put in, when you receive, it also becomes a blessing.

Well there's also always the saying - it's better to love and lost than to never love at all. You can cease to having any relationships and be safe like that - but then you also miss out on the blessings that comes with the pain. It really does depends on how much you value the person - do you think they are/were worth the pain? In the end it comes down to how mcuh you're willing to give.

*huggles* I know how it feels when your boyfriend seem to not give you the attention you need - heh I have a hard time just thinking my ex isn't giving me the attention he should as a good friend, seeing as we've agreed to stay friends. Must be worse when he's your boyfriend.

Relationships are not worth it

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