Relationships are not worth it

I know you won't believe me and will think I'm a **** but you will get over it, I know its hard but you will eventually, you need to get a grip of yourself, I do too because I feel the exact same way as you, I know its not easy but its the best thing to do, if they don't like you or if they did but they don't feel the same now then the best thing to do is move on, if they don't give a **** about you, why not give a **** about yourself, someone has to and being down and that aint looking after yourself if you know what I mean

yar but its haaard. thanks for the advic tho. it just hurt alot right now. i think im gona never lov anyone again

but the same thing happened in my last relationship as well. and i;'ve only had two (one and a half really cos the other guy said we were not together)

Maybe we simply fall for the same types of guys?

Just be more careful at choosing guys and don't lose your heart too quickly - there's no need to avoid relationships altogether There're loads of nice guys out there - you can't generalise them into two guys (or my one guy for that matter).

You'll be fine. Just cry and let it out if you need to - gradually things will get better. But for now *huggles times a million*

you will meet someone again, I've only had one girlfriend and has one girl who came really close to being my girlfriend and both of them ended in a mess but I know I will meet someone else one day as hard as it is to believe now, you just have to have hope

The only way to earn from a break up is to reflect on it. If you dont identify all the things that you both did wrong than you just remain in this stagnant place, not emotionally growing.

not growing, emotionally hurting!

but maybe he didnt really take out another girl. he said he had just come back from the restaurant with his friend. maybe it isnt how it looks

wat do u think i shed do? i can stay and carry on hurting or i can leav and giv up on realtionships?cheers fro the advic frost321!

Leave the guy and just move on. Dont search to get involved with anyone an go out with your mates and concentrate on living your life. Love and relationships come from funny places in your life but worrying and obbsessing over it will make you miserable.

Reflect on what you both did wrong and then move on. Dont obsess.

Pain can be good - makes us grow, and makes us cherish what we have - so when the good finally comes, we recognise how good it is and we don't waste it away - and we cherish it and end up with much more.

People will always fail you from time to time - you just gotta learn to forgive them. When you do, you'll have more peace - and you can move on and stop holding onto the hurt. It's hard to let go cus it feels like it'll hurt more and you don't trust anyone - but then if you give up on relationships then that means you never move from this place of hurt and deep down you'll never be happy and carry on hurting and you'll forget how to love and how good it was and you'll forget how to open up your heart again. A guy is not worth destroying yourself over.

Hey you got msn magiccarpet?

You'll meet someone. I look forward to meeting a nice Christian guy at uni I believe there's someone out there for me. There's someone for you too - there must be! - there're so many guys in this world hehe

yar ok i need to marry myself.

God dont worry about marriage, your still young!

how old are u? u always seem alot mature and older than me. if this wasnt a student forum i'd say you were about 30!

still i will remain single and alone. i am a silent warrior in this life. :heeeellll :secruity: