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Relationships are not worth it
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Single is definately the way to go. No commitments. 
Relationships are definitely worth it, even after they end, they provide such a wide range of happy memories which you cannot get elsewhere.
wiwarin_mir
Relationships are definitely worth it, even after they end, they provide such a wide range of happy memories which you cannot get elsewhere.
Ahhhh... how true
Those memories can never be replaced - they'll always be special, I think also makes me feel a bit warmer towards my ex than I would've if we had never been together - but that affection feels nice, and it's just a warmth between friends. I don't think I'll ever forget those memories though cus so much of what I did was for the very first time of my life.irisng
Ahhhh... how true Those memories can never be replaced - they'll always be special, I think also makes me feel a bit warmer towards my ex than I would've if we had never been together - but that affection feels nice, and it's just a warmth between friends. I don't think I'll ever forget those memories though cus so much of what I did was for the very first time of my life.
Those memories can never be replaced - they'll always be special, I think also makes me feel a bit warmer towards my ex than I would've if we had never been together - but that affection feels nice, and it's just a warmth between friends. I don't think I'll ever forget those memories though cus so much of what I did was for the very first time of my life.Since I am just friends again with Micala (my ex) it has made us a lot closer and I feel I could ask/tell her anything. Last night I even commissione dher to do a painting for me (she is an excellent painter) and offered to pay her in skulls.
wiwarin_mir
Since I am just friends again with Micala (my ex) it has made us a lot closer and I feel I could ask/tell her anything. Last night I even commissione dher to do a painting for me (she is an excellent painter) and offered to pay her in skulls.
magiccarpet
She likes skulls, so it seems like a good payment system. I have seen this lovely pentagram skull that I was thinking of getting her for the picture.
How can you truly live without having relationships? It's all part of life's rich tapestry (for good or for bad). Being cynical is a waste of effort sometimes I think, all it does it make you miserable.
wiwarin_mir
Since I am just friends again with Micala (my ex) it has made us a lot closer and I feel I could ask/tell her anything. Last night I even commissione dher to do a painting for me (she is an excellent painter) and offered to pay her in skulls.
i don't mean to be nasty, but how can you be so sure things are better now you're friends?... it's been like 3 days. when i split up with my ex-bf we both thought we were getting over it fine and were really good friends again... but i realised after (as did he) that we were both just kinda trying to deny the breakup and wanted to get back together
lou xxx
lou p
i don't mean to be nasty, but how can you be so sure things are better now you're friends?... it's been like 3 days. when i split up with my ex-bf we both thought we were getting over it fine and were really good friends again... but i realised after (as did he) that we were both just kinda trying to deny the breakup and wanted to get back together
lou xxx
i don't mean to be nasty, but how can you be so sure things are better now you're friends?... it's been like 3 days. when i split up with my ex-bf we both thought we were getting over it fine and were really good friends again... but i realised after (as did he) that we were both just kinda trying to deny the breakup and wanted to get back together
lou xxx
It is actually strange, both of us have been a lot more talkative since the break up and seem to be happier as we don't have the yearning of seeing each other that existed before (although we would like to see each other again, obviously)
magiccarpet
no they are not 
*hurty*
is it better not to have any?
*hurty*
is it better not to have any?
i think that you definitely have to have a relationship to say that they aren't worth the time and trouble.
I havent ever had a relationship, but im not yearning for one either- i like my time and space, but how long is my peace with isolation gonna last.....?
Adhsur
Awwwww magicgoogoo *Hugs* I feel your pain 
Not really
Not really
this guy has no feelings because he's a mod and everyone knows mods arent real people
ii just found out that the guy that i was trying to bbreak up with but i couldn cos i lovd him, was seeing someone else when we were together
magiccarpet
this guy has no feelings because he's a mod and everyone knows mods arent real people
ii just found out that the guy that i was trying to bbreak up with but i couldn cos i lovd him, was seeing someone else when we were together
ii just found out that the guy that i was trying to bbreak up with but i couldn cos i lovd him, was seeing someone else when we were together
To be more precise Rushda is female.
I can nver decide whether or not single is better. When I am in a relationship, I feel totally restricted, claustrophobic, and I have to get out, then as soon as I am alone again I start pining to have someone in my life! Guess the ideal is a shag-buddy as you get the good parts of a relationship (sex on tap) without any of the clingingness or neediness or wierd stuff!
thekillersrock
I can nver decide whether or not single is better. When I am in a relationship, I feel totally restricted, claustrophobic, and I have to get out, then as soon as I am alone again I start pining to have someone in my life! Guess the ideal is a shag-buddy as you get the good parts of a relationship (sex on tap) without any of the clingingness or neediness or wierd stuff!
But a relationship is not all about sex, it is about having someone who understands you and you feel contented and safe with.
i've just found out i've been cheated on. any advice?
magiccarpet
i've just found out i've been cheated on. any advice?
Think nothing more of him and get on with the rest of your life. If he cares so little about you as to cheat on you, he is not even worth your tears.
im hurting. he cheated on me just as we started going out. i only just found out. its 4 months later.
magiccarpet
i've just found out i've been cheated on. any advice?
Have a little cry if it helps. Then remind yourself. You have to go through a few relationships before you find the right person. Everyone will find someone that treats them wrong at some point. But then you can use it as a learning curve. You're still young.Theres plenty more opportunities round the corner.
magiccarpet
im hurting. he cheated on me just as we started going out. i only just found out. its 4 months later.
Ok. You have to decide. It was early days. Are you willing to foirgive him?
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