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Reply 60
well i havent spoken to him about it yet but from what i can gather he's been seeing her for as long as me nearly
magiccarpet
well i havent spoken to him about it yet but from what i can gather he's been seeing her for as long as me nearly


in that case, confront him. but my gut feeling here is saying get rid of him. If he can do that to you, then he is not worth the effort.
Reply 62
he used me to do his work. he banned me from seeing my ex. he stopped me seeing other p[eople. he manipulated me into thinking we were seeing each other. then when i found out he had lied to me again and again he bought me a rose and a coke in burger king to cheer me up when i tried to dump him
Reply 63
i've told you this at least a dozen times (as have most other people)... you are much better off without him

lou xxx
magiccarpet
he used me to do his work. he banned me from seeing my ex. he stopped me seeing other p[eople. he manipulated me into thinking we were seeing each other. then when i found out he had lied to me again and again he bought me a rose and a coke in burger king to cheer me up when i tried to dump him


so you're willing to let him manipulate you into who you see? Not a good move...
Reply 65
shootingstar
so you're willing to let him manipulate you into who you see? Not a good move...


im so hurt and used. everyone knew he was seeing her. but no-one knew he was seeing me cos he said not to tell anyone. :bawling:
magiccarpet
im so hurt and used. everyone knew he was seeing her. but no-one knew he was seeing me cos he said not to tell anyone. :bawling:


then, lesson number one. If a guy tries to get you to keep your relationship secret, its always a bad sign.
Reply 67
but it didnt seem to mean anything. he just said it would make people gossip. omg. omg. he went to a party and met his ex and they were seeing each other. do u think was as m8s? i cant ask him cos he'll lie and say yes
magiccarpet
but it didnt seem to mean anything. he just said it would make people gossip. omg. omg. he went to a party and met his ex and they were seeing each other. do u think was as m8s? i cant ask him cos he'll lie and say yes


I doubt it. If they ask you to keep it secret, there is always a chance he'll start messing you about in one way or another.
Reply 69
uh? that doesn't make sense... who cares if there's a bit of gossip when you start going out? it would never be enough for me to keep a relationship a secret. the only reason i wouldn't want gossip if i had something to hide

lou xxx
lou p
uh? that doesn't make sense... who cares if there's a bit of gossip when you start going out? it would never be enough for me to keep a relationship a secret. the only reason i wouldn't want gossip if i had something to hide

lou xxx


*agrees completely*
Reply 71
he said it was to protect me. he said if we fight people would know. when he said that we were together with no cheating. also i used to hate this girl cos he kept making me think he was with her and he told her i'd said bitchy things about her. omg wat do i do. also he asked out a single mom and she isnt talking to me cos i thought he fancied her.
im pretty f*ked
magiccarpet
he said it was to protect me. he said if we fight people would know. when he said that we were together with no cheating. also i used to hate this girl cos he kept making me think he was with her and he told her i'd said bitchy things about her. omg wat do i do. also he asked out a single mom and she isnt talking to me cos i thought he fancied her.
im pretty f*ked


then just forget him. tell him its over, and delete his number. Don't give him a chance to get you back.
Reply 73
shootingstar
then just forget him. tell him its over, and delete his number. Don't give him a chance to get you back.


actually i dont think he was cheating on me. he told me ages ago he'd had 3 hk gfs, 1 jap, 1 south korean, 2 english and 1 malaysian

so he never had an american ex if he lied aboutt hat then he couldnt have cheated
magiccarpet
actually i dont think he was cheating on me. he told me ages ago he'd had 3 hk gfs, 1 jap, 1 south korean, 2 english and 1 malaysian

so he never had an american ex if he lied aboutt hat then he couldnt have cheated


but he was still lying...
Reply 75
its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all
Reply 76
shootingstar
but he was still lying...

i dont care if he lied to everyone else, only if he lied to me
Reply 77
how can i find if he cheated or not?

i so lov the guy i don waana dump him unlss its necessary
Reply 78
:eek: he's going back to hong kong in 4 months. holy hell im realy screwed up now. he still doesnt know i know he cheated on me
Reply 79
this isn't love, and you know it