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Something wrong with my state of mind?

Hi all...

Basically I am in a motivation black hole. I can't seem to make myself get out of bed early, unless there is something I have to do - like teaching undergraduates :eek: - and I seem to make time disappear all the other times, usually surfing the net :redface: , and manage to get no work done. This is a bit of a problem, given that I am left to my own devices for long periods of time. I guess PhD students are expected to be able to handle that....

Anyway, my question is this. I am sure that some of you will have been thorugh motivation problems just like this. If you have how did you deal with it?


I am starting to get a bit worried about my lack of work lately :frown:
Reply 1
what_apples
Hi all...

Basically I am in a motivation black hole. I can't seem to make myself get out of bed early, unless there is something I have to do - like teaching undergraduates :eek: - and I seem to make time disappear all the other times, usually surfing the net :redface: , and manage to get no work done. This is a bit of a problem, given that I am left to my own devices for long periods of time. I guess PhD students are expected to be able to handle that....

Anyway, my question is this. I am sure that some of you will have been thorugh motivation problems just like this. If you have how did you deal with it?


I am starting to get a bit worried about my lack of work lately :frown:

I have that exact same problem, unless I know that there is something I need to do, I will never do anything and end up getting up really quite late.
Reply 2
I felt like that so I skived college yesterday and walked to the bech sat there for a while, went to maccys and went home, I feel better! I even finished my PE cw when I got home! :eek:
Reply 3
wiwarin_mir
I have that exact same problem, unless I know that there is something I need to do, I will never do anything and end up getting up really quite late.


Is your getting up late related to going to sleep late? :biggrin: JK!

Mine isn't - even though I go to bed reasonably early and get up late it still feels like I have had no rest - almost as if I have been worrying about it in my sleep :confused:

I have no idea if this is related, but I haven't had any dreams (i.e. I don't remember having dreams, not that I had one but can't remember it) for a long time now. Tres weird. I feel a bit cheated actually - dreams are great!
Reply 4
what_apples
Is your getting up late related to going to sleep late? :biggrin: JK!

Mine isn't - even though I go to bed reasonably early and get up late it still feels like I have had no rest - almost as if I have been worrying about it in my sleep :confused:

I have no idea if this is related, but I haven't had any dreams (i.e. I don't remember having dreams, not that I had one but can't remember it) for a long time now. Tres weird. I feel a bit cheated actually - dreams are great!

I have been getting to bed earlier recently but I am still finding that I am getting up a lot later than I did when I was going to bed (and sleep) at these times before. I very rarely remember dreaming as well, but that might be that you are finishing a dream while you are still asleep.
Reply 5
wiwarin_mir
might be that you are finishing a dream while you are still asleep.


I suppose that might be tru, but I am talking months here... and prior to this I almost always could remember havin at least one dream. I know it sounds a bit dramatic, but it's like there's something missing :frown:

Oh man, I really need sort myself out
Reply 6
what_apples
I suppose that might be tru, but I am talking months here... and prior to this I almost always could remember havin at least one dream. I know it sounds a bit dramatic, but it's like there's something missing :frown:

Oh man, I really need sort myself out

Maybe you are lacking REM when you are asleep (although such a condition, in my knowledge at least, does not exist outside of Star trek)
Reply 7
wiwarin_mir
Maybe you are lacking REM when you are asleep (although such a condition, in my knowledge at least, does not exist outside of Star trek)

:biggrin:

Very funny. I actually laughed out loud! Yes, I know... I'm a geek :redface:
Reply 8
what_apples
:biggrin:

Very funny. I actually laughed out loud! Yes, I know... I'm a geek :redface:

I was being serious, but perhaps it was a silly idea. I see you too, just as these_apples are somewhat of a trekkie then.
Reply 9
wiwarin_mir
I was being serious, but perhaps it was a silly idea. I see you too, just as these_apples are somewhat of a trekkie then.


I guess it's possible, I just found the star trek thing too funny...

I think that these_apples didn't have much choice in what was on the telly when I (or our older sister) was around, so she "inherited" some trekkieness from us I guess, along with some other bizarre tastes.
what_apples
I guess it's possible, I just found the star trek thing too funny...

I think that these_apples didn't have much choice in what was on the telly when I (or our older sister) was around, so she "inherited" some trekkieness from us I guess, along with some other bizarre tastes.

Including a like of bare naked ladies?
Reply 11
what_apples
Hi all...

Basically I am in a motivation black hole. I can't seem to make myself get out of bed early, unless there is something I have to do - like teaching undergraduates :eek: - and I seem to make time disappear all the other times, usually surfing the net :redface: , and manage to get no work done. This is a bit of a problem, given that I am left to my own devices for long periods of time. I guess PhD students are expected to be able to handle that....

Anyway, my question is this. I am sure that some of you will have been thorugh motivation problems just like this. If you have how did you deal with it?


I am starting to get a bit worried about my lack of work lately :frown:


Yep, strange but true. That's the whole difference between sixth-form and university - not being spoon-fed and doing your own research. If you think you're in a motivational hole then you could always try making up a routine and sticking to it - e.g. if you forced yourself to do 3 things a day, no matter how big or small they were, you would accomplish 21 things a week. Repetition is the key, like revision just before exams.
I have a problem in that I leave everything until the last minute...I'm currently trying to finish off coursework for tommorow...only 700 words to go thank god but seriously...I've done so much tonight.

I just think,"Oh I can't do it now,I'll lose track of time and then miss my bus and forget to go to work/college/wherever.."

Then when I get in I am always too 'tired.'
Reply 13
sparklyglitter
I have a problem in that I leave everything until the last minute...I'm currently trying to finish off coursework for tommorow...only 700 words to go thank god but seriously...I've done so much tonight.

I just think,"Oh I can't do it now,I'll lose track of time and then miss my bus and forget to go to work/college/wherever.."

Then when I get in I am always too 'tired.'


I'm exactly the same.. it really sucks! I'm currently taking a break that has lasted.. hmm.. 40 minutes.. and now I'm knackered and can't bring myself to do more work :boring: :sleep:
Reply 14
jamieuk20
Yep, strange but true. That's the whole difference between sixth-form and university - not being spoon-fed and doing your own research. If you think you're in a motivational hole then you could always try making up a routine and sticking to it - e.g. if you forced yourself to do 3 things a day, no matter how big or small they were, you would accomplish 21 things a week. Repetition is the key, like revision just before exams.


I know exactly what you mean, but I have managed at uni for over 5 years before this has happened... Even the first year of my PhD was good as far as work goes. Thats why this is so weird to me.
what_apples
Hi all...

Basically I am in a motivation black hole. I can't seem to make myself get out of bed early, unless there is something I have to do - like teaching undergraduates :eek: - and I seem to make time disappear all the other times, usually surfing the net :redface: , and manage to get no work done. This is a bit of a problem, given that I am left to my own devices for long periods of time. I guess PhD students are expected to be able to handle that....

Anyway, my question is this. I am sure that some of you will have been thorugh motivation problems just like this. If you have how did you deal with it?


I am starting to get a bit worried about my lack of work lately :frown:


I'm having that exact problem at the moment. When I had exams recently tsr went offline for a few days, and I really did get more done. The lesson to be learned is: dispose of your means of procrastination for short periods of time during which you may be increasingly industrious :biggrin:

No idea about long-term solutions. But I'm kinda down and really tired atm so I'm just (rather wishfully) putting it down to that & other stuff.

ZarathustraX
lessthanthree
I kicked my butt, that's what I did.

It's good that you've come to the realisation that you've hit a rut - that's a big part of the problem overcome.

I like to write lists of things that need to be done...a long list looks very ominous, and makes you feel uncomfortable at the thought of having to shift that much paper, however, when you start to cross things off, having done them - you do get a feel of "hey, I can do this"..and it's a great morale booster.

If you can't hack the listing - get tighter on yourself; make a timetable.

About the net; you could always get a friend to hold onto your internet cable for a day so you can sort yourself out without being tempted.


There's no quick fix, nor anyone who can help you with this except yourself. All we can do is wish you luck.

Oooh I so shoulda read the rest of this thread before I replied! I agree wholeheartedly with >3's "listing" suggestion - I do that when I need to force myself to realise how much I need to be doing but am not!

ZarathustraX

EDIT: Hmmm...ok. That is possibly not the most coherent sentence I've ever written :redface:
Reply 17
lessthanthree
I kicked my butt, that's what I did.

It's good that you've come to the realisation that you've hit a rut - that's a big part of the problem overcome.

I like to write lists of things that need to be done...a long list looks very ominous, and makes you feel uncomfortable at the thought of having to shift that much paper, however, when you start to cross things off, having done them - you do get a feel of "hey, I can do this"..and it's a great morale booster.

If you can't hack the listing - get tighter on yourself; make a timetable.

About the net; you could always get a friend to hold onto your internet cable for a day so you can sort yourself out without being tempted.


There's no quick fix, nor anyone who can help you with this except yourself. All we can do is wish you luck.


Lists have worked in the past, so I guess I can give that a go....

As far as the internet cable goes.... I have wireless internet in my house now and I doubt that my housemate would appreciate it if I disabled the whole system :wink: And I can't live without it. Especially all my spam :biggrin: