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What actually is "frigid"? Am I frigid?

First things first- I am 17, a virgin, and never had a boyfriend.

I had never really thought I was that strange for being a virgin before, as I don't really socialise with a wide variety of people and I have other interests, and just didn't really have the time to think about it

A couple of weeks ago I went out clubbing for the first time with a couple of friends as it was her birthday. We met some guys and stuff, and after a few incidences my friend called me frigid cause I didn't respond the "right way" :s-smilie:

Heres a couple of things that happened:

* A guy asked me to grab his penis and I refused
* A different guy wanted to feel my boob and I refused
* A random guy tried to make out with me and I rejected him
* A guy asked me to go home with him and I said no
* A guy flirted with both me and my friend and then wanted me to sit on his lap and I said no because he was playing games with me and my mate
* a 30 something year old guy tried to grind with me and I got really freaked out cause he was erect and he was old :s-smilie:

Am I frigid?

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Reply 1

randdom

I wouldn't say you were at all.

Those are not things that anyone should expect you to do if you aren't comfortable with them. I think that it might be worth having a word with your friends and let them know how the fact that they are calling you frigid is making you feel because it seems really out of order to me.

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Anonymous

* A guy asked me to grab his penis and I refused
* A different guy wanted to feel my boob and I refused
* A random guy tried to make out with me and I rejected him
* A guy asked me to go home with him and I said no
* A guy flirted with both me and my friend and then wanted me to sit on his lap and I said no because he was playing games with me and my mate
* a 30 something year old guy tried to grind with me and I got really freaked out cause he was erect and he was old :s-smilie:

I'm glad to be male.

And you're not frigid - you're a normal, sane human being who doesn't want sexual shenanigans with dirty pissed up men.

Reply 4

EskimoJo

No. You need to get new friends.

Reply 5

Jordan1990

No this means you are not a slut.

I don't blame you for getting freaked out by a 30 year old.

Reply 6

Mr Roboto

Yes. How on earth did you turn down an erect 30 year old man?

:rofl:

Reply 7

Nex Angelus

a human which has been genetically engineered and fused to be 1/2 man 1/2 fridge.

epic.

Reply 8

Sarahl89

Maybe she said that in response to the way you acted towards it.. id not stand for any of that in a club either but i wouldn't make a big deal out of it at the time

Reply 9

pork products

You have friends that are slags

Reply 10

cynthia ncube

hie people hope you are as panicky as i am with the exams coming

no your normal

Not at all.

You just don't want to drop your knickers for any random bloke.

You're decent...you go girl !!!

Reply 13

jodie_lee

No! You should not have to feel you have to do those things with random men - if you were seeing someone for a while, and still felt like that, then maybe you are - but random men, no.