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The art of kissing, is it natural, or learned
Whats your opinion... I have never kissed a girl, but from my experiance, i would say that most guys have to have a bit of training
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hmmmm I dunno, I think its natural to a certian extent, but like everything else, some people are naturally talented and some arent 
Dont think I've changed my way of kissing at all, though guess it alters slightly to suit the other person best. So if I should be learning, Im not doing too well . . .
Dont think I've changed my way of kissing at all, though guess it alters slightly to suit the other person best. So if I should be learning, Im not doing too well . . .
Jaded
Whats your opinion... I have never kissed a girl, but from my experiance, i would say that most guys have to have a bit of training
Definitely natural, sexual things are too i find....if your personality's match then it just comes naturally, and its beautiful...whereas some people try to hard to have all these "techniques" and it fels like they are doing it from a manual or something....
I think it's natural - I don't believe the way I kiss now is fundamentally very different to how I kissed five years ago. Although I have kissed bad kissers and have manipulated them while kissing them into kissing better. So maybe you only have to be trained if you're naturally bad 
And the worst kissing crimes are undoubtedely opening your mouth too wide and tongues that are over-eager to explore every nook and cranny of your mouth
And the worst kissing crimes are undoubtedely opening your mouth too wide and tongues that are over-eager to explore every nook and cranny of your mouth
veryjammy
I think it's natural - I don't believe the way I kiss now is fundamentally very different to how I kissed five years ago. Although I have kissed bad kissers and have manipulated them while kissing them into kissing better. So maybe you only have to be trained if you're naturally bad
And the worst kissing crimes are undoubtedely opening your mouth too wide and tongues that are over-eager to explore every nook and cranny of your mouth
And the worst kissing crimes are undoubtedely opening your mouth too wide and tongues that are over-eager to explore every nook and cranny of your mouth
I agree completely! I hate it when the kiss is really sloppy because the other person can't keep their tongues and spit under control..Uck!
I think kissing depends on both people's style. The second girl I kissed I preferred to compared to the first (and this was within 24 hours of each other) but other people may say differently.
I dunno... I've kissed 2 girls before, the first... well I was pretty appalling. I took advice from a friend and from the internet too and the second girl I kissed went much better. So i dunno whether its learned or natural, if it is natural it could be a coincidence that my second time was better than the first.
I never really got taught to kiss, I just did what I thought was correct and I never got any complaints, Micala actually liked the way I kissed.
My current girlfriend is a completely different kisser to my ex-girlfriend. My other girlfriends have all been pretty boring and similar, but the two extremes have definitely been served by my last two girlfriends. You honestly couldn't find starker contrasts between two types of kissing, which is nice for me because I learn to become an all rounder 
Does anyone have any particular favourite styles of kissing then? I prefer the playful soft kinda ones rather than the deep suffocating ones...
It also depends n what style of kissing the other person likes, such as biting the lower lip.
jumpunderaboat
Agreed, none of this cannibalism business.
Yeah. It's annoying when people see I had a lovebite, which didn't go away until weeks later, and automatically think other activities excluding kissing occured...
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