What constitutes cheating?

can i say, my bf didnt speak to me for 2 weeks after i started crying when teling him bout my ex.

i didnt cheat. do you think he's justified?

can i say, my bf didnt speak to me for 2 weeks after i started crying when teling him bout my ex.

i didnt cheat. do you think he's justified?

i still don't think alcohol is a valid excuse for kissing someone. if you're that drunk you forget you have a partner, that's a problem in itself.

I agree with the kiss on lips as friends bit. Did his girlfriend find out? Annoyingly, the most moral thing you could do is to force him to tell her but i know few of us would do that, and maybe not even me (talk about hypocrit!). I have to confess to doing something similar but the girl i kissed was about to finish with her boyfriend. I think that makes it slightly better but i would still have rather not done it. I think any form of 'adultery', whether you are the aldulteror or the guilty accomplis, is best avoided.

Agreed, I HATE it when people use alcohol as an excuse.

The funny thing is, I love how quickly the people who were "drunk", sober up at 1am when the police have been called by the neighbour to a rowdy party.

Agreed, I HATE it when people use alcohol as an excuse.

The funny thing is, I love how quickly the people who were "drunk", sober up at 1am when the police have been called by the neighbour to a rowdy party.

I too think that using the excuse of being drunk is pathetic. When Micala ended up kissing a guy at a house party she went to, she made a point of stating that she hadn't been drunk.

Sh*t, is that why you broke up?

Agreed, I HATE it when people use alcohol as an excuse.

For me, cheating would be anything more than a kiss on the cheek. Flirting depends on who it's with and in what circumstances, eg jokey flirting with mutual friends is ok.

I'm so adamantly against cheating that I think I would find it difficult to forgive and I would under no circumstances do it myself. There are no excuses for it if you ask me

hm, perhaps i should've mentioned he'd fancied her for ages even before i came along. (and probably for a long time after, though he'd never admit to that.) the only reason they never got together would be because she wasn't interested.

it wasn't just the going out to dinner though, there were lots of other little things that just added up to make the whole situation 'wrong', and if the same thing/things were to happen now i wouldn't stand for it.

so yeah, i think "having a few friends that happen to be girls" is slightly different to going out on a one on one dinner date (yes, it was him who referred to it as a date), especially with someone you've obsessed over for months.

its like i said, people have different ideas of what they expect from relationships and some people would just let this kinda thing go. most of the people i've spoken to though (including my bf), do think it was wrong.

You must have overlooked the post where it was assumed that those who voted for kissing ONLY may have been unaware that they could choose more than one option, and therefore assumed that anything including kissing and beyond was cheating.