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how can i make my girl more attached to me?

ibo_1987

this is really complicated, but my girl has been distant even though we like go for long walks, how can i make her more like attached, like to hold my hand, or even kiss me when she wants to?

Reply 1

Flicker

ibo_1987

this is really complicated, but my girl has been distant even though we like go for long walks, how can i make her more like attached, like to hold my hand, or even kiss me when she wants to?

reverse psychology. don't crowd her or go on about it - that will push her away. i get like this with my boyfriend sometimes, and as soon as i just relax adn give him a bit of space, he relaxes too and then is much more affectionate!

Stop being so banal?

Profesh

Stop being so banal?

Oh shut it prof...he thinks everybody is banal compared to his mighty intellect...one day he'll realise he wa an obnoxious little tit, when he gets a bit more wordly :biggrin:

Reply 4

roff

what is banal is it some sort of anality?

Reply 5

Tyler Durden

ibo_1987

this is really complicated, but my girl has been distant even though we like go for long walks, how can i make her more like attached, like to hold my hand, or even kiss me when she wants to?

Get rich.

/cynical :biggrin:

Reply 6

Zurich

You can't make someone be affectionate. Just relax and show her a good time, have fun, make her happy. If she wants to be more affectionate, she will.

Reply 7

roff

To make a girl more affectionate, while you are having dinner with her, lob at nutcracker at her brain to split it open.
Then attach a keyboard to her spinal cord and type the following

CMD <affectionate> on
end script

Rescrew her brain back on, then watch her get kinky :wink:

Reply 8

F. Poste

Handcuffs. And superglue :biggrin:

Kinky!

Use a bit of psychology - association. (i don't know if this works)

Speak to her about something that brings up fond memories for her, then put your arm around her or touch her. Then in future, when you touch etc. it'll be associated with the fond memory.

Reply 11

Harv616

Some people like being close, others dont

Just give it time.

Reply 12

veryjammy

You can't make anyone more attached to you, just don't crowd her and try and enjoy your time together, if she likes spending time with u she'll probably be more affectionate in the future. Of course she could she be the type of person who isn't touchy-feely but thats another matter altogether

Reply 13

Butterfly

Your girlfriend doesn't kiss you? I don't actually think you can make her more attached; it's something that would just happen I'm afraid.

Reply 14

magiccarpet

maybe she's shy. with my bfs i am so embarassed to be affectionate in public. there is a time and a place. cook her a nice meal then ...

Reply 15

Mad_Monkey59

perhaps learning to turn her on would help :smile:

Reply 16

Mad Vlad

G4ry

Thats rather clever

Reply 17

Profesh

naivesincerity

one day he'll realise he wa an obnoxious little tit, when he gets a bit more wordly :biggrin:

'Wordly'? I sincerely hope you don't offer yourself in example.

Apologies, for any offence caused; I simply find those who post threads along the lines of 'how do I make my girlfriend like me?' to elicit the cerebral equivalent of a loud, incredulous moan.

As to 'banal'; the dictionary is there: use it.

Reply 18

Ziggy Stardust

ibo_1987

this is really complicated, but my girl has been distant even though we like go for long walks, how can i make her more like attached, like to hold my hand, or even kiss me when she wants to?

The trick here really is to tie/stick her to you, either using PVA clue, or thick rope. I recommend the latter.

Anyhoo, once you've achieved step 1. of this, the next step is easy peasy. You can then request she kisses you in exchange for you undoing the knot, in fact, you can even request her to hold your hand!

If this doesn't work, i'm afraid we're going to go down the route of good old violence.. I try not to let it get to this stage, though.

Reply 19

Monteferro

ibo_1987

this is really complicated, but my girl has been distant even though we like go for long walks, how can i make her more like attached, like to hold my hand, or even kiss me when she wants to?

Easy. You have to have a long conversation with her about this... don't be pushy or confrontational, just sit back and listen to what she has to say and what she feels like doing. And to make things better, do this in private - from the way you described her she probably won't open up to you in a public setting. Hope that helps. :smile: