is it right

every time me and my bf have a fight he always says stuff like (well i just tell another girl) or (wait till i go to work tomarrow )or (just nods his head in a way that hes going to do something) and he always gets mad because im always accusing him of stuff ,and it makes me think to myself should i go do something behind his back so i wont be the one looking stupid getting played? But everytime were not mad at each other no more i ask him about it and he says he was just playing and that he said it to get me mad.

Do u think its right for him to be even saying stuff llike that to make me think about going to cheat on him?

because of everything he tells me. and sometimes i just have feelings that hes doing something

It's never a good thing to cheat, no matter what the circumstances are. and No I don't think it's right for him to be saying things like that but then again I don't know either of you or the full story!

yeah i know i learned that cheating wasnt the right thing to do

every time me and my bf have a fight he always says stuff like (well i just tell another girl) or (wait till i go to work tomarrow )or (just nods his head in a way that hes going to do something) and he always gets mad because im always accusing him of stuff ,and it makes me think to myself should i go do something behind his back so i wont be the one looking stupid getting played? But everytime were not mad at each other no more i ask him about it and he says he was just playing and that he said it to get me mad.


Do u think its right for him to be even saying stuff llike that to make me think about going to cheat on him?

If you don't mind me asking, Do you trust him and are you happy in the relationship?

honestly to tell u the truth i am happy with him i love him alot and i have a little boy with him its just the trusting part i dont trust him

This relationship sounds like far too much hard work for me.

I'm not sure what to tell you, trust is something that you have to earn and if someone abuses that trust then you could have a problem. Have you tried talking to him, in a way that wouldn't sound like you're accusing him? (sounds easier than it is I know )

yes i have but as soon as we start to argue he starts accusing me of doing something and saying that hell get me back in someway. like last time i was on this forum and i replyed to someone and it was a guy i honestly didnt know there would be guys in this section cause it talked about preagnancy but anyways when he got home from work he checked what i was doing on the computer and he saw that the person i replyed to was a guy and he got mad he said that he was going to go join a forum so he can talk to girls

He sounds a bit insecure, so he's trying to make you jelous so he can feel better about himself

i dont really know what he trys to do or how he trys to make me feel but i dont understand why he always has to get even or just have something to do with a girl period

He's the only person that can tell you that i'm afraid

i ask him and when i do he just tells me stuff like well next time u know not to get me mad .