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false hopes vs destroyed relationships :S watch

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    There is one guy that likes me and I used to like him as well. At least I thought I used to like him. About a months ago he told me about his feelings and later on asked if i want to go out with him but I just kept quite. It was alright with him and he understood that maybe I need more time. However, the time passes and I do not feel anything stronger but he steal carries on being a sweet- heart and I love his attention. However, I do not think that it is possible for me and him to go out as gf and bf at least at this moment. I am thinking of telling him that but then it may destroy everything what we have now and I do not want this.

    any advice please?. . . ,plus i do not think it is good to just keep quite and give the guy false hopes.
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    if he is trying to start a relationship, then anything you tell him will hurt..

    try saying that you simply aren't ready for a relationship.

    dont keep leading him on though
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    *quiet

    And don't string the guy along, let him know where he stands.
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    it's only going to hurt more if you wait more.
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    If you only don't want to tell him, in fear you'll lose his attention then thats cruel
    Tell him
 
 
 
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