ok, well i'm 20 years old, and recently i seem to feel love-wise that i am just competing against 17/18 year old little slips of things who boys like because they are young and vacuous, while actually having things in common with them and having some kind of confidence and intelligence seems to put me firmly in the 'friend' zone. i'm not hideous, i've had plenty of boyfriends in my time, but this is really getting me down lately. i can't figure out why when you meet a boy who you have loads in common with, and who tells you he thinks you're beautiful and with who you connect with on a friend level as well as a physical one would rather commit to a ditzy little teenager... am i alone in feeling this?
i would like to add obviously that not all 17/18 year olds are like this but i'm sure you know the type i mean...
Perhaps go for younger guys, they think older girls are schmooookin. Teach them the ways of the world.
Guys don't really have a 'friend' zone. Honestly if you're good looking, intelligent and confident as you say I can't see how you'd have a problem. Bad luck?
Guys have a friend zone?? News to me.
ur making urself sound as if you are 30 or smth...ur only 20, relax...and seriously u are not that far away from 18 year olds...jus be friendly, smile and look after your health + appearance
... those girls are only 2 years younger than you.
Guys don't have a friend zone.