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Hi this is krystals boyfriend. I know she has talked to many of you on this forum about her" litle relationship problems" . The problem is when she goes around and writes these little stories about me ( her boyfriend) she goes and tells everyone a one sided story and doesn't let me speak mine. I know she says all this stuff about retarded **** that all falls back on her. This isnt the blame game or nothing, thats 12-14 year old ****. Im 19 years old i have a baby with her and shes barely 15. In reality i really love her alot but she refuses to see it and always accuses me different. She says i "accuse" her of doing stuff. I don't accuse her of nothing and if its anything i "ask her" something that she calls "accuses" anyways thats not the point. The point is the whole problem is with her. I have been trying hard to find a job and finally found one in the mean time.Well for example i came home from my first day of work and i went straight to the restroom and i put deoderant on myself only because i smelt from walking all the way to my work.
I come out of the rest room and she says" who were you f**king" "who did you have sex with" " Why did you go straight to the rest room when you came home".
I went to work the next day and went to the restroom again and she asked the same thing when i came out. I saw her looking at my neck one time i guess to see if someone left me a "hickey" or something but i simply tryed to ignore it as if i didnt see her only because i didnt wanna fight with her.I have been trying to work this relationship out for the longest time which is 2 years already. We have been in so many fights and im the one whose always forgiving her or kissing her ass. We both have cheated on each other before but that was our past and she thinks im still doing it because when she gets me mad i tell her things like " ok, ok," or "watch just watch" as if im going to do something. I like giving her the feeling that im goign to to do something when she gets me mad because theres nothing else i can do.
I end up telling her dont take it personal like if im going to do something and she freaks out like if im already doing something. Im part of another forum. She goes to that forum every single day as if im hiding something from her on a "forum". She looks for replys from girls so she can start an argument or something not realizing herself always fighting and that we have a "7 month old" child already. She doesnt realize that ive been trying to work this out for us and the baby for the longest time instead she wants to accuse me of any little thing i do. I admit it was wrong that i cheated on her but that was both of our paths and ive been ready for the longest time to move on and when i even thinking of the feeling of "thinking of cheating" (not in a way that im going to do it just in a way of me picturing myself) i start feeling guilty and tell myself that i wouldnt do that to her no more even if she wouldnt find out. I get this weird guilty feeling that makes me feel so bad for her( its not something that stops me its just a thought of picturing myself idk i cant explain ). Theres tons of things i can go on about her. I mean if you people only knew the **** she has put me threw and the **** i have forgave her for. 1.She already had a boyfriend when she got with me. 2. She honest to god lyed to me more then "1,000" times and i honest to god have kept on "fogaving her" only because i love her and wanted this relationship to work out and to this day i still give her chances.
I mean she doesnt realize that i can be an asshole and be out in the streets with another girl or at my house not with her, yet she wants to complain and take advantage. Its not often that a guy here in my town has a baby with a girl and stays with her and the baby but i decided to do it because i love her. This is a typical day that goes on with her. I come home from work and she accuses me of something. In the morning when i wake up shes at the forum that i post at checking if i talked to girls. She goes up and down trying to find somethign to argue with me about. She starts asking these millions of questions when i come home from work. And yes i answer all of them. She starts going insane if she sees me logged into my yahoo messenger only because i messed around with someone that was once on my buddy list but like i have said that was the past, and to top that off i wasnt talking to her at the time we stopped talking because of her little attitude. She acts like i care if she talks to guys, she takes this whole thing like if its me whose creating the problem.
I really dont care what guy she talks to as long as she lets me have my friends also. But its not like that with her, its like just cause i messed around in the past which was long ago she thinks im still going to do it when in reality i have moved on from that.I mean cmon those were high school years im already 19 and happy cuz i have a job and have a kid from her because i love her and get the biggest guilty feeling when even thinking of the "thought of cheating" and ready to live my life with her like a regular family. But she doesnt see that. The **** she has put me through i can honest to god say no girl in this world or even all combined can put me threw. Shes lucky she has me only because i came back so many times when she lyed to my face. She has lyed alot of times and about bad things and i end up not talking to her for about a day. Then to top it off i call her back and tell her im sorry for everything. Then it starts all overs again its like a pattern.
I mean god i love her alot and im trying to make it work but i can honest to god (like i have said hundreds of times) that im going to leave her already. And i have left her alot but its me the idiot who keeps coming back because i love her and want to stay with her even with the **** she puts me through. I could of left her a long time ago but i didnt. I mean i know i did wrong in the past for cheating but we both did..and i mean cmon im 19 im happy now that im working and i love her so im happyer and im just trying to make it work out for us and i can never do it. I cant even get online with a "girl on the side of the page" and her accusing me of something. She freaks out. She goes to like 10 different forums and talks about me and doesnt say the way she is. All im asking from her is for her not to give me her attitude or complain or when i ask her to do something i want her to do it. What more can someone ask for? But she doesnt she complains daily and we end up arguing becauze of it then she tells like a million different people that its my fault etc and i mean cmon im not asking for everything in the world. I guess its because shes only 15 yrs old, well thats what my mom says.
But there are times she starts fighting with me for no reason and i wanna go home so bad but im trying to respect her mom and show her mom that im here trying to work things out for her and the baby. I dont know what to do no more. I have left her hundreds of time but its hard because i love her and im the one who comes back. Im not trying to be mr.innocent here me myself i mean when i get mad i dont know what to do and i pinch her because i have no other way of taking my anger out. I yell at her..I ask her once in a while if shes cheating on me or has she did anything with anyone else only because i want her all to myself and dont want nobody with her. I guess i can call myself a bad boyfriend i mean cuz god im the one who always kisses her ass after a fight. Im the one who comes back to her after a fight. Shes put me threw more then anyone has but i keep coming back. I only ask of her what i said earlier. She honest to god makes me feel like omg i dont know i cant explain like if im the worst boyfriend in the world. Everytime we get into arguments there big arguments because of the way she is.Shes insecure about herself or something but i think shes taking advantage of the fact that im here with her. When i leave her i end up calling her because i miss her. When i leave her she tells me how sorry she is etc and its a pattern it happens but im use to it.
And when i say hundreds of time im being serious its not just an exaggurated number....Like i said im not trying to be mr.innocent over here i do get mad at her and yell at her and pinch her and sometimes not accuse but ask her and start accusing only when i know shes lying. I dont know what to do anymore...But i have been saying" that i dont know what to do no more" for the longest time... if i leave her she knows ill come back thats why she does what she does to me...but i was thinking about all of it today and i was thinking to myself how its never going to work out might as well get used to it. All i want is for us to be happy for her not to accuse me of nothing and be a happy family with my kid. But i cant when shes constantly accusing me of doing something. I cant even walk outside with her telling me" did you talk to girls" were u looking at girls" god damn....I mean god i wake up every morning and she tellin girls about me and this and that and how im such a bad boyfriend and then i see the replys of these girls telling her" well why dont you leave him " blah blah or something like "god hes such an asshole" and or "you need to leave him and find yourself someone knew" its liek god if your going to tell a story tell both sides not just one...and if im that bad then leave me already...quit following other peoples advice and follow your own and realize im not asking for alot just follow what i tell u
I come out of the rest room and she says" who were you f**king" "who did you have sex with" " Why did you go straight to the rest room when you came home".
I went to work the next day and went to the restroom again and she asked the same thing when i came out. I saw her looking at my neck one time i guess to see if someone left me a "hickey" or something but i simply tryed to ignore it as if i didnt see her only because i didnt wanna fight with her.I have been trying to work this relationship out for the longest time which is 2 years already. We have been in so many fights and im the one whose always forgiving her or kissing her ass. We both have cheated on each other before but that was our past and she thinks im still doing it because when she gets me mad i tell her things like " ok, ok," or "watch just watch" as if im going to do something. I like giving her the feeling that im goign to to do something when she gets me mad because theres nothing else i can do.
I end up telling her dont take it personal like if im going to do something and she freaks out like if im already doing something. Im part of another forum. She goes to that forum every single day as if im hiding something from her on a "forum". She looks for replys from girls so she can start an argument or something not realizing herself always fighting and that we have a "7 month old" child already. She doesnt realize that ive been trying to work this out for us and the baby for the longest time instead she wants to accuse me of any little thing i do. I admit it was wrong that i cheated on her but that was both of our paths and ive been ready for the longest time to move on and when i even thinking of the feeling of "thinking of cheating" (not in a way that im going to do it just in a way of me picturing myself) i start feeling guilty and tell myself that i wouldnt do that to her no more even if she wouldnt find out. I get this weird guilty feeling that makes me feel so bad for her( its not something that stops me its just a thought of picturing myself idk i cant explain ). Theres tons of things i can go on about her. I mean if you people only knew the **** she has put me threw and the **** i have forgave her for. 1.She already had a boyfriend when she got with me. 2. She honest to god lyed to me more then "1,000" times and i honest to god have kept on "fogaving her" only because i love her and wanted this relationship to work out and to this day i still give her chances.
I mean she doesnt realize that i can be an asshole and be out in the streets with another girl or at my house not with her, yet she wants to complain and take advantage. Its not often that a guy here in my town has a baby with a girl and stays with her and the baby but i decided to do it because i love her. This is a typical day that goes on with her. I come home from work and she accuses me of something. In the morning when i wake up shes at the forum that i post at checking if i talked to girls. She goes up and down trying to find somethign to argue with me about. She starts asking these millions of questions when i come home from work. And yes i answer all of them. She starts going insane if she sees me logged into my yahoo messenger only because i messed around with someone that was once on my buddy list but like i have said that was the past, and to top that off i wasnt talking to her at the time we stopped talking because of her little attitude. She acts like i care if she talks to guys, she takes this whole thing like if its me whose creating the problem.
I really dont care what guy she talks to as long as she lets me have my friends also. But its not like that with her, its like just cause i messed around in the past which was long ago she thinks im still going to do it when in reality i have moved on from that.I mean cmon those were high school years im already 19 and happy cuz i have a job and have a kid from her because i love her and get the biggest guilty feeling when even thinking of the "thought of cheating" and ready to live my life with her like a regular family. But she doesnt see that. The **** she has put me through i can honest to god say no girl in this world or even all combined can put me threw. Shes lucky she has me only because i came back so many times when she lyed to my face. She has lyed alot of times and about bad things and i end up not talking to her for about a day. Then to top it off i call her back and tell her im sorry for everything. Then it starts all overs again its like a pattern.
I mean god i love her alot and im trying to make it work but i can honest to god (like i have said hundreds of times) that im going to leave her already. And i have left her alot but its me the idiot who keeps coming back because i love her and want to stay with her even with the **** she puts me through. I could of left her a long time ago but i didnt. I mean i know i did wrong in the past for cheating but we both did..and i mean cmon im 19 im happy now that im working and i love her so im happyer and im just trying to make it work out for us and i can never do it. I cant even get online with a "girl on the side of the page" and her accusing me of something. She freaks out. She goes to like 10 different forums and talks about me and doesnt say the way she is. All im asking from her is for her not to give me her attitude or complain or when i ask her to do something i want her to do it. What more can someone ask for? But she doesnt she complains daily and we end up arguing becauze of it then she tells like a million different people that its my fault etc and i mean cmon im not asking for everything in the world. I guess its because shes only 15 yrs old, well thats what my mom says.
But there are times she starts fighting with me for no reason and i wanna go home so bad but im trying to respect her mom and show her mom that im here trying to work things out for her and the baby. I dont know what to do no more. I have left her hundreds of time but its hard because i love her and im the one who comes back. Im not trying to be mr.innocent here me myself i mean when i get mad i dont know what to do and i pinch her because i have no other way of taking my anger out. I yell at her..I ask her once in a while if shes cheating on me or has she did anything with anyone else only because i want her all to myself and dont want nobody with her. I guess i can call myself a bad boyfriend i mean cuz god im the one who always kisses her ass after a fight. Im the one who comes back to her after a fight. Shes put me threw more then anyone has but i keep coming back. I only ask of her what i said earlier. She honest to god makes me feel like omg i dont know i cant explain like if im the worst boyfriend in the world. Everytime we get into arguments there big arguments because of the way she is.Shes insecure about herself or something but i think shes taking advantage of the fact that im here with her. When i leave her i end up calling her because i miss her. When i leave her she tells me how sorry she is etc and its a pattern it happens but im use to it.
And when i say hundreds of time im being serious its not just an exaggurated number....Like i said im not trying to be mr.innocent over here i do get mad at her and yell at her and pinch her and sometimes not accuse but ask her and start accusing only when i know shes lying. I dont know what to do anymore...But i have been saying" that i dont know what to do no more" for the longest time... if i leave her she knows ill come back thats why she does what she does to me...but i was thinking about all of it today and i was thinking to myself how its never going to work out might as well get used to it. All i want is for us to be happy for her not to accuse me of nothing and be a happy family with my kid. But i cant when shes constantly accusing me of doing something. I cant even walk outside with her telling me" did you talk to girls" were u looking at girls" god damn....I mean god i wake up every morning and she tellin girls about me and this and that and how im such a bad boyfriend and then i see the replys of these girls telling her" well why dont you leave him " blah blah or something like "god hes such an asshole" and or "you need to leave him and find yourself someone knew" its liek god if your going to tell a story tell both sides not just one...and if im that bad then leave me already...quit following other peoples advice and follow your own and realize im not asking for alot just follow what i tell u
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1) What?
2) Please use some form of grammar. That's definately un-readable.
3) Who's boyfriend are you?
4) What?
2) Please use some form of grammar. That's definately un-readable.
3) Who's boyfriend are you?
4) What?
Makavelli_07
1) What?
2) Please use some form of grammar. That's definately un-readable.
3) Who's boyfriend are you?
4) What?
2) Please use some form of grammar. That's definately un-readable.
3) Who's boyfriend are you?
4) What?
Then dont read it...if you were someone of importance id correct my grammer...Im krystals boyfriend the owner of the name im on
Wow..getting alot of negativness. This wasnt meant for all of you it was meant for the people who talk to krystal on this forum and have only heard her story...
I say that you really just need to sit down with each other and sort everything out once and for all....
You need to make sure that you both know how the other one is feeling, and that you know where you're both coming from and where you both want to go with the relationship.
You also need to think about what's best for your child- I'm sure the current situation isn't the best with you two arguing etc....
I think you both need to be prepared to comprimise, and to listen to each other, and to decide if you both still want to be in the relationship, and if you do, then how you are going to take it forward and build it back up again. This can only be achieve through talking to each other- obviously it's going to be difficult but I think you'll both feel so much better when you've talked everything though. Just try to be rational and calm when you're discussing it all and try not to get worked up.
Best of luck to you both,
Ruthie xx
EDIT: Also, you're never going to get anywhere by just passing the blame- you need to sort things out, for the sake of each other and for the sake of you child.
You need to make sure that you both know how the other one is feeling, and that you know where you're both coming from and where you both want to go with the relationship.
You also need to think about what's best for your child- I'm sure the current situation isn't the best with you two arguing etc....
I think you both need to be prepared to comprimise, and to listen to each other, and to decide if you both still want to be in the relationship, and if you do, then how you are going to take it forward and build it back up again. This can only be achieve through talking to each other- obviously it's going to be difficult but I think you'll both feel so much better when you've talked everything though. Just try to be rational and calm when you're discussing it all and try not to get worked up.
Best of luck to you both,
Ruthie xx
EDIT: Also, you're never going to get anywhere by just passing the blame- you need to sort things out, for the sake of each other and for the sake of you child.
Thank you for a nice and understanding reply "ruthiepoothie"
EDIT: Also, you're never going to get anywhere by just passing the blame- you need to sort things out, for the sake of each other and for the sake of you child.
Ive been trying that for the longest time...not for us for the kid
krystaldenise05
Ive been trying that for the longest time...not for us for the kid
That's a good start at least, but I still think you need to talk things through with each other, as its obvious you can't go on as things are- and you probably both think you're trying along, and just need to co-ordinate your efforts!!
The other thing to consider is that whether staying together is actually best for the child- as if you are going to be arguing all the time it's probably not the best environment. You should seriously think about the best environment for them to grow up in. And I'm not convinved that parents staying together for the sake of their child can ever truly work unless it's actually what they both want. In that situation, I think that separating should be considered- if handled well, I think that it can still be a good environment for the child, and probably better than a house full of arguments.
I hope this makes some kind of sense- i think the key is that neither of you can do it on your own, you really need to set aside some time to talk everything through.
Ruthie xx
Can someone link me to the posts from Krystal?
Why anyone would spend this much time defending there side of an arguement with there girlfriend on the internet is beyond me, but i guess it'll give me something to do for 10 minutes.
Why anyone would spend this much time defending there side of an arguement with there girlfriend on the internet is beyond me, but i guess it'll give me something to do for 10 minutes.
crana9
The paragraphing is a big improvement.
Um, where do you live?
Also... no offence... but what were you thinking when you were boning a 13-yr-old?
Um, where do you live?
Also... no offence... but what were you thinking when you were boning a 13-yr-old?
Ok, that is a question that is quite concenrning, but for now I think we should concentrate on the child and how they can get the best life possible- i think this can be achieved by their parents sorting things out....
There is no point living in the past- what's done is done and all that..
Ruthie xx
crana9
Also... no offence... but what were you thinking when you were boning a 13-yr-old?
I have to agree here. What the hell were you thinking?
My sister is 13, and if i found out she was sleeping with a 17 year old i swear to god i'd run him over or something. Maybe others find it acceptable, though.
I'm still confused as to why you're posting here?
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