me & my gf have a problem...

we had an argument over aweek ago, and we've basically been split down the middle, i hate her friends and she hates mine.....

we used to have friends where we would go out and do stuff together i can't just hang out with her

what should i do?? :confused:

Get new friends.

Just spend time with each other!
You don't need to have the same friends, most of the time its better if you don't

Dump her?

it's hard to dump someone you love, and i have different aspirations in life i want to travel the world while im young she doesn't ahhh lifes a **** lol

Reply 5

MichaelG

ah, making the choice between friends and significant other.

i'm going to say go with who has been there for you the most. friends are more than one person remember, a girlfriend is not.

Reply 6

MichaelG

thanks to whoever repped me haha

Reply 7

SuicideCommando

Why can't you keep your relationship and friends apart?
That's fine to do as long as you don't spend too much time on either of them.

Reply 8

scarfcase

If you're not willing to put in the effort to at least tolerate her friends, AND she's not willing to make an effort to get on with your friends then your relationship seems pretty messed up anyway!

Sorry, I don't mean to sound harsh. Think about it though- is this girl really worth getting hung up over??

Good luck!

Reply 9

jamsarny

MichaelG

thanks to whoever repped me haha

it was me lol
most guys would make fun of the situation or post stupid comment :biggrin:

scarfcase

thanks but we have been going out for 1 year 6 months its only recently i hate her friends i dont usualy hate people, but these guys yes 90% guys are all **** lol
:eyeball:

Reply 12

jamsarny

Manny_Manny

haha thats jokes man :rolleyes:

Reply 13

Manny_Manny

jamsarny

haha thats jokes man :rolleyes:

Serious point though.

Reply 14

yazoo

They say dont tell me what the persons like, tell me what theyre friends are like. You pick your friends you dont pick family!! Thinka bout it-bit of a worry that