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ok so my bf dumped me the other day so i was like im not having that! so i went round to his looking gooooooooooood! anyway he wasnt in so i just hanged with his friends, well one of them really likes me and we were in the kitchen talking, i sat on the side (like on the top and the side bit) and i was like oh give me a hug yeah so we did but then i wraped my legs round him and kissed him....ok so we ended up having sex, this guy lives with my ex and cos this guy likes me now i think he thinks were together, and im not sure i wanna be with him.
should i tell my ex? cos i dont want the other guy to have like a fight with my ex and then just blurt it out or something.
should i tell my ex? cos i dont want the other guy to have like a fight with my ex and then just blurt it out or something.
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lil penguin kid
are u and jenna having a competition? 
i am going to ignore that comment
gossip_girl
ok so my bf dumped me the other day so i was like im not having that! so i went round to his looking gooooooooooood! anyway he wasnt in so i just hanged with his friends, well one of them really likes me and we were in the kitchen talking, i sat on the side (like on the top and the side bit) and i was like oh give me a hug yeah so we did but then i wraped my legs round him and kissed him....ok so we ended up having sex, this guy lives with my ex and cos this guy likes me now i think he thinks were together, and im not sure i wanna be with him.
should i tell my ex? cos i dont want the other guy to have like a fight with my ex and then just blurt it out or something.
should i tell my ex? cos i dont want the other guy to have like a fight with my ex and then just blurt it out or something.
*is shocked*!Probably better for you tell the ex yourself than him hear the other guy's version of events?
You are gonna get so much criticism for this post I hope you realise.
But you are young and you will learn from your mistakes (hopefully).
Anyway it seems you went with this lad out of revenge against your ex and so if he finds out about it then the revenge will probably work - although it could backfire on you and everyone might fall out with you.
I would leave it to this other lad to tell your ex as he is his mate and you have nothing to do with him anymore and have no reason to get involved with him now.
If you don't like this other lad then you should really make it clear from the start as the whole situation could get really messy.
Anyway I'm not all that good at advice so I'll stop now lol.
But you are young and you will learn from your mistakes (hopefully).
Anyway it seems you went with this lad out of revenge against your ex and so if he finds out about it then the revenge will probably work - although it could backfire on you and everyone might fall out with you.
I would leave it to this other lad to tell your ex as he is his mate and you have nothing to do with him anymore and have no reason to get involved with him now.
If you don't like this other lad then you should really make it clear from the start as the whole situation could get really messy.
Anyway I'm not all that good at advice so I'll stop now lol.
ok and before annnnnnnnnnnnnnny of you ask
NO IM NOT PREGNANT!
NO IM NOT PREGNANT!
I just hope you take people's advice seriously as this is a really important issue here, and your life is important - you only get one and need to be careful you don't mess it up.
So considering you have asked us for advice - it would be very wise of you to read all posts carefully (except for the ones that take the water out of you) and really listen to what people have to say.
So considering you have asked us for advice - it would be very wise of you to read all posts carefully (except for the ones that take the water out of you) and really listen to what people have to say.
Eeyore
Yeah, gg, did you use protection? You could have got an STI if not
yes, we used protection
thekillersrock
What b****cks! That is EXACTLY what you want! Your Ex hurt you and you wanted to hurt him back!
You are soooooo transparent!
(and a bit of a slut)
You are soooooo transparent!
(and a bit of a slut)
I
AM
NOT
A
SLUT
You are 15...(!). You have slept with two people + ...I ain't calling you a s**t..you just get around a bit!
Jeez I didn't know the word manipulation at that age me...wouldn't do that to an ex! My and mine are on VERY good terms..best way to be!
Your ex doesn't deserve that just cos he dumped you...you and his amte both deserve better than a rebound too!
Jeez I didn't know the word manipulation at that age me...wouldn't do that to an ex! My and mine are on VERY good terms..best way to be!
Your ex doesn't deserve that just cos he dumped you...you and his amte both deserve better than a rebound too!
Do what you want though..just TRY not to hurt people in the process...you must still like your boyf in some ways and remember the good times!
Good luck with new 'relationship' though....
Good luck with new 'relationship' though....
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