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Facebook flirting

I have a male friend on FB who I was once very close to. Over the last few weeks he has been poking me, sending saucy gifts and the latest thing is him wanting certain pictures of me. Now it all started innocently enough, theres me thinking we are just mates nothing more, so I was returning things as you do. My mates at work are saying I shouldnt be reciprocating any of it as I have a partner, but I do like him maybe a bit more than just mates. He started it all, it wasnt me. I hope he just having a laugh. But what do you guys think?......seems a bit forward to me.

Reply 1

Bump

Reply 2

could all be harmless fun, but at the same time.. you have a partner. would you really appreciate it if your partner was doing the same thing?

Reply 3

as you have a partner.
imagine his reaction at seeing all the crap on your fb

i doubt he would be happy. just stop replying to the guy, or tell him your not interested

Reply 4

As you have a partner and some of this could be taken out of context even if it is innocent, it think it is a good idea that you dont reciprocate the things. You are in a relationship and that means that activities on the internet aswell as real life should be moderated. You may also want to think about your feelings to your partner, if you are feeling like this about someone else.

Reply 5

Thanks guys.....you have all pretty much advised what I thought anyway. I"ll have to tell this other guy that I dont want to know and only want to be friends.

Reply 6

Flirting no facebook, myspace is common.. but really.. It's not hard to ignore/block.. or delete a friend... IF you're not interested dont let him lead you on.... some people are great players of mind games :wink: