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How to get a girl in a club

ok so the other night i was clubbing.
there were these 2 girls, and they weren;t with any boys or anything.

i should've started touching one of them round the waist, in fact i'm really upset i didnt.
the reason i didnt though is because i was worried they would slap me or something.

but i really want to get with a girl in a club!

PS. please dont call me a troll, it will annoy me

Reply 1

ss7

Give us more information. Did you talk to them?

Reply 2

bodmer123

OP

ss7

Give us more information. Did you talk to them?

no i didnt know what to say :mad:

Reply 3

Jono404

13

I've never pulled on a dancefloor, times I have pulled in clubs (not that often lol) have been through getting talking at the bar or in the quieter seating areas.

Reply 4

ss7

bodmer123

no i didnt know what to say :mad:

You can't exactly go up to a girl in the club and start touching her without even a modicum of conversation.

Reply 5

3105

bodmer123

i should've started touching one of them round the waist, in fact i'm really upset i didnt.
the reason i didnt though is because i was worried they would slap me or something.

I imagine they would have if you started touching them around the waist without even speaking..

Reply 6

bodmer123

OP

3105

I imagine they would have if you started touching them around the waist without even speaking..

but all the "lads"/alpha males seem to get away with it...
i wish i was more good looking :s-smilie:

Reply 7

ss7

3105

I imagine they would have if you started touching them around the waist without even speaking..

I lol'd at your sig. OP talk to girls.

but all the "lads"/alpha males seem to get away with it...
i wish i was more good looking :s-smilie:

They get away with it because they're confident and stop worrying about what they look like. Stop standing on the sidelines and envying these people. Just go out, talk with girls, fail. Get back up, and hit on the girls on the other side of the room. This has been posted so many times.

Reply 8

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bodmer123

but all the "lads"/alpha males seem to get away with it...
i wish i was more good looking :s-smilie:

Would you really want to just go grabbing like some pervert?

Reply 9

Jono404

13

bodmer123

but all the "lads"/alpha males seem to get away with it...

Nah I've seen people like that get told to **** off loads of times, also girls I've been clubbing with have said things like "hold me like I'm your girlfriend" to me to get rid of those sorts dancing around them haha

Reply 10

Cyclone33

"You stick inside her and put milk"

Reply 11

Aack

In order to get a girl in a club, open the front door.

If she is particularly weighty, take her through the fire escape.

Reply 12

obnoxious

Just be confident and start a conversation " hi how ya doing " if she replies " hi " then your in with a chance.

Reply 13

Cj-Tj

15

Um.... the "Lads" who go up and grab a girl arround the waist, on the whole arnt successful. Those who are succesful have already smiled and had eye contact with the girl before they go over, so while it appears they are just randomly grabbing there is infact logic and a rapport between male and female.

Reply 14

CHAMON

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Cj-Tj

Um.... the "Lads" who go up and grab a girl arround the waist, on the whole arnt successful. Those who are succesful have already smiled and had eye contact with the girl before they go over, so while it appears they are just randomly grabbing there is infact logic and a rapport between male and female.

What he said. :yep:

Those that grope have black eyes or swollen goolies at the end of the night.

Reply 15

Phonicsdude

19

bodmer123

ok so the other night i was clubbing.
there were these 2 girls, and they weren;t with any boys or anything.

i should've started touching one of them round the waist, in fact i'm really upset i didnt.
the reason i didnt though is because i was worried they would slap me or something.

but i really want to get with a girl in a club!

PS. please dont call me a troll, it will annoy me

Hey man...Go and speak to girls. What you say isnt important.

Try this in all your life: Everything you say and do in your life should be for you. Entertain yourself. Say things you find amusing. Do things that you want to do. AND, do this things without regard for how other people will react to you. It doesnt matter. Act on your intentions and desires without thinking. Go have fun. Always!

This will make you fascinating and draw people in. It will alienate some people but that's the price you pay for being you and having a strong personality. If people dont like you, it doesnt matter because you're amusing yourself. You cant lose!
What you will find though is that most people WILL like you.

Reply 16

Phonicsdude

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Cj-Tj

Um.... the "Lads" who go up and grab a girl arround the waist, on the whole arnt successful. Those who are succesful have already smiled and had eye contact with the girl before they go over, so while it appears they are just randomly grabbing there is infact logic and a rapport between male and female.