why do i feel this way?? :S

please keep anon!

basically i have been with this guy for 5 years and we are both really in love with each other and are serious about a future together even though it is a long distance relationship we have made it work. i love him very much
well at uni there is this guy who is in 3rd yr and he would always look at me and smile and try talking to me, he comes accoss as a very decent guy, i got the impression he liked me by the way he acted when he saw me (lots of eye contact)etc etc
i thought nothing of it, until yesterday when i was on facebook on a friends account looking through his friends i came accross that guy, i clicked on his profile and it turns out he is like 25 and married...yes married!!!!! you can imagine how shocked i was seeing his wedding pictures and pictures of him and his wife together they look soo loved up.
what confuses me the most is how i felt when i saw that, i have jus been feeling really weird about it ever since i cant stop thinking about it and keep on thinking about him with her...i dont even know the guy!! its crazy i know
why do i feel this way? will it go away? i love the guy i am with so much so why am i feeling down about this random guy? hmmmm any help plz1?

Reply 1

shockcat

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Anonymous

please keep anon!

basically i have been with this guy for 5 years and we are both really in love with each other and are serious about a future together even though it is a long distance relationship we have made it work. i love him very much
well at uni there is this guy who is in 3rd yr and he would always look at me and smile and try talking to me, he comes accoss as a very decent guy, i got the impression he liked me by the way he acted when he saw me (lots of eye contact)etc etc
i thought nothing of it, until yesterday when i was on facebook on a friends account looking through his friends i came accross that guy, i clicked on his profile and it turns out he is like 25 and married...yes married!!!!! you can imagine how shocked i was seeing his wedding pictures and pictures of him and his wife together they look soo loved up.
what confuses me the most is how i felt when i saw that, i have jus been feeling really weird about it ever since i cant stop thinking about it and keep on thinking about him with her...i dont even know the guy!! its crazy i know
why do i feel this way? will it go away? i love the guy i am with so much so why am i feeling down about this random guy? hmmmm any help plz1?

OP..Run for the hills!

Reply 2

FunLady

You're probably feeling down because you know that flirting will be no more. Like you said yourself, you are madly in love with your boyfriend. Just forget this 3rd year :smile:

you can still be friends with him of course.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

i know what you mean but i shouldn't be feeling so down about it if im in a relationship...fair enough if i was single...does that mean i dont love my bf as much as i thought because i felt this way...i mean it shouldnt bother me?
i hope it goes away and things arnt too awkward at uni...i havent spoken to him much

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

i kno this may be a boring thread but i really need everyones help it is really getting me down this whole situation

Reply 5

FunLady

Anonymous

does that mean i dont love my bf as much as i thought because i felt this way...i mean it shouldnt bother me?
i hope it goes away and things arnt too awkward at uni...i havent spoken to him much

If you haven't spoken to him much then that's good, you can just avoid him when you like and YOU won't kick up a scene.
And you do love your boyfriend as much as you think you do. I'm the same, I love my boyfriend but like a bit of harmless flirting with other guys, it's natural :smile:

why do i feel this way?? :S

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