Im in a bit of a pickle!!

Hi, there is this guy at work who I have been texting for a few weeks, and he told me he fancied me. But because I dont want a boyfriend (after all Im gonna have to leave for uni at one point and Ive learnt that long distance relationships dont work) I told him I just wanna be friends. Plus I wasnt sure if I fancied him anyway. He was fine with that and we've carried on texting and maybe flirting a bit too!
But on friday night when we were all at a nightclub I pulled one of his mates (who I was kind of seein a few months back), completely not thinking about how this guy would feel.
I feel so bad especially as I now realise that I do really really fancy him, but he obviously thinks we have no chance together now. Im sorry this is a long thread but I did warn u I was in a bit of a pickle!

what can I do ??

Reply 1

Majmun

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I think you should just be totally straight and honest with him. Tell him that you like him and that you were stupid to have pulled his mate and see what he says to that.

Reply 2

Majmun

6

This thread makes me want a cheese and pickle sandwich sooooo bad you wouldnt believe!!

Reply 3

BLUREMI

Majmun

This thread makes me want a cheese and pickle sandwich sooooo bad you wouldnt believe!!

thats the best sandwich ever especially with added ham :biggrin:

Reply 4

magiccarpet

2

Branstons!!

Reply 5

_poptart_

OP

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if my problem was about cheese and pickle sandwiches Id be happy about the replies Ive got lol! :rolleyes:

Im still confused tho cos I dont think i can face rejection :frown:

Reply 6

Majmun

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jeni8686

if my problem was about cheese and pickle sandwiches Id be happy about the replies Ive got lol! :rolleyes:

Im still confused tho cos I dont think i can face rejection :frown:

I reckon it would be better to be rejected and know than wonder if it could have happned between you for the rest of your life. Just tell him you made a stupid drunken mistake and you are sorry and that you really like him. I bet he'll find it hard to resist :smile:

Reply 7

Zurich

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My advice would be to follow lessthanthree's advice, to the letter.

Reply 8

amo1

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hes gonna be crushed, but if u would say hes more important to u than that guy and u dont wanna loose him

Reply 9

SamTheMan

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jeni8686

Hi, there is this guy at work who I have been texting for a few weeks, and he told me he fancied me. But because I dont want a boyfriend (after all Im gonna have to leave for uni at one point and Ive learnt that long distance relationships dont work) I told him I just wanna be friends. Plus I wasnt sure if I fancied him anyway. He was fine with that and we've carried on texting and maybe flirting a bit too!
But on friday night when we were all at a nightclub I pulled one of his mates (who I was kind of seein a few months back), completely not thinking about how this guy would feel.
I feel so bad especially as I now realise that I do really really fancy him, but he obviously thinks we have no chance together now. Im sorry this is a long thread but I did warn u I was in a bit of a pickle!

what can I do ??

How can you say you really like this guy if you pulled his friend in a club without even thinking about him? Some girls are truly strange.