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Physical Attraction for WOMEN (within guys) !!!

Further to the recent discussion with people around me (which included BOTH members of sex) about a specific body part within a member of opposite sex that could turn them on, I wonder which of these above mentioned body part grabs the attention of WOMEN around, physically within a guy i.e. the VERY FIRST thing they notice or likes or gives more importance to over other aspects, a real turn-on for them.

In this thread, it would make more sense if ONLY women participates in the poll.

Being not quite a believer of "sex-discrimination", without discriminating against men, I've created a separate thread for having their valuable votes, as far as physical attraction within women are concerned, for them.

Men around are invited to provide their contribution at:

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/t97002.html

By the way, being a thread starter, it would be unfair for me not to disclose what tickles my fancy, I would say the VERY FIRST thing I prefer noticing has to be the HAIR & HAIRDO with a mixture of blonde hair along with a wavy ponytail.

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Reply 1
It's probably a mixture of everything really. I chose legs though - cos I love muscly footballer type legs. *drools*.
Also not an option but arms, I love manly arms.
Reply 2
lynseyweth
It's probably a mixture of everything really. I chose legs though - cos I love muscly footballer type legs. *drools*.
Also not an option but arms, I love manly arms.


Well Honey (not that I've had a sweet taste of yours), I fully agree with what you said. I myself fancy having good mixture of everything, but like I said, VERY FIRST thing that would grab your attention :wink:

By the way, being a man myself, surely, my arms are "manly" (of man). I wonder, if that's what you would fancy giving importance to :wink:
Reply 3
j4mes_bond25
Well Honey (not that I've had a sweet taste of yours), I fully agree with what you said. I myself fancy having good mixture of everything, but like I said, VERY FIRST thing that would grab your attention :wink:

By the way, being a man myself, surely, my arms are "manly" (of man). I wonder, if that's what you would fancy giving importance to :wink:


But some men have skinny arms I have found anyway - but I like arms that look like they could give you a lovely cuddle (if you get me lol).
With muscles but not too muscley.

First thing that would grab attention would probs be face really, cos that's the first thing you would see (I didn't read the thread properly before).
Reply 4
lynseyweth
But some men have skinny arms I have found anyway - but I like arms that look like they could give you a lovely cuddle (if you get me lol).


Being more of a practical guy :wink: "theory" doesn't quite often teach me, I fear :frown: however, PRACTICAL can surely make things lot easier to understand, I would say :smile:

lynseyweth
With muscles but not too muscley.


With 1.5 hours of gym each morning, would you say I've less/ok/too much muscles :wink:


lynseyweth
First thing that would grab attention would probs be face really, cos that's the first thing you would see (I didn't read the thread properly before).


Faces are often quite mesmerising for me, I must say, however NOT the one that has a layer of make-up over it :wink:

But then again, beauty is ONLY skin deep (as a wise man once said :wink:
Reply 5
j4mes_bond25


With 1.5 hours of gym each morning, would you say I've less/ok/too much muscles :wink:


Well I couldn't possibly say without actually seeing them - I don't know how often men need to workout in order to get muscles I'm afraid.

Even so it would be only my judgment, many women love big muscles whereas others don't like them at all.

Also clean hands have to be part of the arm lol.
It's awful when men have dirty nails - I hate it. I served a man at work the other day and both him and his wife had the dirtiest hands ever - it was awful - muck in the knuckles and everything (slightly off subject there) but I could have been sick.
Reply 6
lynseyweth
Well I couldn't possibly say without actually seeing them - I don't know how often men need to workout in order to get muscles I'm afraid.

Even so it would be only my judgment, many women love big muscles whereas others don't like them at all.

Also clean hands have to be part of the arm lol.
It's awful when men have dirty nails - I hate it. I served a man at work the other day and both him and his wife had the dirtiest hands ever - it was awful - muck in the knuckles and everything (slightly off subject there) but I could have been sick.


I wouldn't like to SHOCK you :eek: with my picture, otherwise, I could've done with disappointing you but when exams are round the corner, I better shouldn't let my pic. have any negative influence over your brain affecting your performance in exam :wink:

I prefer cleaning my hand not before but AFTER I have my visit in loo :wink: & after having my meal. Nails are worth cutting each Sunday morning while watching "Click Online" BBC :wink:

By the way, when you say "sick", I wonder if you meant, as sick as a dog OR as sick as a parrot :wink:
that's a lot of winking smilies... (GET A ROOM :p: )

i'm with lyndseyweth on the muscley arms thing... and shoulders too...
ah whatever i just quite like men :smile:
Reply 8
cheapwhitewine
that's a lot of winking smilies... (GET A ROOM :p: )

i'm with lyndseyweth on the muscley arms thing... and shoulders too...
ah whatever i just quite like men :smile:


Of course you do, UNLESS you are into "same sex", you see :wink:
Chest (broad/hairy/hairless)

Hairy boobies? Heavens above please no :redface:

Oh, and its the stomach for me. I like a nice cuddly stomach, curvy hips, something to snuggle into when we're lying in bed watching stuff on the telly/computer.

Warm and nice :smile:
Reply 10
lynseyweth
It's probably a mixture of everything really. I chose legs though - cos I love muscly footballer type legs. *drools*.
Also not an option but arms, I love manly arms.


Yes!! Hands and arms are very important. They can be really sexy :smile:
lessthanthree
I have no idea what the first thing was that attracted me to my significant other. Although now I adore his back, arms and bum.

Arms are important, because if they're too weedy, the hugs aren't fantastic.

What is it with backs? My mate says her bf has the sexiest back. I'm like "ok then..." but she insists that it really is. I don't see how a back can be sexy. :confused:
Reply 12
j4mes_bond25
I wouldn't like to SHOCK you :eek: with my picture, otherwise, I could've done with disappointing you but when exams are round the corner, I better shouldn't let my pic. have any negative influence over your brain affecting your performance in exam :wink:

I prefer cleaning my hand not before but AFTER I have my visit in loo :wink: & after having my meal. Nails are worth cutting each Sunday morning while watching "Click Online" BBC :wink:

By the way, when you say "sick", I wonder if you meant, as sick as a dog OR as sick as a parrot :wink:


Well I don't have any exams at all coming up. Haven't had exams for the past 3 years and never will have any again - so you can't use that as an excuse I'm afraid.

Also it's unlucky to cut nails on a Sunday and a Friday (according to my wise grandma) so I advise you start cutting them on a Thursday maybe?
Reply 13
need_money
What is it with backs? My mate says her bf has the sexiest back. I'm like "ok then..." but she insists that it really is. I don't see how a back can be sexy. :confused:

Oh yeah - I know where she is coming from. My fiance has a gorgeous back. It is so flawless, and smooth and looks so strong and muscular...yes I know what she means.
Reply 14
lynseyweth
Well I don't have any exams at all coming up. Haven't had exams for the past 3 years and never will have any again - so you can't use that as an excuse I'm afraid.

Also it's unlucky to cut nails on a Sunday and a Friday (according to my wise grandma) so I advise you start cutting them on a Thursday maybe?


Oh Bloody Hell :eek: with mostly students around & yourself seems not quite one of them having NO exams, I hope you aren't little long in the tooth :wink:

Could this be the reason why I'm yet being UNLUCKY by not being able to find anyone who can help me lose my virginity :wink: ??? I better give your suggestion a rather serious consideration, in that case.
Reply 15
j4mes_bond25
Oh Bloody Hell :eek: with mostly students around & yourself seems not quite one of them having NO exams, I hope you aren't little long in the tooth :wink:

Could this be the reason why I'm yet being UNLUCKY by not being able to find anyone who can help me lose my virginity :wink: ??? I better give your suggestion a rather serious consideration, in that case.


Hmm may well be - start cutting them on a Thursday and see if your luck changes! Or maybe it's just that you still have your whole life ahead of you and just haven't met the right girl yet???

My degree has no exams at all. Only assignments and presentations. It is so good cos I hate exams and I am so bad under pressure.
What is that about being long in the tooth? Don't quite understand that! :confused:
the first thing i notice if i meet a guy is the face. doesnt matter if its good looking or not. im looking to meet a sweet intelligent serious guy so facial features that show this are paramount. i'd look for big chubby plump lips,deep set narrow eyes, tanned skinand straight eyebrows. to me this coveys the personality i'd associate with him, we all think we aqssociate personality with looks on a subconcious level.

next i'd look at the body to see if it was nice. i'd like big broad shoulders. dont care if flabby belly or not, flabby legs or not etc. i'd like big arms and hands, and wide hips, and a rounded wide bum

:wink:
Reply 17
magiccarpet
the first thing i notice if i meet a guy is the face. doesnt matter if its good looking or not. im looking to meet a sweet intelligent serious guy so facial features that show this are paramount. i'd look for big chubby plump lips,deep set narrow eyes, tanned skinand straight eyebrows. to me this coveys the personality i'd associate with him, we all think we aqssociate personality with looks on a subconcious level.

next i'd look at the body to see if it was nice. i'd like big broad shoulders. dont care if flabby belly or not, flabby legs or not etc. i'd like big arms and hands, and wide hips, and a rounded wide bum

:wink:

You don't want much then?
Good luck finding him...
lynseyweth
You don't want much then?
Good luck finding him...


well, dont we all think all this when deciding if someone is 'our type' or not?you cant base 'fitness' of a guy on just one thing
i'd say it was a combination for me :smile:
mainly someone with a nice face/hair and a good body (don't like too much muscle or fat :p: ) but i reckon personality matters alot, i'm not totally superficial!! :p: