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Love at first sight

Is there such thing? In my experience I believe there is, its only happened once but the first time I saw her, something hit me in my brain. This was in Year 7, lol, but I was like too little understand. I knew something happened, the instant click and she did too. She told me she loved me once and I said urrrrrgggh because I didnt want to admit I liked her. I pretended to not like her. Deep down I did and she knew because I think the same feelings was felt when she looked at me. Anyway its too late now, if I did really love her Id make a move but I havent. I havent experienced this love at first sight with anyone else so I think it was love. I feel such a fool now and things Id do to turn back the hands. Ive never told I love her but I think she still knows. Id be even gutted if in my entire life I couldnt fall in love again at first sight. Tell me if you experienced love at first sight and is it common? Am I a fool? Have you got a better love story....lol
There goes my version of a love story.... :biggrin:

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Reply 1
Yep, i think there is. Problem is, when you start to get that feeling more than once at a time.
Reply 2
Channy
Is there such thing? In my experience I believe there is, its only happened once but the first time I saw her, something hit me in my brain. This was in Year 7, lol, but I was like too little understand. I knew something happened, the instant click and she did too. She told me she loved me once and I said urrrrrgggh because I didnt want to admit I liked her. I pretended to not like her. Deep down I did and she knew because I think the same feelings was felt when she looked at me. Anyway its too late now, if I did really love her Id make a move but I havent. I havent experienced this love at first sight with anyone else so I think it was love. I feel such a fool now and things Id do to turn back the hands. Ive never told I love her but I think she still knows. Id be even gutted if in my entire life I couldnt fall in love again at first sight. Tell me if you experienced love at first sight and is it common? Am I a fool? Have you got a better love story....lol
There goes my version of a love story.... :biggrin:

Havebeen going out with my love at first site for a year and 3 months but i confuse love and lust!!
Reply 3
I think everyone has seen someone for the first time and "oh my god! she is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen, I want to love her and marry her!"

But I don't believe you can fall in love with someone without getting to know them.
Reply 4
Zurich
I think everyone has seen someone for the first time and "oh my god! she is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen, I want to love her and marry her!"

But I don't believe you can fall in love with someone without getting to know them.


even though the person you love answers your question to does she love me and you still foolish enough? i knew i loved her and she was very fit or beautiful, i just loved her from my instincts of just looking at her eyes....silly lol? :biggrin:
No


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Reply 6
I personally don't think there is such thing.
You cannot love someone based entirely on their looks - it's just not possible to feel those feelings about the way someone looks. Yes you can feel totally, utterly attracted to someone when you first see them, and have feelings - but I think it is just lust.
In order to be truly in love with someone, you need to know their personality, their good points, bad points, and love everything about them - not just their looks.
Reply 7
need_money
Yep, i think there is. Problem is, when you start to get that feeling more than once at a time.


so true
Reply 8
There is NO such thing as love at first sight......imo.
Reply 9
lol mine was strange i had the whole 'oh my god i want to marry this girl' completely because of her looks and her strange way of having that effect on every bloke. Then she said some horrible things, completely shot me down, so i turned to my best friend, another girl...and bam. There it was, right where i never looked. Funny, eh?
Reply 10
probably.
lynseyweth
I personally don't think there is such thing.
You cannot love someone based entirely on their looks - it's just not possible to feel those feelings about the way someone looks. Yes you can feel totally, utterly attracted to someone when you first see them, and have feelings - but I think it is just lust.
In order to be truly in love with someone, you need to know their personality, their good points, bad points, and love everything about them - not just their looks.

I agree with that
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Channy
Is there such thing? In my experience I believe there is, its only happened once but the first time I saw her, something hit me in my brain. This was in Year 7, lol, but I was like too little understand. I knew something happened, the instant click and she did too. She told me she loved me once and I said urrrrrgggh because I didnt want to admit I liked her. I pretended to not like her. Deep down I did and she knew because I think the same feelings was felt when she looked at me. Anyway its too late now, if I did really love her Id make a move but I havent. I havent experienced this love at first sight with anyone else so I think it was love. I feel such a fool now and things Id do to turn back the hands. Ive never told I love her but I think she still knows. Id be even gutted if in my entire life I couldnt fall in love again at first sight. Tell me if you experienced love at first sight and is it common? Am I a fool? Have you got a better love story....lol
There goes my version of a love story.... :biggrin:

I don't think there is such thing as love at first sight...you have to get to know someone to actually fall in love with them...I'm talking about really getting to know them and how they act in certain situations. Then the whole part of meeting the parents comes and the getting through the tough times and all!
I think a lot of people are confusing love with lust..
Reply 16
I first saw my current boyf well over two years ago and as soon as I saw him I knew that I would love him and that we would be together. And we did. Not until two months ago but we did :biggrin:
Reply 17
I don't believe in Love at first sight, Lust at first sight maybe, but you can't love someone you don't know. But thats jsut my opinion :wink:
Reply 18
Dero
I think a lot of people are confusing love with lust..

They are...
I've fallen in love before sight... i love trigger so so much, and i haven't seen her in real life yet...