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Why do you go out with boys?
This may sound wierd but I dont have an erge to go out with them. Most the boys at my school arn't particually nice to me - specially in my friendship group. I just dont see myself going out with boys, but I dont see myself going out with girls either
Talk about confused. So, basically why do you find guys attractive?
This may sound wierd but I dont have an erge to go out with them. Most the boys at my school arn't particually nice to me - specially in my friendship group. I just dont see myself going out with boys, but I dont see myself going out with girls either
Talk about confused. So, basically why do you find guys attractive?Scroll to see replies
I find some guys attractive, but I wouldn't go out with one. I've never had a boyfriend, and don't intend to for a while. I prefer exams 
They're less hassle.
I don't think you're alone in that you don't find guys attractive - you probably just haven't found the right person for you, or aren't ready for a relationship. You'll find someone one day - just keep looking.
They're less hassle.I don't think you're alone in that you don't find guys attractive - you probably just haven't found the right person for you, or aren't ready for a relationship. You'll find someone one day - just keep looking.
I don't, I'm a filthy ***** that refuses to be tied down 
I never really fancied anyone who was at school with me, they were all a bit too mainstream and didnt share my interests. I felt a lot of the guys at school were immature too. And I tend to only fancy long haired men, don't get many of those at your avergage high school :-D
I think the thing is to not worry. If you dated boys just because you felt you should be doing, thats like starting smoking because you heard it was good :-s
I did tend to see famous people or even fictional people that I liked from a young age, but some people just don't fancy ....anyone... I guess it's a bit like being asexual, as some of my friends are - they just...don't fancy people. They don't feel any worse for it, in fact, they gloat over how mixed up and unhappy the rest of us get by the whole dating process, and they stay free of it all, it remains a mystery to them why we put ourselves through the heartache.
If you are a bit lacking in all those chemical reactions going on in your mind, if you are less hormonal than the rest of us, you might as well feel smug for a bit as we make ourselves miserable :-D
I think the thing is to not worry. If you dated boys just because you felt you should be doing, thats like starting smoking because you heard it was good :-s
I did tend to see famous people or even fictional people that I liked from a young age, but some people just don't fancy ....anyone... I guess it's a bit like being asexual, as some of my friends are - they just...don't fancy people. They don't feel any worse for it, in fact, they gloat over how mixed up and unhappy the rest of us get by the whole dating process, and they stay free of it all, it remains a mystery to them why we put ourselves through the heartache.
If you are a bit lacking in all those chemical reactions going on in your mind, if you are less hormonal than the rest of us, you might as well feel smug for a bit as we make ourselves miserable :-D
amo1
cause of the way we make u feel
The boys in my friendship circle make me feel like utter ...
They are so harsh and critical, constantly jibbing different things, they grind me down so much so that I got a job working in the canteens at break and lunch to avoid having to go to the common room
I get on better with girls but cant see myself going out with one so I'm not gay, but yeah, hmmmm its confusing
historyhoney
The boys in my friendship circle make me feel like utter ...
They are so harsh and critical, constantly jibbing different things, they grind me down so much so that I got a job working in the canteens at break and lunch to avoid having to go to the common room
They are so harsh and critical, constantly jibbing different things, they grind me down so much so that I got a job working in the canteens at break and lunch to avoid having to go to the common room
Then why exactly are they your friends?!?!
historyhoney
The boys in my friendship circle make me feel like utter ...
They are so harsh and critical, constantly jibbing different things, they grind me down so much so that I got a job working in the canteens at break and lunch to avoid having to go to the common room
They are so harsh and critical, constantly jibbing different things, they grind me down so much so that I got a job working in the canteens at break and lunch to avoid having to go to the common room
Just sounds like they're knobs, not representative of all blokes.
El Pollo Diablo
Just sounds like they're knobs, not representative of all blokes.
and to the otehr one, This is the only firendship[ group in which I can belong to because of how things set out
And I know they are not representive of all men but at the same time these are the only guys I talk to every day and so are forming my impression on men
I dont know what a normal or average bloke s like?!
Okay for the blokes who decided to read this anyway,
Is it normal for guys to lick their hand then slap people becuase they said the worng thing, or to yell their opnion is void or force them to watch films they dont want, or threaten to spit on them, I mean I'm sure it is just my group of friends, but just in case, this isn't normal is it?
historyhoney
and to the otehr one, This is the only firendship[ group in which I can belong to because of how things set out
And I know they are not representive of all men but at the same time these are the only guys I talk to every day and so are forming my impression on men
I dont know what a normal or average bloke s like?!
Okay for the blokes who decided to read this anyway,
Is it normal for guys to lick their hand then slap people becuase they said the worng thing, or to yell their opnion is void or force them to watch films they dont want, or threaten to spit on them, I mean I'm sure it is just my group of friends, but just in case, this isn't normal is it?
And I know they are not representive of all men but at the same time these are the only guys I talk to every day and so are forming my impression on men
I dont know what a normal or average bloke s like?!
Okay for the blokes who decided to read this anyway,
Is it normal for guys to lick their hand then slap people becuase they said the worng thing, or to yell their opnion is void or force them to watch films they dont want, or threaten to spit on them, I mean I'm sure it is just my group of friends, but just in case, this isn't normal is it?
definatly not normal at all.
My closest friends are male and I love them to bits. They will treat me like they would want to be treated and are just really really good friends.
historyhoney
Why do you go out with boys?
This may sound wierd but I dont have an erge to go out with them. Most the boys at my school arn't particually nice to me - specially in my friendship group. I just dont see myself going out with boys, but I dont see myself going out with girls either Talk about confused. So, basically why do you find guys attractive?
This may sound wierd but I dont have an erge to go out with them. Most the boys at my school arn't particually nice to me - specially in my friendship group. I just dont see myself going out with boys, but I dont see myself going out with girls either
Talk about confused. So, basically why do you find guys attractive?Cos guys are hot *drools*
Luize
definatly not normal at all.
My closest friends are male and I love them to bits. They will treat me like they would want to be treated and are just really really good friends.
My closest friends are male and I love them to bits. They will treat me like they would want to be treated and are just really really good friends.
hmm I dont quite know what to do about them, I have male friends outside school of corse, but I dont see alot of them so we are just on 'polite' grounds
historyhoney
Why do you go out with boys?
This may sound wierd but I dont have an erge to go out with them. Most the boys at my school arn't particually nice to me - specially in my friendship group. I just dont see myself going out with boys, but I dont see myself going out with girls either Talk about confused. So, basically why do you find guys attractive?
This may sound wierd but I dont have an erge to go out with them. Most the boys at my school arn't particually nice to me - specially in my friendship group. I just dont see myself going out with boys, but I dont see myself going out with girls either
Talk about confused. So, basically why do you find guys attractive?i think maybe u just havent found the right person yet, whether s/he will be a guy or girl. u cant judge how u'll react to guyz in society by the way u react to ur so-called "friends" at school
historyhoney
hmm I dont quite know what to do about them, I have male friends outside school of corse, but I dont see alot of them so we are just on 'polite' grounds
throughout school I didn't really have a group of close friends (except for a little period of time, but they backstabbed me so I stopped hanging with them)
Instead I read a lot. I did have a couple friends out of school but I wasn't that social.
Why don't you call your friends out of school and see them more often. maybe arrange to go out somewhere a few times over the easter break.
Why can you only belong to that particluar group? sorry, I just don't really understand. I mean, I hang around with one main group of friends, everyone does, but I also sometimes hang around with at least 3 or 4 other groups in my 6th form alone.
These lads sound like right knobheads, and theyre supposed to be 17!!!!!!!!!!! Do they get on with the girl friends in this group? I'd ditch em!
These lads sound like right knobheads, and theyre supposed to be 17!!!!!!!!!!! Do they get on with the girl friends in this group? I'd ditch em!
Why don't you move to an all-girls school? SO much more maturity there I'd say! 
Although I think that I wish I could have close male friends but because Im at a single sex school I think its difficult to see guys as anything other than boyfriends which Im not that keen on.
But anyway, I'd say these dudes in your 'group' need a right old dose of maturity...hmp. the pricks.
Although I think that I wish I could have close male friends but because Im at a single sex school I think its difficult to see guys as anything other than boyfriends which Im not that keen on. But anyway, I'd say these dudes in your 'group' need a right old dose of maturity...hmp. the pricks.
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