How does you know when you've found the one?

You get a letter in the post.

evidently not, if there was discontent to the extent that you split up.

what was it?

He keep talking about the other girls he would rather be with and he said he loved my friend and he use to lie about everything but he wasn't like that went I started going out with him, he changed.

the exact same thing happened to me. in my first week of high school this guy asked me out. i said no. bt i saw his absolutely gorgeous friend who i fancied for two years, then we went out together for 5 yrs until we were 17. we broke up cos he blatantly fancied his best mates gf,then kept talking about/with other girls, kept lying etc.ultimately i thoght he cheated on me and i broke up with him. a year later, after ignoring him and deleting his number, and goign off to uni, i found out is wasnt true.

i think its the pressure of growing up that does this. but if u lov ur ex, wait say 6 months and try again

well im guessing u only met the new guy recently, and you've taught him how to kiss so you can leav him knowing youve made his life better. its not fair on either of u to play him along
how long were you with ur ex?
do you still lov him?
how old are you/ur ex?

this will tell you what to do.

My view is that you split up for a reason; why put yourself through that when ultimately, you're not compatible.

Do you get a feeling or something?

My view is that you split up for a reason; why put yourself through that when ultimately, you're not compatible.