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Reply 1

Alewhey

I give it 45.7 out of 84.

Reply 2

naivesincerity

Alewhey

I give it 45.7 out of 84.

i have no idea what you are on about

Reply 3

Sooz

"Chiquitita, you and I know
How the heartaches come and they go and the scars they're leaving
You'll be dancing once again and the pain will end
You will have no time for grieving"

Chiquitita - Abba

Reply 4

Annik

*cries at all bad love memories*

MEN SUCK!!!

Reply 5

Yeah_butno

yeh well, women suck to.

literally......

Reply 6

Mean Mr. Mustard

all you need is love....

...apparently...

Reply 7

naivesincerity

lessthanthree

can you elaborate a little more please.

I suppose i mean unrequited love when it doesnt even have to be...i want woman, not shy either, but make sure shes inaccessable, its like a little self-defeating game....wanting the one you cant have, recipe for misery

Reply 8

RetiredAccount89

naivesincerity

Mmm, Im a usual unrequiter. Best tip is to either give up early, or bed down for the long haul - unflappable kindness is the way, fact is if you show them the best you can be and they still don't fall for you, it ain't ever gonna happen.
I've had 2 initial unrequiters turn into relationships, but i wouldn't advise it as a route. Its much nicer when someone else likes you too from the outset.

Reply 9

queenselphie

I'm used to the unrequited thing :rolleyes:

it's the ones I REALLY like that never feel the same. Only the ones I vaugely interested in ever return the feelings... :redface:

though when I think about it like that, maybe it's BECAUSE the unobtainable ones are out of reach I like them so much, after all, humans are peverse creatures :biggrin:

actually, recently people I like have actually been turning round and liking me back which confuses me no end :confused:

it's like "thats not how it goes! learn the script! you're meant to reject me!" :p:

well, obviously I dont actually WANT to be rejected but it's strange to be liked back :confused:

my advice is that it always bloomin' hurts, but do the cliched thing and look upon it as a learning experience. I know how badly it can sting. Most of us have been there. If you can't stop feeling that way, stop fighting it, try to make the best of it, and you'll find someone who really likes you eventually :biggrin:

Reply 10

naymeee

so true.the ones i reeeeally like are the ones who dont want to go out with me :rolleyes:

. its actually happened to me this week....its horrible and i feel like a fool for pinning my hopes on this guy.i turned donw someone who told me i was the best thing that had happened to him because i didnt feel he was right for me(in fact, 3 guys over past month!!)because i wanted the one who i felt was right for me.but hes the only one who doesnt seem into me.life sucks.but i know oneday the one i want will want me too,and then life can be good!until then,i can only wallow in self pity....

Reply 11

jessicarabbit

i did that when i was 14. I slipped it into his locker on valentines day. umm...but i didnt sign it cause i was too scared. less than three that panda is cute.

Reply 12

jessicarabbit

yea. im a cynical bitch. i once thought i was in love. it wasn't love though. at least I don't think it is when he cheats on u the day before prom and the week after u buy him tickets 400 dollar tickets to see Michael Jordan on the court. but yea. wuteva.

Reply 13

jessicarabbit

my dude's name was Evan and he was the captain of the football team. isn't that such a cliche?

Reply 14

jessicarabbit

i dint wanna give the captain of the football team a reason to embarass me in front of everyone. in high school i had a moustache and glasses. hahahaha.
i saw him last year though and made out with him.

what happened with ur love letter? was it really that bad of a disaster?