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What makes a girl a slag?

Recently i've been getting very drunk and have had a few one night stands, i know this is not good but i'm not that bothered. Also it does tend to be the same guys more than once which isn't as bad is it?

Ive started to feel like a few of my friends are judging me now however and some are barely talking to me :frown: I don't do it on purpose it just happens.

What in your opinion makes you think this of someone?

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If you're not bothered about it then yeah...
But if you actually like the people I suppose it's not as bad?
You must be pretty bad though if friends have stopped talking to you.

I can't judge you because I don't know you, but maybe your friends have stopped talking to you because they're worried about you?
Reply 2
Anonymous
I don't do it on purpose it just happens.

Well no, you drink excessively on purpose and that is the reason why it happens.
You can't blame it on being drunk - take responsibility for your actions.
Reply 3
Anonymous
Recently i've been getting very drunk and have had a few one night stands, i know this is not good but i'm not that bothered. Also it does tend to be the same guys more than once which isn't as bad is it?

Ive started to feel like a few of my friends are judging me now however and some are barely talking to me :frown: I don't do it on purpose it just happens.

What in your opinion makes you think this of someone?


It sounds like you are running away from something. I can understand wanting sexual experience etc so you can settle down and know you are not missing out on anything but getting very drunk as well is not too great
I get called a slut. LOL.

It doesn't bother me at all. I just enjoy sex and hate relationships. It's not as though I sleep with every guy that tries it on with me. I stay protected, I'm young, who cares?
Usually it's a girl who'll get with anyone but you.
Reply 6
An Eiffel Tower, that's the official measure.
Reply 7
Having sex with lots of randomers is very slaggish behaviour. I'd consider you a slag. I don't think there's anything wrong with your behaviour though. If you're comfortable with it, just enjoy it and don't worry about other people's hang-ups.:smile:
Reply 8
I don't get into this a girls a slag and stuff. A girl should be able to do what she wants with out been judged
Reply 9
Last Summer's Dream
I get called a slut. LOL.

It doesn't bother me at all. I just enjoy sex and hate relationships. It's not as though I sleep with every guy that tries it on with me. I stay protected, I'm young, who cares?


This is exactly how I see it. Yes i don't always make the best decisions but I ended my last relationship because I like freedom to do what I want.
Reply 10
Why would you care what other people think? Do what you enjoy. As long as it doesn't hurt the people involved, what's the problem?
i'd think of you as a bit of a slag..
Reply 12
Just dont do it just stop
Reply 13
I don't see what the problem with, unless you feel bad afterwards. Just do what you want. And if your friends stop talking to you because you're doing things that don't concern them, they're ****s.
Reply 14
I don't care in the slightest personally, but then I've always been a do what though wilt is the whole of the law person when it comes to sex. I am a bit of a sexual libertarian. This whole is she a slag crap is bs if you ask me. If I can sleep with 80 women, and I'm assured its theoretically possible and get called a player or a dog or whatever then same goes for your average woman. That said play safe out there people.
Reply 15
Last Summer's Dream
I get called a slut. LOL.

It doesn't bother me at all. I just enjoy sex and hate relationships. It's not as though I sleep with every guy that tries it on with me. I stay protected, I'm young, who cares?


I don't see whats wrong with that. I do the same I know am male but that shouldn't make a difference
Girls that try and get with guys that already have girlfriends

They are the absolute worst
Reply 17
Anonymous
Recently i've been getting very drunk and have had a few one night stands, i know this is not good but i'm not that bothered. Also it does tend to be the same guys more than once which isn't as bad is it?

Ive started to feel like a few of my friends are judging me now however and some are barely talking to me :frown: I don't do it on purpose it just happens.

What in your opinion makes you think this of someone?


My schlong down her throat
Reply 18
Keep anon please.

Just ignore what anyone says about you, if your "friends" are real friends then they shouldn't even be judging you in the 1st place.

For me, I seem to get called a slag, slut, slapper, tart, whore, you name it on a night out. Yes ok I do enjoy Flirting & Teasing any guy in sight & guess I do have a lot of one night stands (on occasions more than 1 in a night) but surely thats my choice & mine alone.
Even when I'm not on a night out & on my lunch time at work, I've been called a tart or a slag out of the blue.

end of the day its your life & you live it your way x.
Just ignore them, labels are just labels made by people who do not understand your behaviour