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Personality or looks

when its comes to choosing who you want to date wat do u go 4 first is it a good personality or good looks. i have bin out with a mixture but i do have 2 say dat personality is very important and looks are just an added bonus.

Reply 1

F. Poste

Both. I'm greedy.

Reply 2

Esme

Claire19

when its comes to choosing who you want to date wat do u go 4 first is it a good personality or good looks. i have bin out with a mixture but i do have 2 say dat personality is very important and looks are just an added bonus.

I'm the same, im generally attracted to guys ive got to know, and if they happen to be good looking..........well, who am i to complain?

Reply 3

Lana

4

I go for eyes.

Reply 4

Esme

Lana

I go for eyes.

Yeah!definately with you on that one, though nice hands can also be really sexy.

Reply 5

Mean Mr. Mustard

Claire19

when its comes to choosing who you want to date wat do u go 4 first is it a good personality or good looks. i have bin out with a mixture but i do have 2 say dat personality is very important and looks are just an added bonus.

Looks are more important initially...though they'd have to have both both.

Reply 6

Johnny 5

12

Everyone says personality, to avoid looking like a git. But everyone, being honest, would probably choose entirely differently.

Reply 7

Esme

2 5 +

Everyone says personality, to avoid looking like a git. But everyone, being honest, would probably choose entirely differently.

actually that is a good point, i mean, why wud u have approached osme1 to find out what they are like if u didnt think they were cute?

Reply 8

F. Poste

2 5 +

Everyone says personality, to avoid looking like a git. But everyone, being honest, would probably choose entirely differently.

I was honest! I have high standards :p:

Reply 9

Wild Thing

11

both

Reply 10

Nikki J S

Definitely personality for me. I like smart guys, so if I get to know an attractive personality, even if they're not gorgeous looking, they can become more an more attractive to me over time, if that makes sense. :smile:

Reply 11

queenselphie

three things:
1: I fancy them because they are cute, but it turns out they have a horrible personality and it all goes wrong
2: they arent great looking but I come to fancy them from getting to know them... this gives a stable if slightly dull relationship result
3: I fancy them AND like thier personality! excellent! :biggrin:

long hair is the thing that really does it for me :redface:

Reply 12

Esme

i like so many different 'types' that in the end in depends on the individual.

Reply 13

Profesh

20

Obviously, the two are not necessarily mutually exclusive. I couldn't forbear the absence of either; in my experience, one tempers the other: both, however, needs must be qualified.

Reply 14

Sam_B

14

looks first, then if they have a nice personality its all good :biggrin:

arent looks how u become interested in someone in the first place?

Reply 15

at least lara

1

Profesh

Obviously, the two are not necessarily mutually exclusive. I couldn't forbear the absence of either; in my experience, one tempers the other: both, however, needs must be qualified.

EXACTLY what i was going to say :proud:

Reply 16

puppy

Looks, of course. Hey, some of us are shallow.

Reply 17

Lana

4

Esme

Yeah!definately with you on that one, though nice hands can also be really sexy.

Yeah definately and nice legs.

Reply 18

rainjan_4now

2

oh, personality always makes me like a person even more- esp this guy who works in a shop near my house. He is soooooo beautiful to me, because he is so lovely in personality :love:

Reply 19

maz69

i think its based on looks because i think u have to be physically attracted to the person first to want to get to know the persons personality, however if your friends with the person first then its based on personality!

Personality or looks

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