well you could be sneaky and throw the superposition thing at him....just say "For every point in space, there will be a field from one point charge on line, and a field symmetrically positioned somewhere else on the line to cancel out any non-radial field. This means there must be only radial field left. (Edit: This is exactly what feynman the man himself says in Vol 2....the charges by symmetry cancel axial field!)
But personally I still use the idea that if they werent radial, the charges would surely experience sideways force, and so would move....this would then lead to a radial field. It explains nicely way why placing a metal ball in an electric field causes the field lines to point into the ball radially, and then point out of the ball radially.....if they didnt point radially, the charges would move. They keep moving until all field points radially, and so the charges stop moving: equilibrium
It's important to be able to define the vector direction as well, otherwise you can get in a pickle with signs. For example, Potential is MINUS the integral of F.dl, this is because the vector dl points in the direction of decreasing F (towards infinity), and so if you move in direction of increasing F, you are moving against dl, the minus sign is there to compensate. I think of it like the integral of F.-dl from one point to another....where -dl is now the vector in the direction of increasing potential! All fixed